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aah! so here is the deal!! i once read in a magazine about a girl who got sexually harassed by her teacher. and im like oh i feel so bad for that girl, but i never thought about it happening to me. well i hate to admit it.. but it did. this is what happened: i needed extra help in math so i told my teacher about it (lets call him mr. a) and hes like oh why dont you stay after class today i have no meetings and i was king of hesistating cause thursdays are busy for me. but he was like insisting and it was kind of awkward and i felt uncomfortable rejecting it so i did stay after school. when he told me to sit down next to him at a table, i did. and by the way the chairs were a little to close. the whole time he was helping me he always tryed to get good excuses to get close to me. not actually saying stuff, but like syaing "ok lets go over the steps .. *nudge close, nudge closer* then after we started talking and he asked me what my favorite classes werwe and i told him, and hes like "what do you think about the sex unit in health" and in my head im like "WHAT??"so i said awkwardly.. "um yes its good." so out of the blue.. hes like "ever wanted to have sex" and i said "i dontknow.." hes like "want to try it with me" i got creeped out at that i felt like crying.WHAT SHOULD I DO?? PLEASE HELP. i'm so confused, im afraid of going to school or even walking in the halls cause i might bump into hiM!!!! (link)
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OMG! that ***** b***** ..freak! you go to straight to the priciapal's office and tell him and if he doesnt belive you or what ever!
get a tape recoreder hide it in your coat or whatever pretend your making a move or have a friend video tape it outside with out him knowing k? and pretend your making a move and then tellhim "remeber what you told me before" and hesw going to say yes and then you would be like well look a the camera..then run out hahaha....that would be fun hahahahaha! not im just kidding that would be a nice movie but you should tell your parents and let them file a law suit for sextual harasmment you might not be the only girl he tried to hit on , youll probably help the others to speak up too! you do what you can NOW!!!!!!!ok!
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K so about a month ago Mr. X (who doesn't know I exist) walked across my PE class to get the the basketball court outside. Usually we have people walking in and out all the time so it wasn't so odd. Other than that, I barely see him around school. I took a PE class to meet him maybe but he is in a more advanced class.
So today, I went inside his PE Class and was playing hoops when he walked in and looked at me with a suprised expression on his face and asked his friend "Is this the ------- right class?". I didn't understand why he would say that because usually people walk into the gym and play all the time.
So my friend and I moved to the outside courts and started playing hoops in the rain. There was only a guy at the edge of the court, trying to tie his shoelaces. Other than that it was just me and my friend. Then Mr. X walks outside with his friend and stands at the edge of the court with his friend, dribbling a soccer ball with his feet. Anyways, he just stands there for like 10 minutes, dribbling and talking to his friend. It was odd because everyone inside was playing ball and he led his friend outside to where me and my friend were playing.
Sorry if this is long but is he interested maybe or...? I rate 5's. (link)
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oooohh..i see love sparks...no i really dont hehe..i think he probably does cmon why would he wanna dribble a ball in the rain infront of you..maybe hes crazy or maybe he does feel something! but you know what i think that he shouldve watched his manners! you need to go up to him and tell him that you didnt wanna say anything before but you arent a ........ and tell him that he should watch his mouth next time, i know i know its too bold but listen you have to #1 because he cured at you for no reason
#2 he'll realize how brave you are to defend your self
#3 he'll then notice you, you wont be just that girl whose played in the wrong court ..no ...youll be the girl that went up to him and talked back and hon he'll so notice you and if you dont wanna do it ma way theres another way play agian in that court and this time if he says anything talk back and this time you wont be too late for telling him whatever. youll be right in time and OMG he'll so notice you!!!!
for me i talk to everyone..lol..hot,ugly i try to make friends with everyone! even the hottest ones in school..hehe...anyways just do what i say hehe..
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im 14/f well like two days ago me and my brother got mugged and well there was three men and one grabbed me by my neck and tried chocking me so i kicked him in the balls when i tried to get back to my brother the guy had his knife on him and his friend was hitting him while the other guy was still trying to hold on to me...anyways my bro told me to run and i did after tht i found him coming back and he was bleeding we were both in a very bad state...and now its two days after what happened and ever since what happened when i come to try to eat this empty feeling is in my stomach and im not able to breath well and i cant eat and my stomach keeps hurting me and i start getting scared every time the dark comes or when i see or hear anything i get shocked and scared really easy my stomach really hurts me and i feel like i need to puke...is this cuz of the shock because before what happened i wasnt affraid of anything and belive me i mean nothing...and now im scared alot and i cant stand to be myself..i think there might be something wrong with me..i just need some advice or help ...thx (link)
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hey! well i belive that your feeling this phobia thing and i dont know what i am sayin cuz your ma sister..looser lol...hahahs
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I have this Friend and she told me this secret about her haveing sex, and well being the good friend that I am I didnt tell any one, but the other person she told told the whole school and now the whole school thinks that its me and now they all like hate me. I dont know what to do she keeps blameing it on me and it wasnt me. What should I do tell the other person to confess, let it be, or talk the friend about it. I am so confused please help me.
