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what should i do.
Ok im in a screwed up situation. Well there is me and this girl i have known since like september of 2002. OK we have been through our ups and down you know. ANd yeah i have tried hooking up with her but am giving up on that. Well me and her talk on messenger off and on or at least used to. But here lately when i say hey or whatever, soon as i put it and send it to her she say logs off. I talk to her sister cause me and her sister are good friends. And was talking to her sister and she had it online to her sister but offline to me. And this didnt happen til some boy named michael got in the picture and they started talking and going out. But her her sister and her mom are like second family to me. I have no problem with the sister and mom though. I went over to there house last weekend and helped them out you know they let me stay the night alot. And the bad thing is its like some of my other friends are sort of ignoring me to and truthfully i havent done nothing wrong. I been the same ole me and try to be nice. But i am tired of it and am honestly turning into an asshole. My questiong is, does she really care for me like a friend. And what should i do bout this cause its ticking me off.
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I think she got the hint that maybe you liked her more than a friend and she's just trying to ignore you cause she doesn't feel the same way. unfortunately she not going about it right. next time you see her ask her what's going on and then tell her that she's been acting weird and demand a straight answer or you think your friendship will not last because of her sudden behaviour. she'll tell you what's up with her attitude.
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hey! ok look i know its hard to like someone and then for no apparent reason they just ignore you but you know what theres one way to know what is really going on! you need to go over there and talk to her about it. but hey what you do is you call up the MOM and tell her to tell that girl to maek her stay home that day(let her mom pretend shes sick or something)and then let the mom call you and then just go over there and ask her what you've done wrong to make her this ignorant. you obviosly dont want her back but you wanna know what you did wrong! so just talk to her adn tell her that your not looking for anythign with her but you wanna understand why shes been that way towards you, when she gives you that answer i want you to go out with one of your friends and enjoy freedom and i dont mean a bar lol...i mean go to a movie you've been wanting to see and have a nice dinner and just try to find someone else, like i always say " theres plenty of fish in the sea" so dun worry dont let her get to you and show her that you dont care for whats shes done...if you haev anything else just to write to me on ma email on good2btrueforu@yahoo.com
bye!
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im going to be completely honest if shes acting that bitchy to you and ignoring you she cant care for you like a true friend...a true frend should be the no metter what the circumstances!
hope i helped!
mucho love<3
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When you tried hooking up with her, did it end badly? If so, maybe she's hurt and angry over something you did.
Since you didn't mention that it ended badly, i'm guessing that you two were able to remain friends.
Now, it seems as though she's giving you the cold shoulder for absolutely no reason. Normally, if someone was acting that way to you, i'd say simply forget them and move on. But since you're so connected to her, and her family, find some time to take her aside face to face and talk to her.
Ask her what's going on and why she won't talk to you that much.
If she opens up, then work on your friendship with her from there. if she doesn't open up, I'd personally say just don't bother with her. If she's been ignoring and avoiding you while you are hanging out with her family, let her keep doing the work of avoiding, and just enjoy the friends you have.
Whether she cares for you as a friend or not, don't let her change you into something you don't want to be. Find a friend that treats you like a friend.
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