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My birthday is coming up very soon. I know this sounds really stupid, but I want to make cute invitations =) I'm using plain computer paper. My question is, besides who, what, when, and where should go on an invitation? (link)
*!* You might want to put on there something that they can bring or whatever. If you want them to bring something. -Sahara *!*


okay well, im well, sorta prude? i guess. i feel fine kissing, getting felt up, hangjob, you know that. but ive never been fingurd, aten out and im a virgin.i feel that i am sort of missing out? on something. and since i am attracted to older guys they will except all that from me. and i just get scared. im not very confident in myself down there and i dont know what a vagina is suppposed to look like and what if mine is gross? i dont know. i want to be in a relationship, and this stuff in the long run is goig to affect itt. (link)
I know that your self concious about it, and maybe that means you aren't ready for anything- but in any case, everyone has different body parts, it's not wrong to not have something look like everyone elses. It's inherited and it's just uniquely you. So, if you're mature enough and so are they, it shouldn't matter. but, if you're uncomfortable, maybe you should wait, until you're perfectly fine with your body. --Sahara


my mom says that she gives me lots of priveleges, which i highly disagree with. just today i had a friend over -a girl- -im a guy- and we went to my room and my mom yelled at me and told me that im too old to have girls in my room even if we're just friends -btw im 15-. do you agree with this? if you do then why?! if you dont then how do i tell my mom that i am mature enough to control myself around my friends...sheesh (link)
** Yeah, Okay! I somewhat agree with your mother- she's just worried and she's looking out for you. BUT- I'm also 15 and my boyfriend is 18, and he's allowed in my room. Sit down and talk to your mom. Ask her why she wont' let you and tell her that she needs to trust you. I think that you should just figure out why she won't let you do this. Thanks- Sahara **


Ok this is going to be sorta long so if your not ging to read it all then dont read it! Ill rate a 5 to whoever deserves it!

Ok so heres my tale......

One month ago today was the greatest day of my life my x boyfriend asked me out and I said yes! well heres how I met him

I am in R.O.T.C. and so is he Im a freshman hes a senior. Well I went to do colorguard and hes colorguard commander and he said I was hot asked me out and I turned him down. Well 2 weeks later I noticed he was hot and sweet and was destinded to be with me! well on thursday the 27 of September there was a dance and I asked him to meet me there at the school. He shows up 2 hrs late with this grl and I thought it was his sister. He leaves after like 45 minutes and when he comes to hug me he looks at me and I wouldnt let go. Well eventually I did

Well that frieday I went to colorguard to see him present the colors for the football game. after he did I ran down the bleechers w/ my friend so I ciould go see him. Well when I finally got down and he came back from the R.O.T.C. room I saw him leave.... with the girl from the dance AMANDA!! They were holding hands so I assume they were datimg blah blah blah I cried got over it the next day and went to the campus clean up. That Sunday I went to church and saw him in the morning bc I went out to eat and he was worknig. WellI acted asd if I didnt know him. That night my mom decides to go get some food from there and he wasstill working. My sister recognized him and she started to tslk to ihm. My mom went up to him gave him my # and told him to call me that night to make me fel better. He did and all he did was ay I like you and I will eventually go out with you but Amanda this and AMANDA that. So I said whatever and sucked it all up. Well later On thursday 06 he asked me out after drill practice. I said yes duh! So everything was great until the friday befor Halloween. We never ever got to pend time alone latly bc my mom and my sis or his mom and his bro were always in his room. Well finally we were alone and my mom calls to pick me up an hr early. H alloween come we go trick or treating w/ my sis and his bro and were mad bc we have to kkep going and cant be alone. Mymom come to pick us all up and we go back to his house. 15 min later my mom takes me home. Then tuesday it started to get weird

Tuesday AMANDA'S great great grandmother died and he went to the funeral he didnt call me at all and was w/ AMANDA and I trust him but not when he doesnt call. So Wedndsay comes and he doesnt call me at all. He told me he went to Karate and then to church and didnt get home till 10. So I belived him. Funny though that AMANDA goes to the same church. Thursday is when it got really bad. He was acting all distant at school and said he was skipping school Friday. Well Thursday we disdnt talk at all after school and he said he was to sick to talk. Friday he doesnt come to school so I call him after. He picks up and I asked him about his day well he went and me up w. AMANDA and a buch of other friends and he said hes in a depression to where he wanted to break up w/ me but didnt. So we hung up I cried blah blah blah. Yesterday I tried to call him but he was at soccer tournaments so no pick up. Well I went to my sisters first soccer game and say 3 of my friends there who saw Dustin earlier. They sad him and AMANDA have been really close latly. So I was so pissed that we left and I drove over to his house to gobreak up w/ him for cheating plus his bro thold me too. Well when I got there AMANDA'S car was there his lights were off so I knocked as hard as I colud he finaly came out and I broke up with him and me and my mom left. I said so much and dont talke anybacck. But what sux is that I love him sooo bad and I just dont know how to get over him. He tried to tell me he wasnt cheating and all and school is tomorrow and I have to sse him and I dont know how Im gonig to hold up whrn i odp see him! So I really want to hear your oppinion and tell me should I trey and listen if he talks to me should I talk to ihm? What sholud I do? What really gets me is she treats him like crap and she breaks up w/ him and he had it soo good w/ me my fam loved hima nd I was always happy and now Isee him like everperiod bc he used to trat me so well and I dont know how to move on so IDK if this is really asknig for advice just more of an opinion on what to do you know . Well I had to tell someone so It would stop bothering me. Thanks to whoever is going to actually reafd this


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Bianca (link)
* I know you're hurting inside, everyone has been through this. But, sorry sweetie, he treats you horribly! Try to get over him, keep yourself busy, make plans with other boys, do whatever it takes to keep him off of your mind. Don't attempt to talk to him, he's a jerk. I'm here for ya! *


Hi,

My name is Todd, and I am a 15 year old with quite a few friends. Almost all of my friends have cell phones with Cingular, Verizon, or some other monthly plan. Mine is a Virgin Mobile with a stupid 10c/minute and 10c to connect deal.

I found out that I put my Top-Up card for $20 in my pants and accidentally washed them.

I talked to my parents about getting me a monthly plan for me. They said they don't want to pay a lot every month for my cell phone plan, and they can't get me a cell phone with their plan since the plan is controlled by a member of my family who we don't really like. Don't ask me why my mom and dad continue to use that plan.

I'm trying to find a monthly phone plan that is cheap ($20 or less) and that would be affordable by almost any middle-class American family.

If you have any suggestions, please tell me.

Thanks,
Todd (link)
** Well There is always those to go plans, and they can come as cheap as you make them. Now, I dont' think that there are really any plans were it's twenty bucks, because there are always consequences when you go over! *




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