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jordyn.rocks@gmail.comGender:
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January 30, 2005Answers:
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My name's Jordyn (with a 'Y'), I'm 14, and live in lil gay old DE. I'm a really shy person untill you get to know me.. or untill I get to know you. When I'm 18 I'm moving back to California for collage, in LA where I was born. Wow. Only 4 more years. I really, really love meeting new people. IM me sometime? LETS PARTY IN LA ♥. And of crouse, I love to give advice. So askk away, and I'll do my best to answer
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how do you hide the details section next to your pics like the age and place and female, those stuff find me one that works please =[[ im begging you ive been looking for it my whole week
http://freecodesource.com/index.php?page=myspacegenerators/hide-sections-generator
this will show you a myspace page. just click on exactly wht you want to hite then click on 'generate code' and it will give you the code and tell you where to put it to hide what you want to hide.
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why does everyone have one now?
lol is it "in"?
i want to convice my mom, or my dad into getting one for myself and they always say no because were in a family plan for cell phones under Sprint. i have no job i dont want one yet and since christmas is coming up soon i really want a sidekick. and those things cost alot just to even get one; same with the monthly bill right?
do you have a sidekick?
i wanah know what its like having one :)
like what do you do on it?
I have a sidekick 3 and I love it. Obviously you can talk on it, you can sign onto instant messangers like AIM, Yahoo!, and MSN... you can get on the internet (I usually check my myspace on it), you can put music on it from your computer, you can recieve e-mail on your phone and it can take pictures. It costs $20 a month for unlimted texts, e-mails, IMs, and internet acess then you have to play for a plan so it depends how much of a talker you are and how many mintues you'll need for how much th bill will be. Because I'm always in touch with people on AIM I get the fewest amount of mintues and my bills about $60 a month. Good luck convincing your parents!
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My parents.. well i donut even know what to say about them! My mom's awesome. She works hard and brings home the money. In fact she OWNS the salon she works at. My dad on th e other hand works at a golf company with metal and stuff. Because we're Asians who came to America without an education. so basically i have a lot of weight on my shoulder as the oldest child and the only one who may even graduate from MIDDLE SCHOOL. Anyways moving on. My dad's cheating on my mom STRAIGHT OUT no lie. And well i know.. because he droped so many hints its like he thinks im STUPID. he had a secret cell just for him and her and he had the bills mailed to his MOM'S house. my grandmother. and i don't know how he got her to agree into letting him guess he brain washed her. anyways. he talks on the phone in the backyard a lot because he knows we're all too old to go out and play there now. and my mom knows too. but she doesn't want to break the family apart. and just starting in august i told my mom what I've been seeing everything. and she tells me she knows! and they start fighting a lot now. they fight all the time in his room. for fact they're even fighting NOW. i don't know what to do. i have a baby sister thats too and a 9 year old little brother. and i myself am ONLY in EIGHTH grade. i have so much responsibilities at home like laundry and cleaning and my mom cooks. she barely has time to sleep. she goes to work from 10 to 7 at night and her shop is in San Diego which is a 45 min drive away. im doing my best but I'm also letting my grades slip. i want to do well in school but i want to help my parents too. HELP?
and then my dad what can i do? my mom actually wants to leave but my dad wont PAY for child's support. and the money he earns motherly is all for the casinos around here. I'm scared. what if our lives all start failing? and whats the point?? his money isn't do any good for us now WHY DO WE NEED IT? i'm so scared. i cry all the time sometimes i cant stop crying at night and watch tv until my face dries up. my sister is 2 she has asma when she was a newborn we had to watch her so carefully or shed stop breathing. we have medication and stuff for her. and i dont know. what to do because im scared for her. i bet some conseloour people online who helps me but i dont think its working. my parents have no idea what im feeling right now. and my teachers dont either. when i go to school im this cheerful little asian girl whos always lauging and smiling because i do im so cheerfull but when i go hme i feel like soemone slaped me in the face with all their might. the only person whos seen this happen is my best friend C. who lives up the street from me. and when i go to my friends houses im so jealous of them too. my dad used to be so nice and now this other person changed him. and we even think they have kids together. i dont know waht to dooO!!!!!
