E-mail: jerica8969@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: tennessee
Age: 19
Member Since: January 2, 2006
Answers: 18
Last Update: June 23, 2008
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I was with my boyfriend and i sat on top of him facing him and my legs spread apart so his crotch area was basically touching mine except he wore pants and boxers and i had a skirt on and i wore underwear.he got a boner and then we were just talking when i looked down again his pants were wet in that area... and so i went to the bathroom and noticed that my underwear was slightly wet too.. did he like cum? could i be pregnant? my period is late... (link)
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unless you two actually had sex.. you're probably not pregnant.. its highly doubtful. the sperm has to be inside you away from air where it can live to get you pregnant. i wouldnt worry.
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I want to lose weight so bad i weigh 15 and iam about 5 foot 1 and i've tried everything that i could think of that i thought would help me lose weight and nothing seems to work. HOw much weight do yall think i need to lose please help me any help would be appreciated. thanks. (link)
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you should try a low carb diet. you can still eat a ton of different foods so you wont be hungry like whatever meats you want, fruit and veggies ect. but you cant have bread, sugary foods and other foods that are high in carbs. i usually try to only have 20-30 carbs within the first 2 weeks, and 40 carbs the 3rd week ect. you can set your own limits. it really works for me when i wanna lose weight
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is there a way i can lose 3-5 pounds in a week
my diet is really good but i need some tips on exercises that will work my stomach area and the back of my thighs. thanks.
ps. i dont prefer running. (link)
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have you ever tried a low carb diet? if not you should really try it. you eat as much meats as you want and fruits and veggies and other stuff the only things you cant eat are breads and sugars and anything else that's high in carbs.. i normally only have about 20-30 carbs a day during the first 2 weeks, and you'll lose a ton of weight! squats & lunges are good for your thighs.
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I went to the bathroom - I've always had pain when going to the bathroom but I kind of ignored it. Well today I went and it wasn't painful until afterwards I took a shower and it hurt horribly. Then a half an hour later I felt I needed to go again - when I went to wipe - I noticed blood.
Now I had my period so I didn't think anything of it - so I wiped an extra time in the area where I thought the blood came from - but I hadn't started bleeding again since I took a shower. The blood was coming from "behind" (yes I feel awkward saying that word) And it's a large amount of blood...and I'm very nervous why...
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my friend had a problem similar to yours and something was wrong with her intestines but it wasnt serious.. she just went to the doctor and had everything fixed..i dont know if thats the same as what you're going through but you should deffinatly talk to your mom and see a doctor about it
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I am going on a cruise in 10 days to Cozumel, Mexico. My question is, what is the drinking age on the boat (across seas) as well as in Cozumel? I have heard that on the boat it is 18 and in Mexico the drinking laws are not strictly enforced. I just want a clear answer so i don't wind up in jail ha. I am 18 years old and the cruise line is Carnival if that helps, thank! (link)
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actually you have to be 21 to drink on a carnival cruise and they do ID, but in cozumel its 18 but not strictly enforced just be sure your sober before you try to cross the border or get back on the cruise ship or they won't let you on. & there's no waiver for a parent to sign..at least there wasn't last year. have fun & be safe!
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my dad is a gynacoligist & obstitrician (he delivers babies) so he is up a lot in the middle of the night. he sometimes complains if some one asks him to do something, & he'll be like "I WAS UP FOR 36 HOURS..." blah blah blah" only he yells it and sometimes swears, sort of like verbal abuse. i understand he works hard, but since he complains all the time i was like "maybe you should do a job that doesn't require you to stay up so late & that you like" and he was like " I LIKE MY JOB AND MAYBE YOU SHOULD TELL YOUR MOM TO GET A JOB THAT PAYS AS MUCH AS MINE DOES AND THEN I WOULDN'T HAVE TO STAY UP 36 HOURS" (my mom is a teacher, and she works alot harder then most women, she works all week, then comes home and cooks EVERY NIGHT for all of us, and drives my sister & me everywhere, so she works just as hard as him) and it really makes me upset that he yells and complains when my mom works just as hard, but if i say anything to him he SCREAMS. i don't know what to do, and I feel like he degrades us (my mom especially). any ideas? (link)
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try talking to your mom about it..maybe she could talk to him without him getting so mad. or try calmly explaing to him (when he is in a good mood) how this hurts your feelings and why you don't think it's right. and next time he is screaming about your mom's job remind him that, that's his wife he's talking bad about and that he is supposed to love her. and if he is doing this all the time (im not sure if this is needed because i don't know what all goes on) but maybe he needs anger management..(maybe) , and another thing... teachers work just as hard as anyone else but they don't get paid as much as they deserve! they have a tough job and it's espically harder on your mom because she has to come home and help to take care of her family which is basicly another job itself, and all of that can be extremely exhausting.. but i bet she doesn't complain like your dad does..so try talking to him about all of that. i hope things get better and i hope i helped.
