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im jenna :) im sixteen, and for some reason im really good with relationship problems. if i honestly can't help you, i'll tell you; i won't just lie to get a good rating. im good with more than just relationships, so ask me anything!
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heyyy i didnt no were too put this question so i just put it anywere
ive got short hair lol and im i realy need my hair too grow in like 2months is there any thing i can use too soo my hair grows?
i used pantene pro v beautiful lengths. its in a purpleish white bottle, and it helps prevent split ends which makes your hair grow faster. you could also try trimming the bottom of your hair just a little bit, that will make it grow a bit quicker
Tonight I cheated on my girlfriend, my soul mate, the only thing that is keeping me alive. What makes matters worse is that it was with a guy. She won't ever forgive me. I want to confess to her if I do I know the odd of her accepting me back are farely high. But I can't risk that. If she says that she can't be with me I will kill myself, hands down. I just spent the last 4 hours crying and debating whether or not to tell her, then I remembered that I had an account on here. I need advise. Well, I want advice but I really need to talk to her about this. She'll be coming to see me in a few days, we have a long distance relationship butive been in love with her for over 3 years now. I can't live without her. What should I do? Opinions matter a lot to me right now, thank you.
come clean. if you dont tell her, and she finds out later, that will make her twice as likely to end it. if you guys are true soul mates, itll be alright in the end. its alright to question your sexuality. if you tell her about it, she should understand if shes good enough for you. explain to her that you didnt go out thinking, "hey im gonna cheat on the woman i love tonight". it was more of an impulse, and you were experimenting with the opposite sex (if its your first time). its alright that you "experimented" with a guy instead, because if you really were gay, then it wouldnt be fair to her to be dating someone that doesnt know who they are yet. im not sure how old you are, but it sounds like youre in a serious relationship.
just try to explain to her that it was a one time thing, and you feel horrible. if you truly feel bad, she will see the pain in your eyes. if she loves you like you love her, this wont affect anything. some trust will be lost, but that only gives you more time to re-gain it. it is very important that you come clean and spill your heart to her, because if you dont tell her, that will make it ten times worse. tell her how you cried, tell her how much guilt you are feeling, she'll get it.
just please dont kill yourself over something like this, things will get better. tell the truth, you will feel so much better. you seem like such a sweet guy to be crying over this, and i doubt she would let a guy like that go, if shes a smart girl. you crying over this shows that you really do love her, otherwise you wouldnt be so worried about it. just tell her, and see what happens.
hope that helps. if you need to ask me something else, feel free to.
f/16
alright guys, i could use your help.
i cannot flirt at alll.
i don't know how to start it or what to say?
how can i flirt with a guy?
i'm told by a lot of people i have a good personality
and i'll admit that i'm not even really bad looking.
i just have problems talking to guys sometimes and flirting.
any ideas of what i can do or say to flirt?
thanks a bunch :)
if you have a problem with talking to them, let them do the talking.
i dont know if you need help with flirting in school, or outside of school, or both. but ill try to help anyways.
in school, you dont really have to say anything at first. try it out with a guy in your class. if he looks at you while the teacher is talking, do a little half smile at him, then look away. before class starts, go up to him with some homework assignment, and make up some phony question to ask him about it. if he helps you, say something like "ah wow, you are my savior, i owe you one".
if youre doing bad on a certain subject in class, ask some guy that is really good at it. just say (while smiling) "hey, i noticed youre doing really good in this class, i was wondering if you could help me with a few things." if he says sure and smiles, then say something like "alright, wanna trade numbers so when i get stuck, i can call/text you?" just that sorta thing. and then after you text him for help, you can casually text him or call him and say he whatsup?
just make some jokes about stuff around him. if youre good friends with a guy that you like or just someone in class that you talk to sometimes. if someone says man its hot in here, just say eh no its just because "his name" is in here. then smile and laugh a little.