Wow. Usually in some sort of way I can relate to alot of things on here but with this I can't say I know where you're coming from because I've definitely never been put in that situation but I can imagine how hard it is on you. The best advice I can give you is at school goto a counselor. They could possibly help you or get you and your faimily professional help. Family couseling sounds like that's exactly what your family needs. It's important you talk to both your mom and your dad and let them know how you feel because without you saying anything they don't know. Tell your mom you can't stand seeing your family fall apart like this and how much pressure it's putting on you when you're only in 8th grade. Something needs to be done about that. She is the victim but she has children to worry about so she can't just let it go. Tell your dad what he's doing is wrong and if he doesn't realize how what he's doing is hurting everyone and going to affect everyone, let him know. I know it's your dad and I don't want to talk down on someone in your family but he doesn't sound like a good man. Your mother really needs to leave him. I know you say that he wouldn't pay child support but it sounds like your mother is the only one supporting this family anyhow. Also, if you take him to court about it he's going to have to pay child support or he could get his licence taken away, or goto prision. It's not going to be easy if your dad leaves, but at the same time it'd be a relife. But as I said before, when you're in school goto your counselor and see what you can do. I wish you the best.
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suppp guysss :D.
well it's time for me to get a new phone, and i honestly have no idea what phone to get! i've always wanted a sidekick, but im not too sure if i want one now, i heard there coming out with a sidekick 4...anyways
i saw the razr 2 and i LOVE it =D.
butt i also like the ENV, by verizon.
im just asking your opinion, which phone do you like better ? or what phone do you like, if i didn't mention it.
thanks BUNCHESSSSSSS for your help!!
I have a sidekick 3 and I LOVED it. If you're big on texting and like to be online alot it's great. I got it mostly because I travel alot so it makes it easier to keep in touch with people. I could always talk to my friend on AIM and type fast and easily. But if that's not something you're huge on I woldn't really suggest it. They also break easily and wear easily. I have pieces that have fallen off and button's aren't as sensative anymore. I've only had it for a little less than a year. But I agree with you about the raze 2, love it. Very cute and has everyhting on it. Camera, video, mp3, and way cute. Get that one ! haha
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Okay, I know I do this a lot, but whatever.
What's the name of this song?
"What I really want to say,
Is I'm sorry for the way I am.
Never meant to be so cold.
Never meant to be so cold."
That's all I remember of it, but I heard it a couple times last year, now it's stuck in my head.
Go figure.
Anyway, I 'preciate it.
The name of this song is Cold by Crossfade. Whenever I'm trying to figure out what a song is and I know some of the lyrics to I just type part of it into google then write 'lyrics' at the end and that should tell you.
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Omg I did something really bad and I'm aware of it I just talked a little too much about this girl in my class to this kid who knows her and I'm soo sure he's going to go tell her all I said and make me and her fight over all of this and I know its my fault and I know I shouldn't of said anything bad about her in the first place but I wasn't thinking I don't know what to do and I'm sure he already told her ! I mean he said he wouldn't but he's done it before which is why I don't trust him I know stupid right? Omg I don't know what to do I don't want any problems especially on my first month back to school ! Helllpp!
Since this guy said he wouldn't say anything to her and there might be a chance he really didn't you need to try to talk to her before he gets the chance to. Go up to her and just tell her that you were angry and said some things about her that will probably get back to her that you didn't mean. Let her know you don't want any problems with her and that you're sorry you said anything about her. Make sure you tell her too that it's only the beginning of the school year and you're sure neither of you want any drama with eachother already. I'm sure she'll see it your way and be understanding. Usually when you clear things up with people and don't have a problem with eachother anymore it gives you a chance to get to know eachother and you could become good firends.
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If you call the crisis hotline, is it completely anonymous, or can the replace things to your parents?
Thank you.
When you call crisis hotline it's completely 100% confidential bewtween you and the person you are talking to. They can't goto your parents or tell anyone else.
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What does wishing on 11:11 mean?
Haha I love 11:11. It simply is a time to wish on that's supposed to make your wish come true because all 4 numbers are the same. I've wished on it befor and my wishes have come true ;).
