So, there's this girl. And, well, I'm not entirely sure what she's doing, but basically she's being mean to me.(Ignoring me, not making eye contact with me on purpose, avoiding me but not being at all discrete about it...) It's nothing big, but she's a cool person and it's kind of annoying that she treats me like that. I can't figure out if she likes me and she's playing hard to get, or if she's just a flirt, and that's how she flirts, or if she's trying to tell me she doesn't like me, or if she's just trying to be funny... Frankly, I don't care. Well, that's not true, but that's not what this question is about. How do I get her to stop?
askxjenna answered Tuesday December 2 2008, 4:45 pm: the only way to get her to stop is to confront her about it. just text her or go up to her at school, and start a conversation. bring it up during the conversation, just say something like "hey ive noticed that youve kinda been ignoring me, did i do something wrong?" that is definately the best sentence for a guy to say to a girl. who knows, maybe she was doing it unknowingly. ive done that before to people, and i dont do it on purpose, theres just a lot on my mind. she could be trying to get you to want her, and it looks like its working. if you have feelings for her, just tell her and tell her that your getting frustrated because you cant tell if shes mad or if shes flirting or if shes doing something else, she'll most likely tell you the truth. [ askxjenna's advice column | Ask askxjenna A Question ]
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