theres no right way to flirt, it usually comes natural. just talking to a guy, smiling a little, doing a little hair flip, can be considered flirting. the one thing that guys loveeee is when they say something funny, and you smile and just laugh a little bit, then look down for a few seconds, then when you look back at him, look at him straight in the eyes and have a little closed smile on your face, and you can add in "youre too funny" or something like that.
flirting isnt really about what you say, its more about what you do. if your walking and talking with a guy, just talk to him about how your day was, and just lightly let your hand brush his.
guys love girls that are down to earth, and dont care only about themselves. talk to him about random stuff, just talking to him is flirting. if you really really like a guy, then flirting will come very naturally.
hope that helps a little, if you need more help with it, then feel free to ask me another question :)
(15/f)
I am redecorating my room for my 16th but im unsure of what i want. I want my room to be everything about me. Pictures everywhere, posters everywhere, inspirational things on the wall, scrapbooks on display, things like that. My room is small but i could fit everything in. The walls are white, and im going to leave it like that. Does everyone have any other ideas that i could add in my room to make it unique and different? Thanks!
go to every single dollar store that is near you, and look through everything.
when im in the mood to redecorate i drive to every dollar store and find the most random stuff, just put things together, get picture frames, vases and fake flowers, candles, they have cute pictures to hang on the wall.
they have a bunch of stuff. also, try getting some canvases to paint on, and just go wild. make it abstract and all different colors. if you hang it on the wall it would look great against the white.
also, i went to pat catans or michaels or whatever craft store you have, and i bought cheap wood letters of my name and of things like dream hope live love, and bought some cheap paint and painted them. they ended up being amazing looking. everytime people come over, they go whered you buy those?!?! just dont tell them what you did, you wanna be unique ;)
its also fun to get those cork bulliten boards from places like office max, decorate the border of it, then ask friends to make you cute signs of your name or inside jokes, and then you hang them up on there and the hang the whole thing on your wall!
just think of fun things. you can also go to a book store and pick up a teen room decorating book, and just read it while you are there instead of buying it, then try to write some of them down and try something! you can never really mess up, and just have fun with it!
17/M
So, there's this girl. And, well, I'm not entirely sure what she's doing, but basically she's being mean to me.(Ignoring me, not making eye contact with me on purpose, avoiding me but not being at all discrete about it...) It's nothing big, but she's a cool person and it's kind of annoying that she treats me like that. I can't figure out if she likes me and she's playing hard to get, or if she's just a flirt, and that's how she flirts, or if she's trying to tell me she doesn't like me, or if she's just trying to be funny... Frankly, I don't care. Well, that's not true, but that's not what this question is about. How do I get her to stop?
the only way to get her to stop is to confront her about it. just text her or go up to her at school, and start a conversation. bring it up during the conversation, just say something like "hey ive noticed that youve kinda been ignoring me, did i do something wrong?" that is definately the best sentence for a guy to say to a girl. who knows, maybe she was doing it unknowingly. ive done that before to people, and i dont do it on purpose, theres just a lot on my mind. she could be trying to get you to want her, and it looks like its working. if you have feelings for her, just tell her and tell her that your getting frustrated because you cant tell if shes mad or if shes flirting or if shes doing something else, she'll most likely tell you the truth.
okayy so i really like this guy and ive told some of my friends and he knows someone likes him but not that its me..... and im really scared that he wont like me back so should i tell him i like him or wait and talk to him!?
thanks
loveboys
just tell him. waiting to tell him or just not telling him wont make a difference. he will find out eventually, and its better if he hears it from you and not a silly rumor, because if he really does like you, then he'll just think whoever told him is lying. just straight up tell him, and if he doesnt like you, then move on. honestly, life really is too short to get all worked up over something small like this. youll get rejected more than once and if you forget about it and move onto the next guy, its soooo much better. good luck!
