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it might be long but i need serious help..
heres our convo:
kimmie (12/27/2005 12:28:27 AM): hey
jeff (12/27/2005 12:28:33 AM): hey babe
jeff (12/27/2005 12:28:39 AM): how waas chrismat?
jeff (12/27/2005 12:28:44 AM): chrismas**
kimmie (12/27/2005 12:28:52 AM): alrite
kimmie (12/27/2005 12:28:55 AM): had better
kimmie (12/27/2005 12:31:25 AM): how was yours?
jeff (12/27/2005 12:31:31 AM): it was aok
jeff (12/27/2005 12:31:33 AM):
jeff (12/27/2005 12:31:48 AM): well if you was here it would have been betta
kimmie (12/27/2005 12:32:13 AM): why you say that?
jeff (12/27/2005 12:32:31 AM): christmas you know
jeff (12/27/2005 12:32:36 AM): gettin 2gether
jeff (12/27/2005 12:32:39 AM): bein happy
kimmie (12/27/2005 12:33:07 AM): jeff stop talking like that you dont even like me like that anymore
jeff (12/27/2005 12:33:39 AM): :(
i had reason to say hwat i did we live 2000miles away from eachtoher right now and the last 7 months he has never mentioned anything bout him caring or liking me. he got mad and upset wiht me and ignored me and i tried to get him to talk he did but he said he was not going to talk to me about anything tonight. he said i make it impossible for him to even tell me how he feels. i dont know how i do that but idk. i love him with all my heart. And i wish i could taek back what i said because i want him back to talking to me. ive tried to say stuff to him but he just tells me not tonight.. this lasted 3 hrs and i stayed tehre every sec. of it. hes gone now and i dont know what to say to him. shoul di wait till tomorrow or whatever and see what he wants to say to me.? what should i tell him i really dont know how to apo;ogize ive tried sorry and i love you but neither seems too work..
Please help try before 4 pm tomorrow -12/27-
thx*
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Wait it out till tomrrow because he said not right now, which means he's still willing to talk.. just give him some space as of right now. You weren't wrong to say what you said just to him it might have been a little bit of a shut down the way it came out. When you guys start talking again let him know what you said you weren't saying to intentionally hurt him and you didn't mean it like him and that you do care about him alot. But wait till he's listenting to what you have to say. Good luck with everything.
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If you really do like this guy, then I sugguest you try to talk to him, like DangerNerd said. If hes not
listening, then thats His problem. if you're putting forth an effort to apologize and talk to him, then thats good. If he's not listening then its not worth it. And its NOT all your fault, so don't put all the blame on yourself because I am the same way with boys like that.
The kind that say "Hey Babe" after you broke up months ago.I tend to stay away from those type, but hey, thats just my opinion.
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Hello there,
I think you missed the point:
He was trying to tell you right then how much he cared, and you told him to stop talking.
You just shot him down.
That is why he said it was impossible for him to tell you how he feels... because you told him to shut-up when he tried.
I don't know how much more obvious he could have been:
Him: "Hi, Christmas would have been better with you here, getting together with you makes me happy."
You: "SHUT UP!"
If you can't see that now, I am very sad for you.
If you can, then explain to him why you won't let him tell you how he feels, because you are mad at him for not telling you how he feels.
Good luck,
DangerNerd.
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