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a grudge?
Holding a grudge isnt the best to do. But what happens when something really just ticks you off and you can't help it. How do I get rid of a grudge without having to say sorry first? I mean what if it wasnt my fault?
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sometimes you have to hold grudges....there is nothing really you can do about it, and if it ticks you off bad enough, then you have a right to hold a grudge, people say it's immature, and childish, but really, it's not
♥ Jody
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Then don't apologize: forgive.
Basically, it's a matter of letting it go. Easier said than done, of course. It's not really something that anyone can tell you how to do; it's something that you have to work through for yourself. Personally, what I do is realize my mistakes in the matter, and avoid making them again. Even if the mistake is just trusting another particular person.
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hey! holding a gruge isnt a great thing right! i remember a held a gruge with one of best friends and trust me it isnt the right thing, she cried alot, and it hurts me to even think about it. but listen who ever sh is you need to confront her about your problem, go and tell her what ticked you off and she needs to stop and if she got mad at you dont leave her tell her that you dont want your relationship to rift ( or to loose your friendship) and that your telling her from a friend points of view. its better to know from you then froma ny stranger who will hurt her feelings! right? she has to understand that are things that she has to know when to stop. but hey heres a great idea, i usually do with ma friends or sisters. we sit in a circle and name the positive and negative things about each other and we usually try to work out our differences. this will really help!!! trust me!
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bye!
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ok not knowing much of what happened im going to give you my best advice. If you feel that you dont need to apologize than dont. Talk to the person about it, and yes i no sometimes tlaking to the person about it is really hard. Its hard for me, but if your not sure about it you really need to talk to the person it involves.
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