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HEY! THAT SUX! go to your friend and tell her that you dont give shit what she thinks of you and tell her that only GOD knows whose lying adn whos honest. make sure she hears you adn bring that other fool with you. tell her that that wasnt the only secret she gave you and that you never blabbed anything out why would it come to this and if she says that youre jeaoulus or something tell her that you would never get jeaolous of a friend and make her feel as if she blamed you and that really hurt your feelings, because she shouldnt have done that!
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Ok im in a screwed up situation. Well there is me and this girl i have known since like september of 2002. OK we have been through our ups and down you know. ANd yeah i have tried hooking up with her but am giving up on that. Well me and her talk on messenger off and on or at least used to. But here lately when i say hey or whatever, soon as i put it and send it to her she say logs off. I talk to her sister cause me and her sister are good friends. And was talking to her sister and she had it online to her sister but offline to me. And this didnt happen til some boy named michael got in the picture and they started talking and going out. But her her sister and her mom are like second family to me. I have no problem with the sister and mom though. I went over to there house last weekend and helped them out you know they let me stay the night alot. And the bad thing is its like some of my other friends are sort of ignoring me to and truthfully i havent done nothing wrong. I been the same ole me and try to be nice. But i am tired of it and am honestly turning into an asshole. My questiong is, does she really care for me like a friend. And what should i do bout this cause its ticking me off. (link)
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hey! ok look i know its hard to like someone and then for no apparent reason they just ignore you but you know what theres one way to know what is really going on! you need to go over there and talk to her about it. but hey what you do is you call up the MOM and tell her to tell that girl to maek her stay home that day(let her mom pretend shes sick or something)and then let the mom call you and then just go over there and ask her what you've done wrong to make her this ignorant. you obviosly dont want her back but you wanna know what you did wrong! so just talk to her adn tell her that your not looking for anythign with her but you wanna understand why shes been that way towards you, when she gives you that answer i want you to go out with one of your friends and enjoy freedom and i dont mean a bar lol...i mean go to a movie you've been wanting to see and have a nice dinner and just try to find someone else, like i always say " theres plenty of fish in the sea" so dun worry dont let her get to you and show her that you dont care for whats shes done...if you haev anything else just to write to me on ma email on good2btrueforu@yahoo.com
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hey..ok this could turn out being kinda long but i really need as much advice as i can get! ok so a long time ago i met this guy through a friend. my friend and him live a long wayz away so i dont see them much, henceforth i have never seen the guy. but from the first time we met on we were like sooo right for eachother. pretty much for a while now we acted like we were going out anywayz, and we told eachother we liked eachother and stuff. so last night he asked me out. and we talked about how we knew we didnt know eachother in person and how it is long distance and stuff, but it didnt seem to really matter b/c things are so different w/ him...so great. so i said yes (of course). but now i have a problem...my mom doesnt know he even exists! i havent said anything about him period and so she will 1. be surprised to know i'm going out with someone she's never even heard of 2. probably tell me not too b/c i've never seen him before and yahdeyahdeyahda. how can i tell her and maker her be alright with all of this??? xoxo (link)
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hey! okay go to your mom and be like" hey mom i wanted to tell you somethign but im afraid if you say no , but b4 say anything i want to tell you that just gimme a min to explain everything" shell end up listening then be like" mom a while ago i met this guy throug (blah) and we ended up talking and mom hes great, (name all the good qualities he has) and im sure youll like him and yesterday he aked me out, adn mom i really wanna go because hes really kind and hes not one of the guys you think that are wrong and stuff but if you get to know him youll like him im sure you will. just lemme go out with him tomorow and youll see what a great person he is but please dont say no. i already said yes and i dotn wanna look stupid for saying no now because hell think im weird..please please please i was afraid to tell you before becasue i was so nervous about your reaction but im sure that youll be a cool mom and be very understand" woah that should work and if she says no... cry anyways tell me what happens bye!
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I have a very big fear of the dark. The thing is Its not beacuse of just a little thing like scary movies or stuff like that. I had a really bad expierence in the dark at a hospital after one of my heart surgerys. I can't go anywhere without a light on or someone close by. Its kinda silly i no but i need help. How do I slowly get over this stupid fear. Im a 15 yr old female. Im too old for this!
help pleae! I ALWAYS rate well!