I've been texting, talking, hanging out with this guy we'll call him Luke... We talked every night no matter what.. on the phone or texting and he was always the one making the effort.. it turned into serious flirting and i started to fall for him and i thought he was falling for me too by all the hints he was dropping.. well all the sudden he stopped and he's been super short with me or just never responds.. so i stopped making an effort n now he just doesnt even text me anymore and i have no idea what happened.. idk what to do if i should say something or just get over it and i have no idea why this would have happened.. any idea?
this happened to me too, dont worry about it. instead of constantly texting him, just text him once in a while. if he doesnt respond dont text him for a while. he will eventually text you again. hes either going through stress or something else is happening in his life, and the last thing he wants to do is be in a bad mood when hes trying to flirt with a girl he likes. he'll eventually start texting or calling or something, if he doesnt then hes a scum bag. i went through the same thing, it only took him about a week or two to start texting again. im sure itll be fine, just dont stress about it like i did because youll feel like an idiot afterwards :)
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worth it??
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which is better/ you prefer?
i dont know about those, but i have really really straight hair thats hard to curl, but i found the perfect curling iron, and my the curls stay in all day and night. its called conair instant heat, and i found it at target. hope that helps :)
yeah or mirror something?
idk but i like the song.
its the commercial with the lil anime girl and then she starts getting shot at and then she running and yeah..
so if you know its greatly appreciated.
still alive by lisa miskovsky
and its mirrors edge :)
I just really am about to spill. I don't have many friends I can share this with. So please help me!
To start I'm completly in love with my ex. We went out for 6 months and after ending it, not wanting to be friends, 6 months later, I'm still obsessed with him, and still unsure of the reason we ended it.
We'll call him Mike.
The next guy I just met. He's amazing but also 17, and I'm 15. He is exactly like me and I want nothing more but to be with him. Except, He doesn't know I like him, and I'm totally unsure about how he feels about me. & I don't want to tell him because it'll definitely change things. Oh and he doesn't go to my school.
We'll call him Steve.
And the last guy I've known for awhile. He's a COMPLETE asshole. He cheats on his girlfriend with me, he smokes, he drinks, he's a manwhore, he has sex with random people. But for some reason, I LOVE the attention. I just love it. I'm not sure if it's because I want to make my ex jealous, cause I find myself always talking loud about how we made out and things when I'm around my ex. Or if I actually like this guy..All my friends HATE HIM. They think he's a terrible person, and I know he just is going to hurt me. He's already lead me on twice and we're going on the third time. & I have to lie about him to my friends and stuff because thats how much they dissapprove of him. We'll call him Tom.
I think I like Tom, but I'm not sure if I do. and Steve is just amazing. But I'm not over Mike at ALL. And I'm not sure if steve likes me.
So what so I do?
im only sixteen, but ill try my best with some good advice, im usually good at these kinda things with my friends.
first of all, i know its hard, but dump tom. you do not love him, you love the fact that you think he loves you. he doesnt love you, he never will. hes using you to get more action. if hes cheating on his girlfriends with you, he wont even hesitate to cheat on you with others girls if you do end up dating. if you do end up dating, youll fall head over heels for him because he will treat you amazingly, and youll never suspect he'd cheat on you of all people. but let me tell you, he will. guys like that wont change for ANYONE. you can make out with him while your single, things like that. avoid having sex or anything like that because youll just keep getting more attached and youll keep thinking he loves you and you love him, but thats not the case. dump him before you get in too deep. if your friends dont approve of him, theres a reason. never like/love/adore/crush on a guy that your friends hate, theyre a good judge of character if theyre friends with you. you can milk all the attention you want from tom, just dont get in to deep and actually start having feelings for him. hes sort of just your toy, its like using him like he uses girls.
you obviously arent over your ex, but your still exploring your options before you go back to him. you wanna see if some other guy could make you feel like mike makes you feel, which is understandable, and i would do the exact same thing. youre only fifteen, and you dont wanna go throw around the word love very often.
