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I cheated on him.
I have a boyfriend who I am quite happy with, although he lives miles away because he just went off to uni. However I also fancy my best mate and vice versa (we are both bi) and last night, we kissed. Its not like we have never kissed before, but its usually been more... arranged or friendly, but this was because we really wanted to, little alcohol involved.
I dont know what to do now, because I kindof want to be with my best friend, but i dont want to split up with my boyfriend. And i feel like shit because I dont even feel bad that I cheated on him, more that i feel bad because i have so little concience.
Help me! What do I do?
Sorry its so long.
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If you didn't feel bad about cheating on your boyfriend your feelings for him have changed and they are stronger towards your best friend. You cannont stay with both of them because one way or another they will find out and you will end up alone and hurt, so will they. I think you should tell your boyfriend what happened and take it from there. Tell him exactly what you felt and what took place. Sometimes it is best to talk it over.
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first you have to figure out which one you want to be with, if you choose to be with your best friend, while you're breaking up with him just tell him about it, its not so bad, but if you want to be with him, all you gotta do is tell you you kissed your best friend after drinking, most guys wouldnt get all bent up about it but if he does, just apologize...thats all you can do, he would forgive you im sure
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Well i have had that feeling before and i don't like it either. But when a new guy came along and i liked him better than my boyfriend but i liked my boyfriend a lot then i just followed my heart. You see, you could go out with your best friend but when you break up you might not be friends again. But if you really feel comfortable and trust your best friend then you should break up with your boyfriend. Just follow your heart!!!!!!!!!!!
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Ask yourself if you are truly attracted to your best friend, or is it just curiosity of being with a woman. Figuring that out will ease things for you.
Alcohol may have been involved, but untimately, you are responsible for what you do, sober or not.
You really do need to tell your boyfriend. Relationships don't last if there isn't trust and honesty in them. Don't fret about what might happen. Usually what you think will happen, won't happen.
I wish only the best for you. Good luck.
Ms Ask Me
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You can't always have your cake and eat it too.
Fess up with your boyfriend. Tell him what you did and that you want both of them. He might just make it easy on you and dump you. Then you wont have to feel so bad because you'll have been punished for cheating and you can cry it out and then go off happily and pursue your best friend.
Or maybe both your boyfriend and your best friend will be open to some other sort of relationship where you will be able to have both of them, if that is really what you want.
This might all seem a little cold, but if you refuse to choose between them, and can't search deep in your soul and figure out what you really want. Then let them decide what they want, and see where you stand in the end.
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