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i dont know if hes breaking up with me?
My boyfriend hasnt talked to me for like three days. he wont answer my texts or anything so i decided i was going to go to his house and make him talk to me and tell me what was going on so...I txted him and told him that i was coming to his house and he was like no and i was like yea what ever im coming and i only told him so that way if he wasnt there he would tell me before i got to his house so then he told me that he was going to lock the doors so i couldnt get in then i told him that i was going to knock and he said his mom wouldnt let me in then i was like ill tell her its important and he was like no and i was like yea and then i was like corey are we breaking up and hes like 'i dont know' and i was like how dont you know and he was like ya i guess i was like omg are you for real ad he didnt say anything then i got really pissed off and walked my ass over to his house...not good...i was like corey whats going on and he said he didnt know if he wanted to break up with me but he liked the way it felt to not have to talk to someone everynight...i was sitting there thinking you dont talk to me every night you havent talked to me for three days!! but i love this boy so much and we didnt even fight so i dont know why this was so random? should i just let it go or should i try to get him back? and how do i do that if yes
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Let him go. If you keep pining away over him, he's going to say you're stalking him and all his friends will clown you.
I've been there.
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He wants to break up with you. He just doesn't know how to do it. If a guy doesn't return your phone calls/texts and when you ask him point blank his answer is yea or I don't know, he wants out. Crappy way to do it, but that is how he is choosing to tell you.
He said that he likes the idea of not having to talk to someone every night. This screams I need space. Even if you don't talk to him every night, that doesn't mean he doesn't feel that way.
Right now the best thing you can do is stop forcing things on him (like walking over to his house and demanding he speak with you) actions like this will only make this worse. You have one choice and that is respecting his wishes. Give him space. If he still cares for you he will come around, if not, then you should do your best to move on.
If he is going to act like that at all, you should rethink loving him.
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you deserve a man and a boy that plays these little games with you. he isnt worth wasting your time on. if he really cared about you he wouldnt have done what he did. go find yourself a guy who truely cares about you not this werid guy.
*~Stephanie~*
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He's saying he's not sure if he wants to break up, and he's being very stand offish about it so ask him if h thinks taking a break from the relationship for a little while is okay with him then when things seem right you can go back out again. Let him have some time to think, and you might even find something better for you between that time because it's not right that he won't even talk to you. But if he is eventually willing let him know you still have feelings for him and ask him what he thinks you two should do to work it out and compromise on something. Good luck with it all.
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Personally, if I were you, I wouldn`t.
He seems immature, like he can`t even make up his mind about having a relationship with you, and if he has to think about that, then I don`t think he`s worth anything. =[ You should let him go though, in my opinion.
If you really wanted to get him back, like if you are madly in love with this guy, you should write him a letter. Explaining all the feelings you have towards him, and how much it`ll hurt you if you find out that your relationship is over. Explain how much you love him & how much you want to be with him and how you can`t see your life without him. =]
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I'm sorry, but it really sounds as if your relationship with him has gotten too weird. You're almost threatening to break into his house, and he's practically calling the cops on you. That's just not normal.
From what you said it's *possible* that you pressed too hard, were too clingy; if you were pushing too hard for a long time, three days of solitude might not make up for it. And frankly, if it's reached that point, my guess is that the relationship is not going to survive.
On the other hand, boys can be fickle. He may have gotten nervous about the level of committment that you two were reaching, for example.
At this point the relationship is probably over, but if you want to save it (and it sounds like you do), I'd suggest playing it cool. Hold back. Let him make the effort to reach out. In other words, give him some space.
And if the relationship does end, remember that it's not the end of the world - even if it feels that way. You're young, and there are a lot of boys out there. Give yourself time, and you'll find love.
Good luck!
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