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how can u tell if a girls a virgin or not
ive been dateing this guy for 3 months now and he doesnt know im a vrirgin! he thinks i am! i told him i wasnt because i felt he wouldnt want me if he knew i was a virgin! ive leid to him so much about my sex life its not even funny! do u think its possible to have sex with him and he not know that im a virgin?
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Sex is best when shared between two people who both want it, can protect themselves, and are in a considerate and caring relationship. Losing your virginity is often an experience people will remember their whole lives - either as a big regret, or as a really good memory.
Before you consider the sex, maybe you should think about whether or not you would want to take this big step with someone who you thought would reject you for being a virgin. If you decide yes, then you need to think about whether or not you want to tell him the truth before you do it.
The truth can never turn around and bite you in the butt. Lies, however, can.
It would be fairly obvious to anyone who has had some experience that you are a virgin. Sex is likely to be anything from a bit uncomfortable to quite painful for the first few minutes. There is also the possibility you will bleed.
These things generally do not happen with someone who is not a virgin.
Best of luck.
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ok, first of all if you want to have sex with him, it means you're moderately serious. But to have a serious relationship in which you have sex means you have to trust each other, and you can't lie to each other. You have to tell him the truth. If he gets mad, let him be mad for awhile and then try to calm him down. If he breaks up with you, you shouldn't have sex with him if he bases things on whether you're a virgin or not.
Hope this helps and remember the key to a good relationship is to be honest with each other!
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