hey..ok this could turn out being kinda long but i really need as much advice as i can get! ok so a long time ago i met this guy through a friend. my friend and him live a long wayz away so i dont see them much, henceforth i have never seen the guy. but from the first time we met on we were like sooo right for eachother. pretty much for a while now we acted like we were going out anywayz, and we told eachother we liked eachother and stuff. so last night he asked me out. and we talked about how we knew we didnt know eachother in person and how it is long distance and stuff, but it didnt seem to really matter b/c things are so different w/ him...so great. so i said yes (of course). but now i have a problem...my mom doesnt know he even exists! i havent said anything about him period and so she will 1. be surprised to know i'm going out with someone she's never even heard of 2. probably tell me not too b/c i've never seen him before and yahdeyahdeyahda. how can i tell her and maker her be alright with all of this??? xoxo <3
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? firefox answered Sunday January 8 2006, 1:55 am: hey! okay go to your mom and be like" hey mom i wanted to tell you somethign but im afraid if you say no , but b4 say anything i want to tell you that just gimme a min to explain everything" shell end up listening then be like" mom a while ago i met this guy throug (blah) and we ended up talking and mom hes great, (name all the good qualities he has) and im sure youll like him and yesterday he aked me out, adn mom i really wanna go because hes really kind and hes not one of the guys you think that are wrong and stuff but if you get to know him youll like him im sure you will. just lemme go out with him tomorow and youll see what a great person he is but please dont say no. i already said yes and i dotn wanna look stupid for saying no now because hell think im weird..please please please i was afraid to tell you before becasue i was so nervous about your reaction but im sure that youll be a cool mom and be very understand" woah that should work and if she says no... cry anyways tell me what happens bye! [ firefox's advice column | Ask firefox A Question ]
jessjess answered Saturday January 7 2006, 12:28 pm: First of all,in your question,sometime you wrote that you met him and sometimes you say you didn't meet him.Well,if you met him just go and ask your mom if you allowed to date.If she said yes ask her if you can go out with him,but if she said you can't,make him come and visit you and make your mom see him.And your problem is solved.
But if you never met him,meet him and make him come to your house.
Ok then,bye [ jessjess's advice column | Ask jessjess A Question ]
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