My names Jen. Im not really gonna tell you much about me because you can go to either my Xanga (www.xanga.com/x_jenniferlovesyou_x) or to my myspace (www.myspace.com/godsmilesdown) && learn more about me. But I've made enough mistakes in my life, and have been through enough to help some people out a little bit. I can help with Love, Friendship, Family, Sex, Mental stuff (cutting, eating disorders ect.) whichever you need, im here.
Website: Learn from a mistake master <3
Gender: Female
Location: NY
Age: 13
AIM: YessJens on x3
Member Since: January 7, 2006
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Ok, Bob and I met through a mutual friend at the beginning of this school year. He and I hit it off pretty good and we were just friends. Then one day, I was hugging my other friend Jacob, when, I saw Bob. And I was like "Bob, gimme some love." and he came over and hugged me and he was like "I'll gove you some love". Adn then he like humped my leg, but it was really funny and everyone was standing there. Now, I like him and now it seems liek he never talks to me anymore. I don't know what to do. He's a senior and I'm a sophomore. Please give advice. We are really good friends.
***Names were changed*** (link)
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how are you really good friends if you dont talk?...
best thing to do is get over it hun. trust me with this. liking seniors is never a good thing unless your another senior
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whats a good way besides lifting weights to get fat off your arms? xo thank you! much appreciated (link)
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Kick boxxing, and/or boxxing, lifting wights doesnt really get the fat off your arms, it just makes more musel
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Well I got a job at old navy more than a month ago. I'm going to save my money for a car and college and stuff but I want a cell phone and I don't want it to be too expensive. My sister has sprint but her bill is like 80 dollars a month and when she got it they said it was supposed to be 50...so when her 2 year contract is up she is chaning. So what phone company is the best?? I heard verizon wireless was good...is Cingular just prepaid? Well if anyone can tell me anything about any cell phone company that would be awesome thanks much
Love Heather (link)
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I'd have to say Verison is the way to go with the free in calls, nights, and weekends plan, its like 48 (ish) for the plan each month I believe, thats what I use, Its much better than sprint. I used to have a sprint, waste of money hon. Good luck, have fun with your phone..
And i advise you to ask about free text messaging.. And dont get a picture phone, its totaly not worth it
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okay so i went to the doctor and i have a problem with my knee and have to wear this huge ugly brace over my pants, its big ugly and soo bulky looking. i want to know if people will like point and stare? and will people think its ugly? and is it stupid to be like nervous to wear it in front of people? (link)
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UH, yes its stupid to be nervous.. I'd be more concerned about my health then what other people think, they'll get over it.
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ok I'm on holiday i UK. im from seychelles. im suppose to go back home on Sunday. but the problem is that ive just search for news on the net about my country and i've found out that my very close friend has lost her nephew in a boat accident on the 4th and his brother is in the ICU (i dont really know if his still alive). the accident happened on the 1st.she must be thinking that i dont know. when i go back home i dont know what to do. i mean in the group that we hang out with we are always there for each other. i feel guilty i wasnt there for the funeral plus the girl is still young she is only 13. im just not sure what to say. they always came to me for comfort but now im stuck (link)
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Id say not to worry about it. She's had time to grieve, and im sure she has talked to other people about it. Just try to get home as soon as possible, but when you see her, dont bring it up, wait for her to say something about it. Good luck
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Okay .... well a while ago i cut myself on the top of my wrist and now i have thid huge scar on my wrist.. what can i do to get rid of this scar?!?!?! Give me the BEST one you have that i can buy at like CVS becayuse i will have to get the stuff on my own (link)
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uh. scars dont really go away...but theres stuff to make them less visible.. what can i say. thats what you get for slicin n dicin.. (cutter to cutter)
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K so about a month ago Mr. X (who doesn't know I exist) walked across my PE class to get the the basketball court outside. Usually we have people walking in and out all the time so it wasn't so odd. Other than that, I barely see him around school. I took a PE class to meet him maybe but he is in a more advanced class.
So today, I went inside his PE Class and was playing hoops when he walked in and looked at me with a suprised expression on his face and asked his friend "Is this the ------- right class?". I didn't understand why he would say that because usually people walk into the gym and play all the time.
