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boys never call
so my boyfriend who is really afectionate never calls. he used to call, but ever since we started going out he has stoped. i no he stil likes me but i feel liek i dont ahve a boyfriend because he never makes much of an effort to contact me. so anyadvice on what i shoudl do or why he is doing this.
and yes i no hes buisy, but it doesnt take much time to quickly check p on someone if u really care for them
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well...let me just say, you're not the only one who is going through this problem. I think guys, when they start dating get a little confused with their emotions. For example, my guy, didn't like to talk everyday (yea...i know...i thought it was weird) but when we were friends, he had no problems talking everyday. I think guys really need a break every once in awhile, and talking to their gf on the phone is away to get away from them physically but not verbally. So, what i would do is not call him and let him just have his time. Eventually he will come around and realize that he misses talking to you on the phone. Good Luck
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Hmm.. Maybe call him and get him in the habit of tlaking on the phone with you. (Dont call too much though, you may look too desperate.)
Or you could always just tell him how your feeling. Say how it would be nice if he put in some effort of contacting you.
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you definitely need to find a time to invite him to a romantic dinner or something and talk to him about how you feel. he'll change if he really loves and cares for you! good luck!
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i would call him everyday and i would also tell him how you feel if he tells you hes busy everyday ( i mean every once in a while i understand ) tell him well i dont wana break up but if your to busy to talk to me why do u like me??? please email me i like to know wat if done worng/right at xoxobrunnette044@aim.com or IM me at xoxobrunnette044!
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ok you see i know guys i have lots of guy friends and a boyfriend and i know exactly how you feel. you see most guys are scared to call if there you boyfriend like they want to but they don't know what to say . here are some of the things that run threw a guys phone before you answer before the even dial. what if i dial the wrong # should i try again and cheack the # what if her mom answers as he is looking for your # what if she askes me if i have her # memorized should i say yes or the truth he finds your # i reallly want to call her but what do i say hello hi what ^ hey baby what what if i say hey baby and its her mom or her sister what if she is not home do i leave a message ok well i will juust cal and see what happens he dials the number it ring and rings i don't think she is home but what if i hang up rigth when she picks up what if she is out of town it ring it rings finaly it stops ringin they say the first thing that comes to mind eather HELLO or hello softly or hey or is ____ there. its you they are relieved for a second what do i say what do we talk about. you see they wory about the same things we do just somtimes not as much some times more try callin him a couple of days in a row then say hey call me tomorrow or later tonight ok then ask if he knows your # if he does or doesn't still give it to him and then go from ther ehope i helped.
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How old are you? This isnt meant to be offensive but if youre 14 or younger, guys are a little dumb at relationships. They sometimes are just too lazy to pick up a phone and call you (I know that sounds bad.) But, you have to take into consideration that maybe he really IS busy. And not running around all the time, but needs some time to himself. Its good to have time apart from each other anyways. Especially, if you see eachother at school or during the day. If he doesnt make ANY effort to work in the relationship with you at ALL, then talk to him and tell him how you feel.
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Well guys will be guys and he probably tells himself he will call you but then forgets
I think that you should call him every once in a while .. not to much or he'll think your obbsessive... but i dont htink hes doin this on purpose he probably just forgets
You could jsut be like 'Hey call me tonight' after a conversation wiht him
You could write hin a note during class that says hey call me tonite or sumerhting
But if you really are concerned jsut go up to him and be like hey you never call meand i was wondering if something is wrong and he should get the point that you want hin to call
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i hate that soo muchh ! most guys usally do this.. i have no idea why but its soo annoying.. but most guys dont like talkig over the phone.. my guy friend said that he thinks its boring and he doesnt like spending hours on the phones like girls do.. but then when guys do call all the time its sooo annoying..
but yeah haha..
yeah but next time you talk to him instead of him hangin up you should say.. k im gunna go ill talk to you later and all that stuff.. and then hang up.. guys are really weird.. cause then when your talking to them they really dont talk about anything interesting.. they usally watch a tv show and keep asking you what your doing.. which is annoying haha.. uhh i like went way of the topic but i answered the question haha
hope i helpedd
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