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OK... so...I've been going out with my boyfriend for like 4 and a half months. Weve liked eachother for about a year and a half though. Anyways, to get to the point, I want to know whats "too far"... as far as emotional abuse and whatnot. He has a lot of anger problems, but I definently see why, and dont necessarily blame him. His mom is mean and likes to scream and swear and make her kids (including my bf) feel like complete and total shit. My boyfriend also fools around with his little brothers, and wrestles with them. I think that he treats me like one of his brothers. He is rough with me, and has given me a few bruises. Of course when he realizes he's given me these bruises, he apologizes and feels bad.. but thats beside the point. Also, as much as I love him, when he gets angry, he takes his anger out on me!! I really hate it and feel like screamign back at him when he takes his anger out on me.. but instead, I always take getting yelled at and try to stay calm and help him become calm. Im getting kind of sick of it, but I love him, in fact, I think im in love with him, and I feel like i should be there for him, since his mom doesnt really care.
Just wondering, but am i wrong for thinking that he is semi- abusal?
Like, sometimes i have soo much on my mind.. and my day is just going soo bad.. and it seems like i shouldnt have to deal with his crap TOO.
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ok well first off my boyfriend used to be the same way because he had anger problems too and now he's changed and doesnt act that way anymore so hopefully this will help. i think your bf is acting this way because it's the way he was raised...like thats all he knows how to act because he grew up seeing his mom act that way. you need to sit him down and tell him that you two have to talk and you don't want him getting mad. tell him basicly everything you've said on here like he's too rough with you sometimes and really hurts your feelings by yelling at you, and explain to him that you love him but that if he keeps acting the way he is then you may have leave him. tell him he's becoming his mom and that you've seen the way she treats him and you don't want him to be that way. it is semi-abusive but it can get alot worse if he doesn't quit now. if he doesn't change his ways then you need to break up with him.. at least until he gets better because 1 thing leads to another and before you know it he could be physically abusing you. and you're right you shouldnt have to deal with his crap too!! you could also try convincing him to go to an anger management group..but with a lot of guys..that doesn't work.(including mine.) so i hope i helped you and please take my advice! take care.
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my dad is always really impatient and sometimes he hurts me but i dont know if it would be considered abusing me. the worst time was when he shoved me up the stairs and started smacking me screaming at me and then shoved me into my room and i hit the door..it was horrible. other times he squeezes my arm or twists it so i listen to him. so would this be considered abuse or not? if it is should i do something about it? thanks, i rate high!!! (link)
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yes that's definatly abuse!! you need to get help as soon as possible before it gets worse. try talking to a counceler or if he comes after you again call the cops. don't let this continue it will only get worse and you could get hurt really bad one day so please find some way to get help. i hope things get better for you. be careful and don't let him hurt you.. no one has a right to lay a hand on you.
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okay i dont really like to read but i am going to give it a try do any of you recommand a good book i was reading some book today it was "A Child Called It" and i loved that book so do you know any more books like that and if you havent read that its about a child being abused plz help i rate 5s (link)
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There are books that come after "a child called it" they're in a series. i'm not sure what the titles are but they tell about the rest of his life and are pretty good. theres also this one book that i strongly reccomend you read..its about a girl who's dad raped her and i think its called 'hush' but im not sure if i find it ill send you something saying what it is because im not sure thats what its called but its really good. other good books are
"speak" - about a girl who is raped by someone at a party and called the cops but that ended up getting the party busted up and she ran home without speaking to the cops (all of this happened in the summer) so when she goes back to school all the kids make fun of her and hate her but they don't know what happened to her.
"crank" - im not finished reading this one but its good so far. its about a girl who's battleing with a cocain addiction
"cut"- really good book about a girl who cuts herself and has to get help.
hope i helped and if i figure out the title of that 1 book ill send something to ya.
