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i am 14 years old and guys just don't seem interested in me. i am a tom-boy and just seem like one of the guys to them. i flirt occasionally but don't go overboard with it. all of the boys at my school see me like their "sister" or the "girl next door" i am really good friends with a group of guys but i am afraid friends is all we will ever be. how can i get them to notice me as a girl who has "girlfriend potential" not just as a friend who is a girl? i am crushing really hard on this boy who has a girlfriend. we flirt and talk sometimes and he acts like he likes me but he is staying with his girlfriend. what can i do to get this guy to see me as a potential girlfriend and not just a friend? thanks in advance! i'll rate!
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Well I'll start off by saying that boys your age are really stupid, lol. They're blind, and can't see a good thing when it's in front of them. Now if you want them to notice you, you're going to have to start making them notice you. Dress up nice once in a while...maybe once a week. Put on a dress, or just put some really cute looking jeans on. Do your hair, let them know that you're a girl, and like girl things just as much as you like boy things. That is all you could do really, because I don't think you should change who you are for them, which is why you also shouldn't change you're clothing style, but it's nice to dress up once in a while. Trust me when you're older this is a good thing, guys love girls that can be one of the guys.
Now about this guy thing, keep in mind he has a girlfriend, and I don't think you would want to break them up. But they'll eventually brake up right? lol and so make sure he notices the days you dress up. Keep flirting with him a little, especially when you dress up, and when he breaks up with his girlfriend, move in for the kill ;)
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hey! iz true your still young and soon theyll notice what a fabulous and fascinating girl you are but lemme tell ya something, my sis is just like ya but i think she more boyish a lil noo ofense because shes crazy!im completley the oppisite i mean completely, i want you to look at your femine side instead of focusing on you muscular part of you! realize your different, make your hair differently dress differently. talk in a different manner, dont change WHO you are but change a cup'le things that might help you in the future youll soon realize that your hiding somethig so great inside..instead of letting the inner beauty in let it out! an soon youll see an amazing person whose ready for love. and about that guy show him you care i guess just tell him and hon im sorry but if he letz ya down , show him that it was only a crush and pretend that you dont care, dont make your self look bad because he said no, it only means that he is faithful! and soon enough youll meet mr right!
bye!
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A lot of guys your age just aren't ready for serious girlfriends yet. Girls mature much faster than the boys.
You are already friends with them. One of these days they will open their eyes and say "Hey! shes a girl!". Give it some time. They will notice. :)
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