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[+]i love horses and my dogs
[+]i love to have fun
[+]to enjoy myself
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[+]to give advice to my friends who often need it
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Gender: Female
Member Since: January 4, 2006
Answers: 2
Last Update: January 4, 2006
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ive been dateing this guy for 3 months now and he doesnt know im a vrirgin! he thinks i am! i told him i wasnt because i felt he wouldnt want me if he knew i was a virgin! ive leid to him so much about my sex life its not even funny! do u think its possible to have sex with him and he not know that im a virgin?
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ok, first of all if you want to have sex with him, it means you're moderately serious. But to have a serious relationship in which you have sex means you have to trust each other, and you can't lie to each other. You have to tell him the truth. If he gets mad, let him be mad for awhile and then try to calm him down. If he breaks up with you, you shouldn't have sex with him if he bases things on whether you're a virgin or not.
Hope this helps and remember the key to a good relationship is to be honest with each other!
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i am 15 and female and i have been going out with this guy and i really like him ALOT and i love him to death and he says he loves me too, i like the the whole kissing thing but he wants me to use my tounge and i am a bit scared, [i havent ever kissed like that before] Phe was my 1st kiss ever} and i think we might be going to fast because he wants to do more but i am not ready, but every1 else is losing it, but i know im not gonna do something just because every1 else is its just he wants to, but i kinda do too but i just dont know if i am ready......
plz HELP!!! i will rate high for any answer...
siqned,
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Dear love sick puppy,
He sounds like he likes you alot, and by wanting to do more than you think you're ready, he's trying to show it, which means if you just tell him that you feel he's rushing it, he will probably understand.
Remember be gentle when you tell him, like if he's trying to kiss you in a way you aren't comfortable, stop him gently and tell him you're uncomfortable and ask him if for right now at least you guys can take it a little slower.
And remember it's your relationship with him, it's not anyone else's relationship so what they do has nothing to do with what you do. You should never feel pressured to do what you don't want to.
If they was to mess up their bodies (not saying they will) that's their desicion and their body not yours.
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