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can you become gay from being sexually abused as a child?
im not gay, im just asking because my sister's gay and she was sexually abused as a child. (link)
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yes. i have a friend whos dad raped her when she was young and for a while she was gay. well we had a long conversation about it and i found out that she became gay because she was absoultly terrified of guys and couldnt trust any of them. but she somehow changed over a couple of ways and is straight now. has your sister ever gotten help..like thearpy for that? because it really really helps! well i hopped i helped.
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In the book "Speak" by Laurie Anderson .. what r all the problems Melinda faces? like i know she gets raped, nd everyones mad at her for calling the police and breaking up the party .. but other than that .. what r the problems she faces.
Or, whats a good website where I can get a really good book review. YES, i have read the book, and yes, i have tried google. I just need help (link)
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i'm not sure how to answer your question since its been a while since i have read the book, but a couple of things to help are.. 1 there is a movie on that book that you could watch and a greak place for book reports is Http://www.sparknotes.com
hope i helped!
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hey im a really horny girl.i think about sex a lot. im not a virgin. but my bf is and he thinks i am. what should i do.i dont want him to know. but we agreed to communicate. i want to be sexual with him but i dont know if he is ready. and i dont know what to do to tell him both things. im not a virgin adn that i watn to have sex. not becuz im horny cuz i no i love him. i didnt loose my viginity to willingness either. just to help. and i dont know if i want to tell him that. we have been dating a while. i was 13 when i raped then again wheni was 15. me and him have dated since i was 13 and i never told him. we r now 16. what should i do
ill rate so high
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ok well i was in a situation similar to yours before so ill tell you what helped me. well i was raped when i was younger to but i never told my b/f( we started going out when we were 13 too and are now 16..ha.) i finally decided to and it brought us so much closer together and he helped me through all that. i really think you should tell him, he will more than likely understand why you hid it and want to help you out with that. after that it may bring you two closer together, and when it does, then you can worry about bumping your relationship up a notch. just ask him if he's ever thought about having sex or something like that and play it by there. well i hope i helped!
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ok i have been sexualy harrasded when i was in 2nd grade by a 14 yr old and when i was in 5th grade i like to watch movies about girls beign raped and sexualy harrasded im not a lesbion i like to read books about it too i know i am not weird i htink i liek this stuff becasue what happend to me when i was younger it was very hard to deal with and it took along time to be comfortabel even seeign his face i woud run away and cry in my room but now i just give him a nasty look but i have nit seen the kid who harrasded me when i was in secound grade we had a restreaning order against him i just need back up do you think that is y i watch these movies and read these books hope you can help (link)
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ya, dont worry that's a normal way to cope for anyone who's been abused in any way. it helps you learn more about why it happened and how others that it's happened to dealt with it. i was abused when i was little too and i read books dealing with that and watch shows like law and order svu and stuff like that too, so i understand what you're talking about. hope i helped!
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Does making out have to contain using your tongue?
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no you dont have to. it's more of a personal preference.
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My boyfriend and I have been going out for 1 month,tomorrow.We have been planning on going to the movies, but neither one of us thought about it being our anniversary. I just now remembered.So, I'm just wondering if I should get him anything for it? or what?
any help would be appreciated!
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well really you dont have to get anything but if you want to i would get a card with some candy, something that isn't expensive but still shows you care.
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okay i feel realli depressed right now i guess you can put it. well i was on my myspace and i was looking at my friends pictures and came to my ex's picture and i dont no its just i think i still like him but i have a bf now and i dont realli love him but he says he loves me all the time and i just say it back not to hurt him but im not sure what to do anymore i no 4 a fact my ex doesnt like me anymore and never will angain we went out like 3 times already idk i just dont no what to do anymore ive been trying to deal with it but i cant :( can anyone help?
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i think you should take some time out for yourself. dont worry about having a b/f right now. just try to figure out how to get past all of this and maybe spend some time with your friends and try to have fun.
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i know it's early to be worrying about this, but having an idea will help me sleep at night. really. haha.
i've been with my boyfriend for two months now. i've never had a boyfriend for valentine's day. do i give him anything? if so, what?
also, what would you expect to get FROM a guy?
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if you want to give him something i wouldnt make it a really expensive gift.. maybe a shirt or something?? or take him outsomewhere..like to a movie. and some things you could expect to get are maybe flowers,chocolates, a teddy bear..something like that.
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what exactly does it mean to be friends with benefits? like what is different about it than being b/f and g/f? thanks (link)
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if you have a friends with benefits you can fool around..like a b/f and g/f would but your not tied down..like you can be with other people too.. and your realationship probably isn't as serious as a b/f g/f relationship would be.
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