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"I loved you before I met you." Can it be true?
Okay, I'm moving to Maryland, and I've recently become obsessed with this guy I'm gonna meet there. I know I'm going to fall in love with him, and I half have already. I don't know who he is, what he looks like, or anything. I just know he's there.
Am I insane? Ridiculously desperate for companionship? (I'm really not.) Or can there be truth to the words "I loved you before I ever met you."?
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I don't know if "true love" would be appropriate. I just believe for "true love" you'd need the entire package, and you don't entirely have that yet. I suppose I would say "deepest infatuation" might be a fine substitute, though. And, yes, I do believe it's possible. Just be careful. (=
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lol you're not insane! and you're NOT desperate either...but you dont KNOW you're gonna fall in love with him...he could be a TOTALLY different person than you thought..ya never know!
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Honey, you are scaring me.
Not your question, I can see how the statement "I loved you before I ever met you." could be true in some sense. We all have the idea or the feeling we are hoping to achieve in a relationship long before we ever find it.
What worries me is it sounds like you are putting all your hopes in dreams on one person, one person who you've never met. It might pan out beautifully for you in the end, or you might end up completely disillusioned in less than 10 minutes.
Either way, don't pin all your dreams on to some phatom guy who might just melt away. Watch out for yourself.
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well i can understand that you could be excited to move and eventually you're going to meet a guy but maybe you have a feeling that you will find someone for you by the way i hope you do.
- - <3 michelle
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It's normal. I love my future husband and my future children, even though I haven't met them yet. It just means that you're a very sensitive person.
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I don't think those words can be true. You might have "lust before you even meet him." But falling in love takes time and requires actually knowing the person. Love is always being there for someone through thick and thin and caring about them more than anything. You can't really do that for a guy you haven't met yet. But who knows, it could be a subconsious sign!
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Maybe your opinion on him will change when you meet him and he is a 50 year old, bald, rapist. Lol, I guess you could love him before you met him. I mean, you have no idea who you are talking to, but you know alot about him and like his internet personality.
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This is an interesting question. I'm not sure so much that you're in love with one specific person, but maybe you've been put through a rough time wherever you are now and are just anticipating meeting some great guy and starting fresh.
I don't think you have one specific guy in mind, I don't know if that would be possible. I think what you do know is that your going to meet a bunch of new really nice guys. I hope you do, and maybe you'll even find the one for you!
good luck.
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