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im not sure if this would be considered abuse or not


Question Posted Sunday December 18 2005, 9:17 pm

my dad is always really impatient and sometimes he hurts me but i dont know if it would be considered abusing me. the worst time was when he shoved me up the stairs and started smacking me screaming at me and then shoved me into my room and i hit the door..it was horrible. other times he squeezes my arm or twists it so i listen to him. so would this be considered abuse or not? if it is should i do something about it? thanks, i rate high!!!

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XXhiddentearsXX answered Thursday January 5 2006, 1:47 am:
yes that's definatly abuse!! you need to get help as soon as possible before it gets worse. try talking to a counceler or if he comes after you again call the cops. don't let this continue it will only get worse and you could get hurt really bad one day so please find some way to get help. i hope things get better for you. be careful and don't let him hurt you.. no one has a right to lay a hand on you.
<3 jerica

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tootsierollsweet999 answered Tuesday December 20 2005, 11:03 pm:
well yes i would deffenatly call it abuse and yes i think you should do something about him no one has the right to touch you do somthing call the cops the next time he does something like that tell the cops you father is out of control and they come .then if they make you goto a guidence consler say i love my father but he needs to stop hurting me im getting to scared to go home .........................or somthing like that

take care of yourself !<3
.::katie::.

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lalathepinkbunny answered Monday December 19 2005, 1:01 pm:
its not abuse, your dad just takes out all your anger on you. My dad the same thing, but i hit him back so he stoppes. If he continues to do it hit him back, that will let him know that you wont take it anymore. At first, he might hit you harder or whatever, but if you keep up with it and keeping fighting back then he will eventually stop.

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PinkPrincess42 answered Sunday December 18 2005, 10:36 pm:
Child abuse is the infliction of physical harm. This is definately one of those cases. I wuoldnt immediately go to a counselor, without talking to my father first. Tell him how you feel about his physical harm. Maybe this will make him see that he does lose his temper and can become violent. This may cause a change. However, if the problem persists, or gets worse, you should definately seek help in a school counselor or another adult! Hope this helped!
&hearts;Emily

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Help_Now answered Sunday December 18 2005, 10:27 pm:
You need to talk to someone about this as soon as possible, because that is child abuse. No matter what you say or do, you shouldn't be hit thrown around or treated like that. If you think talking to your dad will anger him to that kind of degree again you need to talk to another parent, a school counsler, or anyone you can trust who will take action. That's not safe and if you let that continue it'll only lead to worse things.

&hearts; Help Now

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babygirl14 answered Sunday December 18 2005, 10:10 pm:
It is abuse and you should do somethin about it now.If this continues than one day he may really harm you.You should go get help right away.Don't let him know though or he may try to stop you in the worst way possible.Be careful and good luck!!!!!!!!!!=/

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sweet08dreams answered Sunday December 18 2005, 9:56 pm:
anything that is hurting you in anyway is abuse. no father in this world has any right what so ever to hurt their child. my advice to do something about it right away! you do not deserve to be treated like that at all. talk to someone around you who you trust and can help you with the situation, most likely an adult.
i hope everything works out but please do something quickly before you really get injured or maybe even hospitalized.
ox Heather

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DeadMemories answered Sunday December 18 2005, 9:53 pm:
Yes, Thats Child Abuse. Get Help From someone imediatly!! Please Cause I don't like it when people get hurt. My dad one time called me stupid and me and him almost fought. But Get HELP!!! PLEASE!!

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mn731 answered Sunday December 18 2005, 9:46 pm:
Yes, this is abuse. Seek help from another guardian/counselor immediately.

Child abuse is defined as the physical or psychologoical maltreatment of a child.

Don't just sit there and take it. Maybe talk to him about it if you're up for it? If he doesn't stop, please consult another adult. You shouldn't have to deal with this.

Drop one in my inbox if you need more help.

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XoXoSwEeTbLoNdIeXoXo answered Sunday December 18 2005, 9:39 pm:
umm i think it is kind of considered abuse i think you should talk to a conslor like your school concilor... well i hope i helped if you have anymore questions drop one in my inbox XoXDonna

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