Question Posted Wednesday January 4 2006, 11:47 am
okay well theres this guy....and its kind of a long story but me and him were talking and he told me he loved me and everything..but then i found out that he had another girl and he denyed everything and said he was never talking to me and yeh all that good shyt...well we didnt talk for another 4 months almost and then we talked one night and he said he was sorry for lying and then he got on his cell phone and called that other girl (i was talking to him on his house phone) and i could hear him yelling at her and saying he didnt want to be with her, then after all that he came back and said sorry for making me wait and he told me he broke up with her, two days later this girls friend told me they were still going out. so instead of letting him lie to her again we called three way..and i didnt talk to him for another almost 4 months again..and we started talking...and recently things have been getting WAAAY better... and he tells me he loves me again...but then somtimes itll switch between each day and it seems like he doesnt even want to talk to me or anything...and yeh...i really love him with ALL of my heart, but im not so sure because he doesnt even want me TALKING to guys or hanging out with them or anything...i think this is kind of wierd because after what he did, im not sure if he still talks to girls or not, and i promised myself if he does it again im done with him, but does he have any reason to not let me talk to other guys (we dont go out) and should i still be with him after all that drama and lying??
i need help with this PLEASE!?
♥ Me
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Honest_1 answered Tuesday January 10 2006, 9:06 am: Do not give this guy another second of your time! He is a cheat. The reason he doesn't want you talking to other guys is because he is a cheater, and will probably always be! usually when a person is cheating they begin to distrust their partner, this has nothing to do with their partner, it has to do with them feeling guilty. This guy may or may not care about you..you deserve someone who will treat you right and who doesn't get to tell you what to do. In healthy, normal relationships, a person can talk to anyone they like! [ Honest_1's advice column | Ask Honest_1 A Question ]
Xx5So3SiCk0xX answered Wednesday January 4 2006, 11:55 am: stay with him, the same thing happened to me, and im in the same position that you are, im staying with him...and i dont mind, and it depends on wether or not you like him talking to girls, after what he did....id think not...so if you dont like him talking to girls, he has a right to not want you talking to guys
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