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18/f

I have teeth that look like this: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Assistedteetheruption.jpg

But not quite as bad as that photo.
All of my bottom teeth are perfect and straight except my two top canine teeth are coming out of the top of my gum. I dont realy have much money and i really dont want to get braces so is it possible to get a plate or retainer type thing instead of braces to straighten my teeth?

Thanks (link)
I had this problem, your canines want to come down, but your mouth is overcrowded, and when they do come down you're teeth will become crooked because there's no space for them. You should have the canines pulled, thats what I did. My teeth spaced out perfectly and evenly and you can't even tell you have two less teeth in there =]


18-female

what a way to get a guys attention? i feel like i had it, and then now completely lost it. i know he was attracted to me and it's not like i'm super shy but i want to know how to get his attention back. is there something i should or should NOT be saying or doing? (link)
Stop acting so interested. If he calls you, don't call back. If he texts you, don't immediately text back, he'll be wondering why you're not immediately at his beck and call anymore. I'm not saying be a jerk to him, but just play hard to get for a while, give him something to chase.


I'm gauging my ears and I put the 6 gauge pinchers/tapers in and it was slightly uncomfortable, but it always is. It's been two days and I just looked at them to clean them and it looked like puss was coming out. Should I take them out and let my ears heal up then start over with the WHOLE process, or just downsize to an 8 until the infection looks gone? (link)
Puss and blood are normal because think about what you're doing to your ear. You're stretching it out and naturally this is going to cause this. Just be sure to clean them with peroxide or salt water frequently so infection does not set in.


I have a little problem i will go see the doctor soon but my oppointment is not till the 19th.i recently lost my virginty around the month of november i had sex about 7 times never bleed all the first times till the last time .while we were doing towards the end i felt a sharp pain and stopped (we were doing it a bit rough)I went home and woke up and saw about two little drops of blood didnt freak out but two days later theres been blood comming out not heavy but brown blood it comes once in a while im not sure whats that about still happening after a week. (link)
Its nothing to worry about. You probably ripped the final part of your hymen and that is what causes the blood. IT's nothing to worry about. Same thing happened to me. The first few times it was fine, and then we'd have sex and it was a little sore afterwards and I would bleed. Its just because you're stretching out your vagina and if you're having sex a lot, your body is not used to that. You're fine, just tell him to be careful :]


should you use a condom when giving a handjob? (link)
handjob, no.
However, if you are giving oral sex you should, becasue STD's can be contracted from oral sex.
and do not let the sperm from when he ejaculates go anywhere near your vagina, because you can get pregnant that way.


My little sister is 17 years old and I think she's hooking up with my friend who is 23. I know that they care about each other because they both come to me and talk about it. The only thing I'm worried about as an older sister and best friend is that he could get into a lot of trouble if the wrong person finds out, right? Is the sex age of New York 17 even if the other person is over 21? (link)
he could and will get put in prison if this gets found out.


17/M

So, there's this girl. And, well, I'm not entirely sure what she's doing, but basically she's being mean to me.(Ignoring me, not making eye contact with me on purpose, avoiding me but not being at all discrete about it...) It's nothing big, but she's a cool person and it's kind of annoying that she treats me like that. I can't figure out if she likes me and she's playing hard to get, or if she's just a flirt, and that's how she flirts, or if she's trying to tell me she doesn't like me, or if she's just trying to be funny... Frankly, I don't care. Well, that's not true, but that's not what this question is about. How do I get her to stop? (link)
Confront her in private. If she won't answer you, just boot her out of your life, you don't need that attitude.


i've started to work out a lot more than usual because i feel my ''excercises'' aren't working. so i decided to step it up a notch. i do all the normal crunches and push ups, blah blah blah..i just want to know two things:

#1- i want to loose a substantial amount of weight. SO, what kind of exercises should I do everyday?
#2- how many calories should i set a goal for loosing everyday?