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My boyfriend hasnt talked to me for like three days. he wont answer my texts or anything so i decided i was going to go to his house and make him talk to me and tell me what was going on so...I txted him and told him that i was coming to his house and he was like no and i was like yea what ever im coming and i only told him so that way if he wasnt there he would tell me before i got to his house so then he told me that he was going to lock the doors so i couldnt get in then i told him that i was going to knock and he said his mom wouldnt let me in then i was like ill tell her its important and he was like no and i was like yea and then i was like corey are we breaking up and hes like 'i dont know' and i was like how dont you know and he was like ya i guess i was like omg are you for real ad he didnt say anything then i got really pissed off and walked my ass over to his house...not good...i was like corey whats going on and he said he didnt know if he wanted to break up with me but he liked the way it felt to not have to talk to someone everynight...i was sitting there thinking you dont talk to me every night you havent talked to me for three days!! but i love this boy so much and we didnt even fight so i dont know why this was so random? should i just let it go or should i try to get him back? and how do i do that if yes
15F
He's saying he's not sure if he wants to break up, and he's being very stand offish about it so ask him if h thinks taking a break from the relationship for a little while is okay with him then when things seem right you can go back out again. Let him have some time to think, and you might even find something better for you between that time because it's not right that he won't even talk to you. But if he is eventually willing let him know you still have feelings for him and ask him what he thinks you two should do to work it out and compromise on something. Good luck with it all.
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16/F.
My 2 best friends have been going out since the summer (don't worry, it's a guy/girl....) I'm really happy for them & all, but sometimes it gets annoying, because whenever I do get to spend time with either one of them (since they're constantly with each other), we always end up discussing the person's bf / gf. They are always asking, "So what does he/she say about me??" & I always end up having to spill the juicy, mushy details of all the "oh she/he's so hot" & all that. I feel less like their friend & more like their spy now! It really makes me feel used. So, my question is... is it wrong for me to want them / encourage them to break up (I know that seems kind of selfish, but....) or what am I supposed to do about this? I rate 5's for non-crap answers. ;)
Don't try to break them up, because if all they can talk about it eachother they clearly really like eachother. And trust me, they're not trying to use you. They're your best firend and they would never, ever intentionally try to do that to them. Simply next time eacho of them bring it up let them know how you feel about it, and everything will work out. Promise.
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it might be long but i need serious help..
heres our convo:
kimmie (12/27/2005 12:28:27 AM): hey
jeff (12/27/2005 12:28:33 AM): hey babe
jeff (12/27/2005 12:28:39 AM): how waas chrismat?
jeff (12/27/2005 12:28:44 AM): chrismas**
kimmie (12/27/2005 12:28:52 AM): alrite
kimmie (12/27/2005 12:28:55 AM): had better
kimmie (12/27/2005 12:31:25 AM): how was yours?
jeff (12/27/2005 12:31:31 AM): it was aok
jeff (12/27/2005 12:31:33 AM):
jeff (12/27/2005 12:31:48 AM): well if you was here it would have been betta
kimmie (12/27/2005 12:32:13 AM): why you say that?
jeff (12/27/2005 12:32:31 AM): christmas you know
jeff (12/27/2005 12:32:36 AM): gettin 2gether
jeff (12/27/2005 12:32:39 AM): bein happy
kimmie (12/27/2005 12:33:07 AM): jeff stop talking like that you dont even like me like that anymore
jeff (12/27/2005 12:33:39 AM): :(
i had reason to say hwat i did we live 2000miles away from eachtoher right now and the last 7 months he has never mentioned anything bout him caring or liking me. he got mad and upset wiht me and ignored me and i tried to get him to talk he did but he said he was not going to talk to me about anything tonight. he said i make it impossible for him to even tell me how he feels. i dont know how i do that but idk. i love him with all my heart. And i wish i could taek back what i said because i want him back to talking to me. ive tried to say stuff to him but he just tells me not tonight.. this lasted 3 hrs and i stayed tehre every sec. of it. hes gone now and i dont know what to say to him. shoul di wait till tomorrow or whatever and see what he wants to say to me.? what should i tell him i really dont know how to apo;ogize ive tried sorry and i love you but neither seems too work..
Please help try before 4 pm tomorrow -12/27-
thx*
Wait it out till tomrrow because he said not right now, which means he's still willing to talk.. just give him some space as of right now. You weren't wrong to say what you said just to him it might have been a little bit of a shut down the way it came out. When you guys start talking again let him know what you said you weren't saying to intentionally hurt him and you didn't mean it like him and that you do care about him alot. But wait till he's listenting to what you have to say. Good luck with everything.
