I have this Friend and she told me this secret about her haveing sex, and well being the good friend that I am I didnt tell any one, but the other person she told told the whole school and now the whole school thinks that its me and now they all like hate me. I dont know what to do she keeps blameing it on me and it wasnt me. What should I do tell the other person to confess, let it be, or talk the friend about it. I am so confused please help me.
amandax33 answered Tuesday January 10 2006, 5:54 pm: Go talk to your friend about it, I mean thats really immature for her to blame you and then not ask you before she gets all worked up over the wrong thing. That other girl shouldn't be scared and fess up, She got herself into the mess , She can find her way out. Talk to the girl that the rumor is about and tell her complete honesty and im sure she will understand if she is a true friend. The whole school has no right to get mad at you. It's not about them so they shouldn't be involved. Im sure everything is going to be fine
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xox_cutebrunette answered Tuesday January 10 2006, 10:17 am: i think that you should go up to the friend and talk to her about it just sit down with her and be like "look it really wasnt me, dont you think by now i would confess?" and if you know who the person is that told than i think that you should tell her who it was because you shouldnt be getting blamed, now that proves that she isnt a true friend because she would believe you when you tell her that it wasnt you, i hope it works our,hope i helped,
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skater answered Tuesday January 10 2006, 8:08 am: ok well you go up to this friend and tell her what really happened and then go and start shit with that other girl and make her pay for what she did and what the hell brung the school into this woukdnt they know who started the rumurs those idiots dont they know who tells them rumurs what the hell and if your friend still doesnt belive you then she not a real friend and tell her next time she feels like a constipated horny lil bitch dont let her come up to you and tell you so....laterz [ skater's advice column | Ask skater A Question ]
firefox answered Tuesday January 10 2006, 2:11 am: HEY! THAT SUX! go to your friend and tell her that you dont give shit what she thinks of you and tell her that only GOD knows whose lying adn whos honest. make sure she hears you adn bring that other fool with you. tell her that that wasnt the only secret she gave you and that you never blabbed anything out why would it come to this and if she says that youre jeaoulus or something tell her that you would never get jeaolous of a friend and make her feel as if she blamed you and that really hurt your feelings, because she shouldnt have done that!
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ThugGirl041790 answered Tuesday January 10 2006, 1:47 am: Damn she just went and blamed you..
Well i would discuss this with her def. bring up that the other person did it..Tell your friend you wouldn`t do that to her..Tell her you was being a good friend and wouldn`t do that to anybody..
I`d also bring up that it wasn`t very fair of her not to blame or confront the other person as well..She should of also did that before jumpin to the conclusion that you did it..
karenR answered Tuesday January 10 2006, 1:30 am: Is she mad at the other person as well?
Doesn't seem very fair for you to take the blame when she told someone else too.
I think you need to talk to her and tell her that. You might also tell her that a sure fire way not to have people discuss your sex life is not to talk about it in the first place.
Maybe you could get someone who was told by this other person to let your friend know who did the telling.
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