By the way im 17/f if this helps and i want to loose about 15-20 pounds. im not on a time limit but i would really like to loose it as quickly as possible. im on a healthy diet. and i really badly want to loose the ''extra baggage'' if u know what i mean.

kthxbye :] (link)
FIrst off, don't starve yourself. That's the biggest no-no. And don't count calories. Start off for breakfast with something low-fat like a yogurt. Then for a snack, pack some apples or grapes or a fruit of some kind. Lunch, something simple and small. Just eat healthy things in small amounts. However, don't deprive yourself of everything you like. For example, when I wanted to lose some weight, i allowed myself to have one piece of chocolate per day if i was craving. I still lost weight but i didn't have to starve myself from what I liked, mainly because if you do that, when you start eating things like that again the weight will all come right back. So don't deprive.


okayy so i really like this guy and ive told some of my friends and he knows someone likes him but not that its me..... and im really scared that he wont like me back so should i tell him i like him or wait and talk to him!?
thanks
loveboys (link)
You should try flirting around with him, see how he responds.


for people who've been in past relationships or are in relationships:

how long did it take for the guy to say "Ilove you"? and what things did he do right before?i've been dating this guy for almost 4 months and he told me in the beginning that he doesnt say unless he really means it and i agreed with him but now im really feeling it and i know he really likes me but i dont want to be the first to say it. i know all relationships are different but i just want an idea how other relationships went.

16/f thanks. (link)
honestly you should just let it be. Don't rush into saying something so meaningful like that, and if he doesn't say it, it doesn't mean he doesn't adore and care about you, it just means he's not comfortable saying it yet. This is not a bad thing, just take it as it comes, and trust me, don't force those words, they're very special.


What is the meaning of this song(if i were a boy by Beyonce)? I am really confused. (link)
basically saying that boys are selfish and only care about themselves, they lie, they can do things because their guy friends will back them up, and that if she were a boy she could act like that, but she's a girl and girls aren't like that.


okay well me and this guy had a "thing" for like two months and we both really liked eachother.
he is a huge jock and all the girls want him.
we went on a "date" on a friday and that night he texted me and said he had a really great time and he wanted to hang out saturday.
sunday he stopped by my house and ended up meeting my parents.
at school monday he was all saying hi and everything then that night he didnt text me and he usually ALWAAYS does.
then tuesday i hear that he thinks i'm to "shy" so i text him saying you think i'm too shy thats why you randomly stop talking to me? and then he says "not that your shy its just that we have two different personalities and that on our date it seemed like you (me) didnt want to be there.." and remember friday night he said he had a lot of fun on our date.
then wednesday i hear from people that he kissed another girl when he drove her home monday after school. (later i found out that she kissed him while he was driving "and he couldnt do anything about it")
now he and that girl are going out.. shes a freshmen and we are both sophomores. she is really short and he has to like go on his knees to kiss him. and he used to always tell everyone i was the most beautiful girl he has ever seen.
he ignores me now, and doesnt even talk to me.
i texted him one day asking why and he said that he thought it would be awkward and i would be mad and i said i really wasnt and i just want to be friends.
For one day he said hi to me in the hallway but now he STILL ignores me and doesnt even aknowledge i'm a living person.
and for some reason i still like him... its been 3 months since that happened.
why do i still like him? it kills me.
i'm a sophomore (16)/girl (link)
sweetie i'm sorry to have to be brutally honest, but this guy is a dousche. You may have had strong feelings for him and it may have seemed like he liked you too, but this guy is jerking your chain. You're too good for that, and you are better off without his drama in your life. If he ignores you after you've been trying to talk to him or even say hi and make that effort to be cordial, he obviously isn't worth it.


hi i'm 16 year old girl and i am thinking of going out with this guy who is 18. i live in massachusetts, is it illegal if we have sex?
help please!
only answer if your positive :) (link)
No because there is only two years of distance but if you're not dating him why would you have sex with him?


me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while and he doesnt let me go and see my guy friends. and if i talk about another guy he gets really jealous. and if i bring up the subject he says if you were in my shoes you would understand. how do i tell him that he needs to be less protective and not as jealous without makeing him flip out?? (link)
You need to sit him down and tell him that it really bugs you that he can't understand that you talk to your guy friends. If he can't accept the fact that you are true to him and aren't being with anyone else...he isn't worthy of you.


