I have this really good guy friend that I've liked ever since this summer. Recentlly I just found out that he's gay, and I was one of the few people he trusted with this. I really want to get over him, but recentlly I've been in denial and thinking that i was just imagining him telling me that, and ive been sleeping a lot more than usual. Is there anyway to get over him faster? I'll rate high for good answers
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? firefox answered Sunday January 8 2006, 1:13 am: hi! oh my god that is so ..sad but funny but sad..hehe ok what you need to do is i guess move on, imagine him kissing other guys thats gross! and imagine you with this really hott guy whos like tall, build, gorgeous hair kinda guy walking down the park and there he is with a guy makin out with another guy...eeeww hahha...ok you need to get out much, go to a friends house chill..go to the beach, do something...oooh go shopping! that will get you busy this advice isnt that good cuz i dun know what you are like but i told you what i would have done!
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Linds063090 answered Sunday January 8 2006, 12:05 am: What you have to do is name at least 10 qualities you like about this guy. If you can't name 10, then you're probably better off anyways. If you can name 10, look for someone else that has those same qualities, or 10 other qualities. The last option would to tell him how you feel. I know its easier to say it now, then when you actually get infront of the person to say it! But...seriously you should think about these, because why waste you're time with someone who isn't all that interested in you?!?!? It may sound depressing but sometimes you just have to face life. Hopefully it helps. Write to me if you want to talk...
miikelaxsays answered Saturday January 7 2006, 10:44 pm: dangg. thats suckss.
BUTT. there is a way..
one way. is to find a new guy.
that way you have this NEW dude to think about instead of the old one. this is gunna sound stupid. but in this one show i use to wtach the samee thing happened to this girl ellie. and her she got over him and went out with this hottie bad boy. hehehe. so youll get over him evenutally
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Bailea answered Saturday January 7 2006, 10:21 pm: Err..
This is a hard one.
I guess the way i get over guys that i realy like is that i think about the bad things about him.In this case,hes gay. Find another guy and like him so that you get your mind off of your friend.
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