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sexualy harrasded


Question Posted Thursday December 29 2005, 11:43 am

ok i have been sexualy harrasded when i was in 2nd grade by a 14 yr old and when i was in 5th grade i like to watch movies about girls beign raped and sexualy harrasded im not a lesbion i like to read books about it too i know i am not weird i htink i liek this stuff becasue what happend to me when i was younger it was very hard to deal with and it took along time to be comfortabel even seeign his face i woud run away and cry in my room but now i just give him a nasty look but i have nit seen the kid who harrasded me when i was in secound grade we had a restreaning order against him i just need back up do you think that is y i watch these movies and read these books hope you can help

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XXhiddentearsXX answered Monday January 2 2006, 3:50 am:
ya, dont worry that's a normal way to cope for anyone who's been abused in any way. it helps you learn more about why it happened and how others that it's happened to dealt with it. i was abused when i was little too and i read books dealing with that and watch shows like law and order svu and stuff like that too, so i understand what you're talking about. hope i helped!
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TinkerbellsHelp answered Saturday December 31 2005, 8:27 pm:
Well, its fine you read those books and watch those movies. Its your way to cope, i guess. But you might want to pull away from those, and try to forget about ou being harrassed. So maybe you can get over it. I'm not sure if you are or not already, but it might help you more if you kind of push it away from your mind (not forget about it, but dont think about it all the time) And about this guy.. I personally would be so pissed at him, but i would try to ignore him and just not even look at him. This would also help you get over it. Also, talking to a parent or friend would help. And a good cry once and a while is good.
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Xx5So3SiCk0xX answered Friday December 30 2005, 9:25 pm:
i dunno probably...but i dont think ive ever been harrassed or anything...i love watching and reading about that kind of stuff to!

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shopoholicgrl answered Thursday December 29 2005, 1:33 pm:
That could possibly be the reason. Since you feel a connection with those girls in the movies, you feel that you can relate. Hope I helped. =]

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askforanswersfromAndie answered Thursday December 29 2005, 12:32 pm:
ya that is why you watchthem . you can relate to the victom in the movie and its not as bad to other people as it is to you cus they don't really understand exactly that its really that bad. and like you know it really is like that and its just something you relate to
Hope i helped if you need to tlak to some one here is this lady's e-mail address no1left2understand@yahoo.com
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Teza answered Thursday December 29 2005, 12:14 pm:
It could be because of what happened to you, but I also love reading things like that. Nothing like that has happened to me, it's just I like reading things that could & has happened to regular people. Everyone has different tastes in books & if you like to read them that's fine. I also find it interesting and if anything like that happenes again tell someone. You should of when you were younger because he is such a jerk and you didn't need to put up with him for that long.

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