Is running really some kinda of mind game too?
I mean like, if you tell yourself YOU CAN DO IT, can you really ? Even when you feel like quitting and like your body and legs are going to give way?

This may be a stupid question
but i'm preparing for school to start,
and how emarassed i'm going to be if
i finish last in a half mile run thing.

I mean I've never finished last before,
but I get so nervous about things like this. (link)
Just seriously don't think about it. Pick someone to keep pace with, and don't stop. If you stop, you won't want to start up again. So don't stop, just think about other things and focus on regulating your breathing. You won't finish last. Besides...a half mile really isn't that far. A mile is difficult, but a half mile, you should be fine.


OMG!! OMG!!! I am SSSSSOOOOOOO scared! I go to a very nice private school in the mountains with fountains, a good principal, etc. Well, whenever I walk alone to a class to another building, I always see this man with a beard and old clothes staring right at me about 8 feet away. I sware... it's just me and him!!!! This started around April last year and I started school last week and he's still there (doing the same thing)!!!!!!!!! He can't work there, right? Because he doesn't do anything and he's too ratty looking to work at this school!! HELP ME!!! WHAT SOULD I DO!1???? (link)
Okay hon this is what you need to do. Don't just keep letting it bother you. If you've been seeing him for a while and it's still freaking you out then you need to do something about it. You need to go up to a staff member, no matter how stupid you think you're being, and tell them that the man is making you uncomfortable and ask why he is there and if he is a staff member. If he's a staff, I'm sure they'll just tell you that it is alright and not to worry. If he's not, this might make them aware that someone is there who is not supposed to be there. You need to make them aware of him. Dont' just sit there and wait for something bad to happen.



If you're wearin a condom and you cum and it goes into the woman is it possible to get pregnet? (link)
Umm hello yeah! If any cum got into here then there is a chance of her getting pregnant. You should go get the morning after pill or something.


if i run for a half hour to fourty-five minutes everyday for a month how much do u think it is possible to lose? i am 5'6 and 126 lbs. the doctor said its normal, but i just want to tone up my thighs and drop a few pounds. thanks! (link)
Honestly I think it's possible to lose up to 7 pounds...Maybe ten...depends how long you actually run and at what speed, etc. I've actually been doing this same thing and I have noticed a difference. I'm into my 3rd week now and my legs are more tone and my stomach as well. I've shed about 5 pounds...but then again you're probably going to gain muscle so...if you just want a nice body...how much you weigh doesn't matter...it's how your body looks. so if you do this and you look nice but you gain a pound...it would probably be a pound of muscle, so just try to get in shape..doesn't matter how much you weigh.


I am 4 foot 11, and age 13, and i weigh 96 lbs. i need to loose 7 lbs in like 5 days... without my parents noticing... help?! (link)
First off...you're at a fine weight...but if you want to lose pounds...okay. But honestly, there really isn't a way to loose 7 pounds in five days...unless you don't eat. And THAT is stupid. You should start exercising really hard.


My boyfreind has had sex with 30 other girls and he prbably has alot of STDS and he cheats on everyone.its just in his nature. He cheated on my friend he cheated on all his other grilfriends. He tried to finger my friend when they were going out and my frined dint want him to and he wouldn't stop trying to do it. He's a man hore. He's only 16 too and he already had sex with 30 girls. And to top it all off, hes arrested right now I forgot what he did. I think hes too much truble for me because I'm not a good girl but I'm not that bad. hes already wanted sex with me the first day we were going out. I think i should dump him. Hes a bad kid and he will only cause more trouble to me. What do yuo think? (link)
Sweetie I can't believe you're even asking this. He is an asshole. He really needs to go. He is one of those guys who just wants to fuck you. and if you let him get what he wants...he's still going to leave you...because he's a fucker. So you seriously need to end it with him and date a guy who appreciates you for more than your body.




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