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CREEPED OUT!!
aah! so here is the deal!! i once read in a magazine about a girl who got sexually harassed by her teacher. and im like oh i feel so bad for that girl, but i never thought about it happening to me. well i hate to admit it.. but it did. this is what happened: i needed extra help in math so i told my teacher about it (lets call him mr. a) and hes like oh why dont you stay after class today i have no meetings and i was king of hesistating cause thursdays are busy for me. but he was like insisting and it was kind of awkward and i felt uncomfortable rejecting it so i did stay after school. when he told me to sit down next to him at a table, i did. and by the way the chairs were a little to close. the whole time he was helping me he always tryed to get good excuses to get close to me. not actually saying stuff, but like syaing "ok lets go over the steps .. *nudge close, nudge closer* then after we started talking and he asked me what my favorite classes werwe and i told him, and hes like "what do you think about the sex unit in health" and in my head im like "WHAT??"so i said awkwardly.. "um yes its good." so out of the blue.. hes like "ever wanted to have sex" and i said "i dontknow.." hes like "want to try it with me" i got creeped out at that i felt like crying.WHAT SHOULD I DO?? PLEASE HELP. i'm so confused, im afraid of going to school or even walking in the halls cause i might bump into hiM!!!!
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you should deff. tell a teacher or counciler or parent or adult about thiss its serious becausee even though if you tell someone (which i strongly encourage you to) it may be akward but what he did isnt right your a minor and you want to get away from mr a because sure its embarresing to tell an adult but girls have been in the same situation and regreted not telling someone. so please tell a counciler or parent!
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If this is really true you need to tell your parents or a trusted adult or the school counselor. Know your facts though because these are VERY serious allegations. I'm not trying to make a liar out of you by any means but I just want you to know, if your story changes or you are being untruthful.. this is a situation where jobs can be lost and lives can be ruined. Good luck
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Sounds like a weird guy. Tell your parents immediately and have them call the principal.
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OMG! that ***** b***** ..freak! you go to straight to the priciapal's office and tell him and if he doesnt belive you or what ever!
get a tape recoreder hide it in your coat or whatever pretend your making a move or have a friend video tape it outside with out him knowing k? and pretend your making a move and then tellhim "remeber what you told me before" and hesw going to say yes and then you would be like well look a the camera..then run out hahaha....that would be fun hahahahaha! not im just kidding that would be a nice movie but you should tell your parents and let them file a law suit for sextual harasmment you might not be the only girl he tried to hit on , youll probably help the others to speak up too! you do what you can NOW!!!!!!!ok!
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He definately overstepped his boundaries. Tell someone right now. Your school's guidance counselor, principal, mom, dad....You wouldn't want him to do this to someone else would you? Don't be afraid sweetie and if for some reason you cant find the courage to do this get a friend to say someone told her or write a letter and slip it under the guidance counselor's door.
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oh gosh im so sorry !! If I were you i would automatically tell the principal or a teacher you really trust. You NEED to let someone know because this could get out of hand !!! So im advising you YOU NEED TO TELL SOMEONE !! And the way he said that it could be called sexual harrasment !
Hope I helped ♥
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Wow, yeah I agree with what cheburashka said, you need to tell someone, whoever you feel most comfortable talking to. You wont feel comfortable at your school if you just leave it alone, and school is supposed to be like a second home. Besides, what if he's done this before? Or what if he does it again? Someone needs to know what kind of person he is before something REALLY bad happens. Be brave, do what you have to do.
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wow, i know how you feel, something similar happened to me, though my teacher didn't directly say anything like that. i regret not having told anybody... i'd recommend talking to your school counselor, or your parents - whichever would make you feel more comfortable. you do need to do something about it because it may affect your grades (either because of him or because you'll be too nervous to pay attention in class and you won't be able to come for tutoring), and also because you should warn the school when there's a teacher like that among their faculty.
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harraser. thats what that teacher was tell parents or anyone you can trust. and be sure to tell the principal of the school. he'll be fired, it will keep it from happenning to anyone else.
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Tell your parents what happened. Let them deal with it.
It isn't anything you are going to get in trouble for. A teacher has no right to ask those kinds of things or even suggest them.
Mom and dad will know how to handle it. :)
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