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Ok .. Ive really been wanting this answered but ive been shy.. ive been talking to this guy on the internet.. and @ first he was REALLY rude to me but i just kept playing with him.. funning around.. and well now.. hes liike ive never fallen inlove withanyone and he told me he fell in love with me.. and well we have this thing.. wen he doesnt want to tell me something.. we start a story type thing using "she" and "he" ex: "he hugs her and kisses her on the cheek" well .. ok he lives in alabama... and im really wanting to kno if u shud stop talking to him or not. and hes scared to show me his pictures because his parents beet him .. so he has scars... so i told him i didnt care.. and not hes really shy... well in the begging hes like NO ONE BREAKS MY LEVELS... and i was like wtf.. and he said the lower levels u r the better and so the first days i was on level 9 billion... now sumhow... it has been drasticly dropping.. and i was kinda jealous because he talks about this gilr names shadow an awful lot.. but i shudnt be.. ok just please help me !!! XD
Do i keep talking to him... what do i do? oh yeah .. ps IM 14....and a girl
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Uh.. HELLO. he doesnt want to show you pics because hes uhm, some freaky old stalker guy trying to kill and rape you maybe? his parents most likely dont beat him, and if his scars were as visible as he says, social servis's would've taken care of him a long time ago, so yea, he sounds like a total creep...
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You don't even know this kid. I think you should just leave him alone. It might seem mean, but if his parents beat him, he's probably massively messed up inside. Seriously, don't get involved.
Jacki
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it seems as if that hes not sending a picture and hes talking about other girls either he doesnt like you or he thinks you dont like him so hes kinda "throwing you off" if you know what i mean! just ask him whats goin on and stuff..
XO KALIE
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Realistically you aren't going to be more than friends for a while. That doesn't mean you can't keep talking to him and getting to know each other.
If he lives a ways away from you he won't be able to go to school dances with you or go out on dates...things like that. So you can't really be boyfriend/girlfriend at the moment. You can still be friends though and you never know what might happen in the future.
So, if you really like this guy, stay friends and keep talking. Just don't expect it to seem like a romance because it just can't be right now. You can't just stay home alone and wait to meet. You're much to young for that yet. :)
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It could be he is trying to engage you in some kinky cyber sex story telling. If you aren't comfortable with that then tell him you don't like it. Just say you want to be friends but that you just aren't into that kind of thing. :)
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hey listen internet love is a freaky thing trust me. your noth sure if this guy is a girl in reality adn besides he can be playing with your feeling. i know this is so going to sound stupid but im 17 and trust me when i say you are young and yes you're seeking for love. but ask your self this Question " do i want love from an internet guy?" be serious! you can meet someone absolutley anywhere. and he says he has scars, thats sad but talk to him more ( as a friend) and ask him to see the scars. tell him that you dont care what he looks like and that you wanna see how he looks and that you wont report anything. and if he insists on not showing it, just stop talking to him about it and move on, and you met him in a game and that girl shadow..she could be a freind right? or hes impressed by her skills it doesnt haev to mean that he likes. listen if ya wanna talk to this guy go ahead but not from the love angle talk in the friendly way and see how it is, maybe Mr.right could be Mr.friend right? you'll probably find him a friend type and hey trust me 3 years from now you'll thank me!
bye! if you need anything else write ok!
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Chill out and play it cool. If he doesnt want to show you pictures of himself, its his right not to. Dont pressure the poor guy! Tell him youre sorry, and work on being pals again. Again, don't get worked up about it. Its hard, I know, but just keep busy with other things, when he brings up other girls just change the subject,.. be cool :D. and dont ask him to see his picture again until he's ready. he's probably terrified, so give him a break. and remember: cool.
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♥ Okay talking to people that you dont really no online is a tricky one. The thing is, you don't no if hes lying to you or not. He could be messing with you. So i wouldnt get worked up about it. If things get weird or he makes you uncomfortable ... stop talking to him. Only way to stay safe!
write back if you need anything else!
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