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hey ..:) ok im 17 and im still afraid of the dark .hehe..but its because also when i was a kid in ma room i had bad experince but youll get over it step by step. sleep with the hall way light on and close your lights and leave the door half way open! youll usually get used to it by the end of the week! but trust me it should work. in my religion before going to bed theres this surah ( and excerpt in the Quran) where when we read 70,000 angels protect us from the time you sleep till you get up and i swear im not making it up! so after knowin that i say it now every night and i sleep well and i dont get that scared ...trust me with the hall way thing it will work
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Well theres this guy at my work ( i work at burget king and im 17) and he hits on me all of the time! The other day he kind of stuck his hand down my pants!
anyone have any ideas how i can stop him from hitting on me all the time?!
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Oh my god! oh my god! i actaully have no words...yea i really do, but listen yell at him and make a scene if he does it agian tell the cops. im 17 too and if a guy did that to me id kick him inthe lower area! seriously do that hes hitting on ya cuz he want be in yar pants and dont let him get the chance too! show him that you dont care about him and im serious kick him there and make a scene and honest im pretty scared for ya because he can do anything listen i want you to keep your distance with this guy ...men are weird horny people take care of yourself seriously
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i am 14 years old and guys just don't seem interested in me. i am a tom-boy and just seem like one of the guys to them. i flirt occasionally but don't go overboard with it. all of the boys at my school see me like their "sister" or the "girl next door" i am really good friends with a group of guys but i am afraid friends is all we will ever be. how can i get them to notice me as a girl who has "girlfriend potential" not just as a friend who is a girl? i am crushing really hard on this boy who has a girlfriend. we flirt and talk sometimes and he acts like he likes me but he is staying with his girlfriend. what can i do to get this guy to see me as a potential girlfriend and not just a friend? thanks in advance! i'll rate! (link)
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hey! iz true your still young and soon theyll notice what a fabulous and fascinating girl you are but lemme tell ya something, my sis is just like ya but i think she more boyish a lil noo ofense because shes crazy!im completley the oppisite i mean completely, i want you to look at your femine side instead of focusing on you muscular part of you! realize your different, make your hair differently dress differently. talk in a different manner, dont change WHO you are but change a cup'le things that might help you in the future youll soon realize that your hiding somethig so great inside..instead of letting the inner beauty in let it out! an soon youll see an amazing person whose ready for love. and about that guy show him you care i guess just tell him and hon im sorry but if he letz ya down , show him that it was only a crush and pretend that you dont care, dont make your self look bad because he said no, it only means that he is faithful! and soon enough youll meet mr right!
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I have this really good guy friend that I've liked ever since this summer. Recentlly I just found out that he's gay, and I was one of the few people he trusted with this. I really want to get over him, but recentlly I've been in denial and thinking that i was just imagining him telling me that, and ive been sleeping a lot more than usual. Is there anyway to get over him faster? I'll rate high for good answers (link)
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hi! oh my god that is so ..sad but funny but sad..hehe ok what you need to do is i guess move on, imagine him kissing other guys thats gross! and imagine you with this really hott guy whos like tall, build, gorgeous hair kinda guy walking down the park and there he is with a guy makin out with another guy...eeeww hahha...ok you need to get out much, go to a friends house chill..go to the beach, do something...oooh go shopping! that will get you busy this advice isnt that good cuz i dun know what you are like but i told you what i would have done!
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My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now. I love him to death. I do everything with him and Hes probably my closest bf Ive had.
Latley though (meaning the last 2 months) Ive notice he's been worring NON stop. I mean I have to promise him everything. He'll ask me if i love him and I'll say of course! and he will ask ... are you sure? do you promise? He always has to re ask me over and over if im going to call him that night or make sure plans are to be w/ him and no one else. We have talked about this worrying thing before and He said he would work on it, but its not getting any better.
Soo guys ... why do you worry? Or is it just my boyfriend. I am one of those girls that can work out anything so breaking up w/ him isnt an option. Him knowing that I dont know why he worries soo much. It HAS TO STOP THOUGH. That makes me more frustrated then anything else about him.
Please get some reason that would explain this!
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hey ...im a girl! but im still giving advice! wow honestly it sounds cute when a guy is worried about the person he loves ..thank god your not the one thats worried hehe..but it sounds like he started thinking about you leaving him for someone else, make him feel that hes special in your life, call him more often buy him gifts. tell him how you feel about him. eventually the worrying should stop, but still confront him and if you see a really hottt guy when your walking with him in the mall. tellhim " you are so much cute then him." even though he might now be ..just kidding. but tell him how you feel about him, that you love him to death and stuff and that your afraid if his worrying would make you start worryin about ruining what you guys have. tellhim that you dont want to, but he should trust you, and that you dont want to hurt his feelings at all!
'that should work out!
take care and hey keep me updated with everything and tell me how it turns out!
