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is she changing??
sorta a complicated question
please give advice asap i need it (14/f 8th grade)
ok heres the people i am going to use in my question
Kelli=bestfriend who i tell everything and which i am very close with and she is mature, less than me, but still mature ( friends since 7th )
Kara= bestfriend who's been my friend 6th grade, WAY less mature than me, but shes deffinately one of a kind..i can't talk about sum things with her that'd i like to
ok in school we have teams, four teachers to a team, and 8 total teachers, which means your on one team or the other, the last two years i've been in classes with kelli ( which means were on the same team ) and the last 3 years me and kara have been friends but on different teams. being on different teams basicly lowered your chances of staying friends..but me and kara pulled through and stayed friends
me and kara really never got into fights, even tough her mom and step dad fucking blow! i hate them, but thats WAY besides the point
me and kelli havn't been talking on the phone everyday, talking to each other a ton @ school, sitting by each other @ lunch, or hanging out really. sumtimes in literacy kelli tottaly ignores me..but yet shes not mad @ me...its hard to explain..it seems as if me and kelli are spliting apart, and she knows too much about me to not be friends! lol
but its really killing me, and i don't like spending the ngiht @ her house bc its gross!
i don't know how to make her not ignore me, i hav ethis feeling like when somebody hangs out WAY too much, they tend to get madder @ each other easier...so i am ''taking space?''
i just want to know how to make this friendship last forever..and did i forget to mention, kelli HATES kara!
that pisses me off..but girls will be girls
please help! i need it!
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
people change.
sometime for better sometimes for worse.
0people will hate each other sometimes for stupid reasons.
from what i can tell you need to find common ground with these people and then explain about how badly you want this friendship to last.
dont let this die out if you can help it.but in the horrible circumstance it does not work you need to see forward not back. going over the past and wishing for it accomplishes nothing.
Solemnstar
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Yes, she's changing. So are you, I imagine. It's the latest fad. Everyone's doing it!
You can't stop from someone changing, so you can't make a friendship last forever. You can try to call her on occasion and you'll probably always think of each other in high regards, but there's no way to stop someone from changing.
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How is this complicated?
You snd Kelli are getting sick of each other. Let her miss you. Same goes for guys. Invite her over in 2 weeks.
I remember middle school "drama"...
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♥ I have 2 best guy friends that hate eachother too ... the thing is Its hard to split up and spend time with both. But they both need to understand that. Continue what your doing with Kelli. Since your not on the same team your spending less time then Kara so at school try and make up for lost time. Kara on the other hand, since you are on the team with her you don't really need to change anything. Girls will be girls but if they truly care about you they wont mind sharing. Your not taking up space. Friends are there to fill in space not take it up! I hope this helped a little :-/
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