So my friend and I moved to the outside courts and started playing hoops in the rain. There was only a guy at the edge of the court, trying to tie his shoelaces. Other than that it was just me and my friend. Then Mr. X walks outside with his friend and stands at the edge of the court with his friend, dribbling a soccer ball with his feet. Anyways, he just stands there for like 10 minutes, dribbling and talking to his friend. It was odd because everyone inside was playing ball and he led his friend outside to where me and my friend were playing.
Sorry if this is long but is he interested maybe or...? I rate 5's. (link)
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I dont think so, maybe he brought his friend out to talk in private? and the thing about the right class, who knows, guys are difficult like that :-p
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I used a tampon for the first time tonight. I began to feel a little discomfort afterabout 30minutes to I took it out. However it hurt to take it out; I had to pull pretty hard. Is this normal? (link)
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yep, you most likely didnt put it in right. I used to have the same problem, After the first few times of attemting to use one it wont hurt anymore, but it is comepletely normal :).
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There is a guy who i've just recently became really good friends with this year. Last year he was in one of my classes and we barely talked, but this year we ended up being in four classes together and became really good friends. Plus I found out he lived three houses away from me and we hung out once in a while.
He has a crush on one of my friends, a cheerleader who told me she wasn't interested in him at all and thought he was annoying. He told me she was sending mixed signals, flirting with him then ignoring him. She wanted to hook him up with someone else so he would leave her alone. But she was too nice to tell him that, so she wanted me to hook up with him or at least find someone else to. I was like, wtf? I thought that she was being a little rude when she said that, especially trying to push my friend on me just because she didn't want him liking her.
The next day, he was asking me whether or not he had a chance with her and i debated between telling the truth or saying I had no idea, because on one hand, if i told the truth, he might move on and she wouldnt complain so much , but then I might hurt his feelings. But I finally told him to "get over it" because she thought his actions were annoying and she wanted to hook him up with someone else.
Is what I did right? He seemed a little upset when he heard that she wanted him to go out with someone else, but got over it quickly. I'm afraid I might have hurt his feelings though he didn't say it. Was what i did right? Or was I just meddling in someone else's business? Because if I didn't do anything about it, she would have been too nice to tell him to his face that she didnt like him and keep leading him on. (link)
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I think you could've told him a little nicer... I mean, "Telling the truth without telling all of the truth" kinda thing. "But I finally told him to "get over it" because she thought his actions were annoying and she wanted to hook him up with someone else." Is a little harsh, maybe if you had said she really wasnt intrested, or she was into someone else or something, but i wouldnt worry about it anyway, i mean, boys get over things fast.. most of the time, lol.
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This is definetely not the greatest of questions..Here I go, Im a guy, and for whatever reason Im always extremely horny, I could just have finished having sex, 10 minutes later i need some more, Im pretty sure this is normal, but just in case there is something wrong with me, i figured I would ask. Also ladies, is this something positive, negative, or does it even matter when looking for potential bf material? (link)
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BF material isnt always about sex... Girls Vaginas get tired..unlike your penis... it starts to hurt, so yea, i woudlnt say its the greatest thing ever..
