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hmm...my name is jody...im 15..i go to turner high school...its gay there and so are the people but w.e...i guess...lol...i have thee best friends anyone could ask for...i got black hair...no im not goth..nor do i look it...im not into all them stereotypes...im not goth, punk, prep, ghetto, or any of that good shyt...im just....me!...lol...my life is going pretty good right now! well...i guess you could ask me just about anything...ill try to answer as many questions as i can! ok? ok....luv yas!

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I really like this guy and he told my friend he thinks im cute and he knows that i think hes cute yet he still hasnt said more than 10 words to me. My friend takled to him about me and he acted ike he really liked me because we have alot in common but now he jus stares at me and smiles but he wont say anything and thats whats confusing me so much! HELP!!!

hes probably shy to talk to you (thats a good sign that he likes you A LOT..or could)...write him a note or something...or talk to him...that would help.

xoxo hope i helped!

♥ JoDy

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I have liked this guy for like 2 years straight and we've gone out about a million times and everytime we go out i end up breaking up with him because of dumb reasons. I have a boyfriend now but i still kinda like the guy and i recently found out that one of my so called "best friends" was telling him that she wanted to fuck him.. I'm not sure what to do about it do i confront her about it or just leave it alone because i have a boyfriend n i shouldnt care

that comes to my next problem. i dont know why i still care if he talks to other girls and stuff its like i really like my boyfriend but the other guy is always in the back of my mind.. wut should i do?

1st of all...no you shouldnt be mad about yer friend at all...you're not with the guy so you can't really worry about it...but if you still like this guy...maybe you should talk to him?...or something...cuz maybe he still likes you to....

xoxo hope i helped!

♥ JoDy

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Holding a grudge isnt the best to do. But what happens when something really just ticks you off and you can't help it. How do I get rid of a grudge without having to say sorry first? I mean what if it wasnt my fault?

sometimes you have to hold grudges....there is nothing really you can do about it, and if it ticks you off bad enough, then you have a right to hold a grudge, people say it's immature, and childish, but really, it's not

♥ Jody

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okay well theres this guy....and its kind of a long story but me and him were talking and he told me he loved me and everything..but then i found out that he had another girl and he denyed everything and said he was never talking to me and yeh all that good shyt...well we didnt talk for another 4 months almost and then we talked one night and he said he was sorry for lying and then he got on his cell phone and called that other girl (i was talking to him on his house phone) and i could hear him yelling at her and saying he didnt want to be with her, then after all that he came back and said sorry for making me wait and he told me he broke up with her, two days later this girls friend told me they were still going out. so instead of letting him lie to her again we called three way..and i didnt talk to him for another almost 4 months again..and we started talking...and recently things have been getting WAAAY better... and he tells me he loves me again...but then somtimes itll switch between each day and it seems like he doesnt even want to talk to me or anything...and yeh...i really love him with ALL of my heart, but im not so sure because he doesnt even want me TALKING to guys or hanging out with them or anything...i think this is kind of wierd because after what he did, im not sure if he still talks to girls or not, and i promised myself if he does it again im done with him, but does he have any reason to not let me talk to other guys (we dont go out) and should i still be with him after all that drama and lying??

i need help with this PLEASE!?



♥ Me

stay with him, the same thing happened to me, and im in the same position that you are, im staying with him...and i dont mind, and it depends on wether or not you like him talking to girls, after what he did....id think not...so if you dont like him talking to girls, he has a right to not want you talking to guys

xoxo hope i helped xoxo

♥ Jody

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When i shave uh "down there" why does it get really itchy and bumpy. it sometimes hurts really bad, is there something that i am doing wrong?

you might be shaving to often, and you might need to use some sort of shaving cream or at least soap if you're not already doing that

xoxo hope i helped xoxo

♥ Jody

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i know it's early to be worrying about this, but having an idea will help me sleep at night. really. haha.

i've been with my boyfriend for two months now. i've never had a boyfriend for valentine's day. do i give him anything? if so, what?

also, what would you expect to get FROM a guy?

thanks so much.

roses or a teddy bear or both but you two havent been together for long so id think one or the other otherwise a box of candy or somethin

xoxo hope i helped xoxo

♥ Jody

p.s. what to expect from a guy...they might get you something along them lines to but maybe a diamond necklace or something or a ring...i dunno but some guys are assholes and dont get you anything....but i dont think he would be like that otherwise you wouldnt have been with him for 2 months

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I have a boyfriend who I am quite happy with, although he lives miles away because he just went off to uni. However I also fancy my best mate and vice versa (we are both bi) and last night, we kissed. Its not like we have never kissed before, but its usually been more... arranged or friendly, but this was because we really wanted to, little alcohol involved.

