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my mom says that she gives me lots of priveleges, which i highly disagree with. just today i had a friend over -a girl- -im a guy- and we went to my room and my mom yelled at me and told me that im too old to have girls in my room even if we're just friends -btw im 15-. do you agree with this? if you do then why?! if you dont then how do i tell my mom that i am mature enough to control myself around my friends...sheesh
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** Yeah, Okay! I somewhat agree with your mother- she's just worried and she's looking out for you. BUT- I'm also 15 and my boyfriend is 18, and he's allowed in my room. Sit down and talk to your mom. Ask her why she wont' let you and tell her that she needs to trust you. I think that you should just figure out why she won't let you do this. Thanks- Sahara **
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Well..i would have to say i disagree with your mom, if the girl is just your friend she should trust you. I think its just the typical worry thing, your mom is scared your going to have sex and screw up. I'm not exactly sure how your mother is so i cant tell you how to prove your mature enough. She probably feels that you disrespect her in some way, thats how mothers are, id say lay off taking girls up to your room for awhile hang around in the living room, that way your mom knows your not doing anything wrong. Also if your mom doesnt know the girl very well let her know a little more about her that should help a little bit. Sorry if i wasnt much help!
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No one is really right or wrong in this situation. You're mom wants you to be her little boy forever and she doesn't want you messing around with any girls just yet. You are a teen irritated that their mom is over-reacting just because omg *gasp* there was a girl in your room. You should talk to your mom about having more trust in you and allowing you to have girls over and such. If she still gets angry well then all I have to say is as you get older, she'll loosen her wrath. Good luck babe.
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its true that parents give us priveleges but ..there not always the ones we want them to give us ...i agree with you 100 percent i think you should just straight up tell her that you can control your self around your friends ...tell her that your mature enough to behave with them ..be completly honest with her and get your point across ... infact they say actions sspeak louder then words so show her that your mature enough to control your self let her see for her self
hope i helped ..
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Ok well my parents have the same rule....like i cna't have a guy in my room when it's just me and him..but if it's like a bunch of my gf's nd a couple guys we can go in my room as long as the door is left open. I think the rule is reasonable, but ya ofcourse i wish I could have a guy in my room alone....but you're mom just doesn't want you having sex while she's just in the other room..and she doesnt want you impregnating some girl. That's really what it comes down to...sex. There's really nothing you can do about it. Try telling your mom....that you are def. JUST friends with this girl and is it ok if we chill in my room with the door open, so you know we aren't doing anything. Good luck! ♥ caitie
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this is hard lol. well i dont really know what to say. but i kind of agree with her lol. i guess just ask your mom next time or have someone over when shes not home.lol
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