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i like this dude but im scared to tell him. i wrote him a message but then i chickened out and said srry wrong jesse...anyways i go to church with him and we always set by each other...and i cant take it anymore ...pleze help (link)
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Well, I believe the best thing to do is be straight forward about it, tell him how it is face to face, and DONT hold back. Dont get too detailed, just after church one day, be like "hey, i gotta talk to you about something real fast" then just tell him how you feel. I've got to say it doesnt gaurentee you guys will hook up, but at least ull feel better:)
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I can't show up at their dad's because he has remarried and won't speak to me now. He lives in a gated community and has told the kids they can not give me the code. One thing I have never done is bad mouth their dad, infact I made so many excuses for him when they were little. The real problem is that he forces them to do what he wants or he threatens to take their car or cancel their credit cards, so they have to stay in good with him. All through the years I have called him always to let him know about recitals, swim meets, etc. Now that they are 18 he refuses to tell me anything or help keep me involved. Both kids got out of college around Dec 12 and my daughter is not due back for another couple of weeks. My son graduated early on Dec 16th. Through this whole time they came over the day after Christmas and stayed about 10 mintues and my daughter has called a couple of times and said she would try to see me again before she goes back, but I know she won't. I always act happy and cheerful around them, because I don't want them to know how much they are hurting me. When I asked what they wanted for Christmas my daughter said nothing that her dad was getting her everything she wanted. That makes you feel great. My son said nothing, because his dad buys him stuff all the time and there's nothing he wants. He has everything. I have asked them and their boyfriend and girlfriend over for dinner any night just name it, but they won't set a time. I always taught my children to be so independent, especially my daughter. I just said if you are ever alone you need to be able to take care of yourself and afford to do the things you want to, not to have to count on a man. I was never overbearing, so I think because I wasn't they really never respected me. Their dad demands respect. I know they need to lead their own lives and that is exactly what I want them to do and thats how I raised them. But, I never thought that would mean they never would call me or come and see me. I try to go see them and it's never a good time. They both have told me that they don't remember things about when they were younger and things I did with them. My ex does have a thumb on them and thats how he controls them by paying for everything, so I'm not sure that they are totally devoted to him or just don't want to be cut off. My family is just now seeing how they have done me for the first time in several years and can hardly believe they treat me this way. I can only be rejected by them so much then you kinda of put a border around yourself so you don't get so hurt all the time. I just can't live my life trying to find out what I can do to get them to spend time with me or cry about it all the time. It was literally taking over my life. Everyone says they will come around, but in the mean time I am missing out on so much with them. Helping my daughter bring everything home from college, her dad did. I was the only one in my family that got one of my son's graduation invitations a week late. This really hurt my family. Lately, I just sit back and wait. They call once in a while and I will talk to them about whatever they bring up, but I don't ask any questions or butt in. I just say if you need me for anything I'll be here and then just let it go. Any advice on what to do now or am I doing the right thing? I feel like an aquaintance not a mom. (link)
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Maybe your letting them go too easy then? Dont be affraid to show them how you feel. Next time you have them together, sit them down, tell them your feelings. Dont let the idea of them not talking to you ever again and whatnot bother you. Just talk it out with them, and their father. Dont be affraid to cry, or yell, they're your kids, they'll understand..
But again, with the father, remind him you informed him of any, and all important activities you told him about. Tell him it isnt fair, even thou they're 18 years old, you still should have to right to see them, even if its once every one or two months, that you just want to see them every now and then. Maybe this will help, I hope it does... Good luck, ...Dont wait, and write back to me with the results
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Is it better to excercise right after you wake up in the morning or right before you go to bed at night? Which one will give you more results? Also, any advice on what is the best type of excercise to do to lose weight and tone your whole body? Thanks! (link)
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before u go to bed at night, its actually not good to do it as soon as you wake up in the morning :).
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Doesn't matter who reads this, but girls would most likely know the answer.
A friend of mine told me that having sex on the 14th day after your period there's a greater chance of getting pregnant, and sometimes 2-3 days after that too. Is that true? If it is true, is that correct? (link)
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uh, shes retarded. you always have the same amount of risk getting pregnate sweetie. Uhm, anyway, dont worrry about it. wear a condom...2 if you have to, lol
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my children are 19 and 20 and I stayed home with them almost all their lives. I was divorced 11 yrs ago and their father was never active in their lives. Now he is extremely rich and can buy them anything which he does. When my son turned 18 he moved in with his dad. It killed me, but I thought maybe this was a male bonding thing. Then when my daughter turned 18 she moved in with him also. This was a slap in the face to me. Now the are both in college. One local and one about a hour away. They never call or come to see me. I try to call them and make plans with them but they always have an excuse, but they tell me all the stuff they do with their dad. He can afford to do big stuff with them and I can't compete. During their Thanksgiving break neither of them came to see me. My daughter who is away at college said maybe she would get a chance at Christmas to see me. I feel so betrayed and for a couple of years I have cried and become so depressed over them. I have been the one that calls and begs to take them out to eat, cook for them, anything, but now I am mad and over it. I shouldn't have to do this and beg my own kids to see me, we have always been so close...I thought. Now I don't call them or try to see them and have told both of them that I would not be celebrating Christmas or that I would be going out of town. I told them I didn't want to exchange gifts with them this year. Last year at Christmas they came over in the morning for 20 mintues and left. I can't buy as much as their dad, so they just opened my few gifts and left. I have started to prepare a big breakfast for them and they knew it. I live alone and I hate living like this, but I can't cry anymore. I don't know what to do. I want them to respect me and come to see me because they want to, not because I beg. Please help with some advice? (link)
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What you need to remember is that your still, and always will be their mom. Weather they understand this or not now. Show up at their dads one day when you know they're both gonna be there, or just wait, they're gonna end up missing you sometime soon. Well, i hope they do. Good luck with it, sorry im not much of a help, but if i was your kids, i'd end up missing my mommy sooner or later too:-\.