I dont know what to do now, because I kindof want to be with my best friend, but i dont want to split up with my boyfriend. And i feel like shit because I dont even feel bad that I cheated on him, more that i feel bad because i have so little concience.

Help me! What do I do?

Sorry its so long.

first you have to figure out which one you want to be with, if you choose to be with your best friend, while you're breaking up with him just tell him about it, its not so bad, but if you want to be with him, all you gotta do is tell you you kissed your best friend after drinking, most guys wouldnt get all bent up about it but if he does, just apologize...thats all you can do, he would forgive you im sure

xoxo hope i helped xoxo

♥ Jody

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i have a friend who moved here last february & we have become really good friends. i mean really close...we can talk to each other about things that i don't think i could even tell most people. i just feel like i am missing something, because i don't know about her past. i know she has a dad, stepmom & stepsister (her stepmom has been married to her dad for only a little over a year but they are luckily very close). however, i have no idea what happened to her real mom. she has never mentioned her ever...i don't know if she's dead, if her parents are divorced, or what. it never use to bother me, but now that we are so close i just feel like i should know something. i know that she proabably has never mentioned her for a reason (she might be sad or angry perhaps?) but as her close friend i feel like i should be able to know somehting. do you think i should bring it up? if so how would you go about doing that (and if something bad happened with her mom i really don't want her to get upset or angry). do you think it is appropriate for me to say/ask anything at all? if you were in this situation would you ask?thanks!

its okay...if you guys are REALLY close....when you're talking to her, just bring it up one time...all you gotta do is be like "where is your mom?" or something like that...if she gets mad at you for asking just apologize

xoxo hope i helped xoxo

♥ Jody

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Is it weird that my boyfriend comments all of my friend's pictures on myspace, yet doesnt comment any of mine? Backround info : He really liked this girl last year. However, he is a great bf and we have good chemistry together.

yeh that is kind of wierd

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ok umm...this is kinda weird...but is it like totaly wrong to think that my cousin is like INCREDIBLY hott? like...he came to vsit for christmas and iwas practicallly druling over him and like...is it bad that i would totaly want to go out with him if i was older and not his cousin?

sorry its kinda akward

~*me*~

noo thats fine, i think some of my cousins are cute....but if you SERIOUSLY want to go out with him or date him, no effense, but thats just wrong. but other than that...theres nothing wrong

hope i helped

♥ Jody

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ok i have been sexualy harrasded when i was in 2nd grade by a 14 yr old and when i was in 5th grade i like to watch movies about girls beign raped and sexualy harrasded im not a lesbion i like to read books about it too i know i am not weird i htink i liek this stuff becasue what happend to me when i was younger it was very hard to deal with and it took along time to be comfortabel even seeign his face i woud run away and cry in my room but now i just give him a nasty look but i have nit seen the kid who harrasded me when i was in secound grade we had a restreaning order against him i just need back up do you think that is y i watch these movies and read these books hope you can help

i dunno probably...but i dont think ive ever been harrassed or anything...i love watching and reading about that kind of stuff to!

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hey guys, after your period, when is the best time to have sex if you WANT to get pregnant?
22/f

anytime...but MAKE SURE your period is OVER...you could get a virus if its not

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Okay, I'm moving to Maryland, and I've recently become obsessed with this guy I'm gonna meet there. I know I'm going to fall in love with him, and I half have already. I don't know who he is, what he looks like, or anything. I just know he's there.

Am I insane? Ridiculously desperate for companionship? (I'm really not.) Or can there be truth to the words "I loved you before I ever met you."?

lol you're not insane! and you're NOT desperate either...but you dont KNOW you're gonna fall in love with him...he could be a TOTALLY different person than you thought..ya never know!

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My friend told me her doctor said it is possible to get your period while your pregnant once or twice. I would guess she means in the earlier stages of pregnancy, but im wondering if thats true. Also, lets say you had unprotected sex and then 3 days later got your period which lasted for about 2 and a half days, is it possible that you are pregnant or is it certain you are not?

actually...you could be pregnant still...i know this girl who got her period 6 months out of the 9 months she was pregnant..and she barely bloaded either...its always possible

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