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okay well, im well, sorta prude? i guess. i feel fine kissing, getting felt up, hangjob, you know that. but ive never been fingurd, aten out and im a virgin.i feel that i am sort of missing out? on something. and since i am attracted to older guys they will except all that from me. and i just get scared. im not very confident in myself down there and i dont know what a vagina is suppposed to look like and what if mine is gross? i dont know. i want to be in a relationship, and this stuff in the long run is goig to affect itt.
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okayy babe, your deffinatley not a prude. i can asure you that most girls have the problem. i like those things too, and i want to be in a relationship. it's not worth it if the guy your dating is only looking for sex. you'll want other things to go down too. and did you ever think of staying abstient ?? ((sorry cant spell))
but yeah. it's all up to you. your probably not gross. and it's never expected for you to know what a virgina looks like. so don't worry about it, and when your ready you'll know it. and don't feel like your being left out of anything. if a guy is caring he'll usually understand the perspective your coming from. dont let guys get in the way && you never know, if you do decide to have sex or anything. make sure its protected & becareful for dieases and anything else harmful. good luck
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stupidgirlxx
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Okay honey...first things first. You're not prude. I enjoy those things too. But I was kind of skeptical about being fingered at first too...Thinking..oh god...what if i smell different, what if I'm not supposed to be like that. But it was all okay. Don't worry about it honey. You're fine. You just need to find a guy that you're comfortable with and try it.
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If a guy really loves you, by you telling him you don't want to do that stuff shouldn't affect your relationship. Don't do anything unless you feel 100% ready.
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um, your totally prude! being un-kissed is prude. be glad youve never been eaten out-its the most disgusting thing in the world! so is fingering. i mean if you want something like that then just do it the old fashioned way-which is sex. anyway your not missing out on anything. just wait til marriage for sex and what not. good luck.
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Why not explore your own body so you become confident with it. It's not gross, I'm sure it's like everyone eles' and it'll be fine when you're in a relationship...as long as things aren't rushed.
x Steph x
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Well i dont think "yours" could possibly be that different from any other virgins. Females, unlike males, dont really have "size" to compare to other females. So i guess the only advice you could get outa this is.. um... shave? good? lol.
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Don't do something you aren't completely comfortable with doing. If you feel pressured into doing something, or you're scared, then maybe you aren't ready and you should just wait. If a guy can't understand that, he doesn't deserve you and you deserve better.
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I know that your self concious about it, and maybe that means you aren't ready for anything- but in any case, everyone has different body parts, it's not wrong to not have something look like everyone elses. It's inherited and it's just uniquely you. So, if you're mature enough and so are they, it shouldn't matter. but, if you're uncomfortable, maybe you should wait, until you're perfectly fine with your body. --Sahara
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If you're fine with kissing and all that stuff then you aren't prude. And so what if you haven't done anything else? Guys don't want whores. And as for the whole "do I look right down there"...whatever it looks like, it's supposed to be like that. Don't worry so much. And you could always watch a porno or something to see other girls..
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