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I am 16/F. At home I don’t use panty or any thing underneath to feel relax . I feel uncomfortable always wearing so many things, my skin not so good with elastic materials. Few days back I was alone at home in my room wearing frock, no panty. Door bell rang , my uncle was there. We were sitting in living room on opposite sofas and have a chat on various topics as he visited almost after two months. After about one hour suddenly my mind sparked and I realized that I was without underwear and uncle must have seen my private parts. So I swiftly change my sitting position. Uncle left the home after half an hour. This incident was worst for me. I am feeling embarrassment as my uncle might think about my acts and character. Please advice me what should I do for my piece of mind. Should I explain my uncle the situation.
NJ
Chances are he probably didn't see. You would have right away noticed his eyes wondering, trust me. So there's no need to bring it up unless you really do feel he saw anything, which if he did he probably would have said something too which he didn't. So don't be worked up about it, just watch what you wear next time aorund family.
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ok im going to a basketball game today with my friends & idk what to wear..like should i wear a long sleeve, a hoodie, hair up, hair down, hair straight, hair curly, make up, no make up, etc etc. if you have any ideas let me know.
thanks!!
Go pretty casual. Wear your hair how ever you would normally wear it, wear makeup if you would on a normal ocasion, and jear jeans and a t-shirt as if you were just going over a friends to hang out for a day. Nothing special. =)
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My guy friend and I are both 17 and we've known each other for about 11 years now. He a good friend and everything but sometimes he says things too me that really hurt my feelings.
The other day he was at my house and we got bored and decided to go to star bucks. Well I had just gotten out of the shower so I just had my hair up in a bun and I had very little make-up on. As we were leaving he turned to me and said, "You're going out like THAT?" So I was like, "Yeah, why?" Then he told me that he thought I could have atleast tried to make and effort to look good. How mean is that?
He also feels the need to tell me when I need to start working out again, when my hair needs to be re done, he even tells me that I "look like shit" when I'm sick.
It's great that he feels that comfortable around me and all, but a lot of stuff he says is really mean and makes me feel like crap.
What am I supposed to do?
I've had friends who have been like that towards me, and I've been like that towards my friends. You guys have been friends for so long that he's so comphortable with you saying things like that he doesn't suspect it to hurt you because he's just use to it and says it without thinking too much into it. There's different ways I've experianced it being handled. Holding it in and letting it all burst out at once which can become emotional, ignoring it completely and have it lead to nothing except feeling like crap, or actually sitting him down and talking to him and be like I love you, and you're my best friend but I just wanted to let you know there's some tension and it's bothering me so I just want to talk about it so it can be set straigt. You do that you'll be even closer than before. Trust me.
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there is this one girl danielle i cant stop thinking about we used to be friends and went out but we broke up then we stoped hanging out for a while but then some guy hit her and i relized how much i still liked her so i went and beat him up pretty bad (concussion hospital) but that led to some consequences like got arrested suspended broken knuckle suspension from school lawsuit but i liked her in such i way i didnt care what happened and then we were real close for a while but one day she stoped talking to me and ignored me pretty much and i thought i was over her but then the other night i had a dream about her that made me relize i still had feelings for her i dont know what i should do i cant stop thinking about her
can some one please help me
14/m
The only thing you can do is tell her is how you feel. To know what the other ones thinking you need to talk it out. Because you thought you were over her, that might be what made the two of you talk less but let her know that you're not over her and that you like her alot. Remind her how you cared for her so much that you were willing to face any kind of consequeces to stick up for her and to defend her and ensure her that it's still that way. & then listen to what she has to say and build off of that. If you're sincere and honest with her, it'll all work out fine. Good luck with it all.
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my dad is always really impatient and sometimes he hurts me but i dont know if it would be considered abusing me. the worst time was when he shoved me up the stairs and started smacking me screaming at me and then shoved me into my room and i hit the door..it was horrible. other times he squeezes my arm or twists it so i listen to him. so would this be considered abuse or not? if it is should i do something about it? thanks, i rate high!!!
You need to talk to someone about this as soon as possible, because that is child abuse. No matter what you say or do, you shouldn't be hit thrown around or treated like that. If you think talking to your dad will anger him to that kind of degree again you need to talk to another parent, a school counsler, or anyone you can trust who will take action. That's not safe and if you let that continue it'll only lead to worse things.
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