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Holding a grudge isnt the best to do. But what happens when something really just ticks you off and you can't help it. How do I get rid of a grudge without having to say sorry first? I mean what if it wasnt my fault? (link)
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hey! holding a gruge isnt a great thing right! i remember a held a gruge with one of best friends and trust me it isnt the right thing, she cried alot, and it hurts me to even think about it. but listen who ever sh is you need to confront her about your problem, go and tell her what ticked you off and she needs to stop and if she got mad at you dont leave her tell her that you dont want your relationship to rift ( or to loose your friendship) and that your telling her from a friend points of view. its better to know from you then froma ny stranger who will hurt her feelings! right? she has to understand that are things that she has to know when to stop. but hey heres a great idea, i usually do with ma friends or sisters. we sit in a circle and name the positive and negative things about each other and we usually try to work out our differences. this will really help!!! trust me!
anything else write me k?
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Ok .. Ive really been wanting this answered but ive been shy.. ive been talking to this guy on the internet.. and @ first he was REALLY rude to me but i just kept playing with him.. funning around.. and well now.. hes liike ive never fallen inlove withanyone and he told me he fell in love with me.. and well we have this thing.. wen he doesnt want to tell me something.. we start a story type thing using "she" and "he" ex: "he hugs her and kisses her on the cheek" well .. ok he lives in alabama... and im really wanting to kno if u shud stop talking to him or not. and hes scared to show me his pictures because his parents beet him .. so he has scars... so i told him i didnt care.. and not hes really shy... well in the begging hes like NO ONE BREAKS MY LEVELS... and i was like wtf.. and he said the lower levels u r the better and so the first days i was on level 9 billion... now sumhow... it has been drasticly dropping.. and i was kinda jealous because he talks about this gilr names shadow an awful lot.. but i shudnt be.. ok just please help me !!! XD
Do i keep talking to him... what do i do? oh yeah .. ps IM 14....and a girl (link)
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hey listen internet love is a freaky thing trust me. your noth sure if this guy is a girl in reality adn besides he can be playing with your feeling. i know this is so going to sound stupid but im 17 and trust me when i say you are young and yes you're seeking for love. but ask your self this Question " do i want love from an internet guy?" be serious! you can meet someone absolutley anywhere. and he says he has scars, thats sad but talk to him more ( as a friend) and ask him to see the scars. tell him that you dont care what he looks like and that you wanna see how he looks and that you wont report anything. and if he insists on not showing it, just stop talking to him about it and move on, and you met him in a game and that girl shadow..she could be a freind right? or hes impressed by her skills it doesnt haev to mean that he likes. listen if ya wanna talk to this guy go ahead but not from the love angle talk in the friendly way and see how it is, maybe Mr.right could be Mr.friend right? you'll probably find him a friend type and hey trust me 3 years from now you'll thank me!
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I want my hair to be less frizzy and big..what can I do?
I have to get a hair cut and get more layers since parts of my hair are dead. I've tried using gel and hairspray but it makes my hair curly.. And that just makes it more frizzier than it was before. I dont know what to use. Is there some product or hair treatment that I can do? It seems like if I try to straighten my hair..it'll poof up. >__ (link)
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hey! my god i love this topic ...anyways my hair was frizzy first..oh wait it still is but less then before what ya need to do is after you shampoo your hair in the shower DO not put conditioner on! after you get out comb your hair really well then take the conditioner and put on the hair rub gently everywhere make sure to get the parts you want and then take a hot soaked towel or a hot thermal headcap ( the plastic ones you know that right) and place it on your head. leave it for atleast 1hr tops. you can take it off anytime you want but for better results leave for an hour. rinse it off and then comb normally. do this atleast 2wice a week ...youll find your hair so much better then before trust me tried it and its amazin.....RATE PLEASE
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I fell in love with my bestfriend (typical). but he used to and still says that he loves me more than he has ever loved a girl in his life. and the other day he told me that he had a girlfriend so obviously i was heart broken. SO appearently he "loves" me only as a friend. yea its confising i kno, geeze. So i just want some advice on how to get over him...like what should I do and places I could go to get him out of my mind, because i really dont want to ruin this friendship. It was just my fault on falling for him.oh yeah i just turned 17 and ima girl and hes 19. (link)
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hey! ok well i know its hard to like someone and they dont have the same feelings towards you. but listen why is happy and your not? why make yourself miserable while hes out there enjoying himself like the other girls told ya go out shop you just turned 17! shopping is fun and hey i bet you have great friends try hanging out more go out party and you know what why dont ya stay off guys for awhile like try to enjoy YOURSELF and only yourself dont worry about anyone else you still have a while ahead of ya to find prince charming. guy will always be guys but you wont always stay young pretty and single. so FORGET ABOUT HIM AND FIND SOMETHING BETTER TO DO!
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