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i'm having a baby girl and i don't know what to name her..i am 6 months..can somebody give me a site or some names to name her..please help (link)
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Trust me, you dont want to give her a name she will totaly hate when she gets older, here are a list of names that i know people absolutely loveeee when they get older, and they are also cute
Jennifer (Jen, Jenny - pluss the teenage ways of spelling it)
Samantha Rae (rae- pronounced ray - can be, Sammi, Sami, sammayy, Sammy, Samie, ect. thats my FAVORITE!)
Elizabeth (Lizzy, Liza, Eliza, Liz, Beth)
And im naming my future girl (when im old enoguh to have a baby that is, lol)
-Spencer
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Hey-
i have looked at so many help sites but still didn't get how to make my own xanga layout! can you give me some more detailed help??
thanx in advance (link)
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Hey, IM me @ YessJens on x3 for help with that. believe it or not i've got my own layout site and stuff :)
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Ok im 14, 15 in 2 weeks, is it normal that i still hwear a 34A? Everyone of my friends has bigger boobs than i do and when im around them i feel like i dont belong and when were around guys they arent looking at me just because i dont have big boobs. Are they just taking longer to grow. or have i stopped growing and this is how theyre going to stay?
Thanks. =] (link)
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Totaly normal, your either not dont poppin them babys out...or they're not growing anymore, i've seen 26 year old chicks who still wear 34A's. trust me, its normal..
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Ok .. Ive really been wanting this answered but ive been shy.. ive been talking to this guy on the internet.. and @ first he was REALLY rude to me but i just kept playing with him.. funning around.. and well now.. hes liike ive never fallen inlove withanyone and he told me he fell in love with me.. and well we have this thing.. wen he doesnt want to tell me something.. we start a story type thing using "she" and "he" ex: "he hugs her and kisses her on the cheek" well .. ok he lives in alabama... and im really wanting to kno if u shud stop talking to him or not. and hes scared to show me his pictures because his parents beet him .. so he has scars... so i told him i didnt care.. and not hes really shy... well in the begging hes like NO ONE BREAKS MY LEVELS... and i was like wtf.. and he said the lower levels u r the better and so the first days i was on level 9 billion... now sumhow... it has been drasticly dropping.. and i was kinda jealous because he talks about this gilr names shadow an awful lot.. but i shudnt be.. ok just please help me !!! XD
Do i keep talking to him... what do i do? oh yeah .. ps IM 14....and a girl (link)
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Uh.. HELLO. he doesnt want to show you pics because hes uhm, some freaky old stalker guy trying to kill and rape you maybe? his parents most likely dont beat him, and if his scars were as visible as he says, social servis's would've taken care of him a long time ago, so yea, he sounds like a total creep...
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i heard somewhere that when you have your period you could lose weight..is that true?? cus that'd be pretty awesome haha =)
thanks!! (link)
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Nah, most girls cant stop eating, craving chocolate, pizza, mcdonalds, what ever food pops in their head, and then being bloated and stuff? def. makes you bigger till its over, and has some wieght ganing effects depending if you had some binging problems. lol.
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