who cares if steve is 17? age doesnt really matter when your in high school, or even when youre older. if you guys have a lot in common, keep talking to him as much as possible, and try hanging out with him more; he'll probably get the hint that youre interested. if hes stupid, then youll have to actually say it. its scary to tell someone you like them not knowing what theyll say; but if you dont youll regret it and think well what if he really does like me? youll never know until you physically ask him. he cant read minds and neither can you. if you tell him and it changes things, then hes not a good friend and you can find some better guy or go back to mike.
start talking to mike again, and if he doesnt seem interested, dont cry over him, move on. there are plenty of guys and youre most likely not going to fall in love. youre young and have plenty of high school left and college to find someone you really truly love. if youre unsure of why you broke up, talk to him about it and if theres not a good reason, tell him you want to get back with him. if you break up again its probably not meant to be.
hope it helps a little bit :)
sorry if its too long!
so, I have this guy friend. we're not like super close or anything, but it's not like I don't know him at all. and I'm thinking I kind of like him. like, he gave me a hug on Thursday and it was so nice (usually no one ever gives me hugs--not that I don't like hugs, it just never happens..idk w/e) because he just came up to me and gave this super big hug. and I was like wow this is nice. and I've been thinking about it all weekend....only problem is that I don't know how to tell my friends about it--I'm afraid that they'll laugh at me, because they're all sort of friends with him too, and I'm pretty sure they don't see me with him at all. I need help figuring out exactly what I am thinking and stuff....like how to tell my friends, because I want to find out if he likes me too...idk I think it'd just be nice.
i dont know how old you are or anything, but from experience dont tell your friends right now. if you have one best friend that wont tell anyone, you can talk to her about it. but i would avoid telling a bunch of people because they might tell him and exagerate how you said it, and it might wierd him out.
if you wanna know how he feels, kind of test him before you actually confront him about it.
ask if he wants to hang out, and if he invites more people to come with you guys, he doesnt think of you guys as more than friends; yet.
if you're too impatient to wait, then tell your friends and ask them to ask him, but that usually doesnt work.
the best thing is to just ask him one time, if youre talking one on one online or on the phone or at school, its alright to be embarrased, who knows, maybe hes embarassed to bring it up with you!
the only sure way to know is to talk to him about it, dont listen to anyone else.
hey theree..
so..im 14/female.
and latley, i've been breaking out ALOT. i cant seem to make my acne no away. i've NEVER had this bad of acne. ill get really bad acne around my forhead or my nose or cheeks. and they're really bad. i started re-using Klear Action. it worked really really well when i was younger..but it seem's to just be making me break out even more.
i just started high school..im a freshman. so could it maybe be stress? i just got done with my period. so i know that it cant be that.
and also..are they're any at home thing's that i can do to keep it under control? my mom just today bought me a new face wash from clean and clear and a spot treatment.
thanks for all your help ;))
that happens to everyone around your age. im sixteen, and i still get that sometimes. that clean and clear spot treatment works wonders on my face, but you have to keep reapplying it everyday for it to work well and fast.
also, it will help if you have oily skin to get clean and clear oil absorbing sheets. it doesnt make your face too dry, and it will help your acne.
if that clean and clear acne spot treatment doesnt work, try using toothpaste. it sounds stupid, but it really really works overnight. the best kind that i use is crest pro health night. if you have a giant pimple that you cant really pop yet, put this on it all day after school, and take it off right before you go to bed so it doesnt get all over your pillow. it usually works for everyone.
if you dont wanna use that, try squeezing a lemon into a little cup, then dab your fingers in it and wipe it all over your face, it feels refreshing and the acidish stuff clears your pores.
another option is to wash your face down with water, cold preferably, and make sure it is really wet. then take a handful of salt and rub it all over and rub it in hard. i dont know how it works, but it scrubs away dead skin and helps your acne. it worked for me.
one of these things should work, if it doesnt you may need to get a prescription acne medicine. i havent needed proactive yet, but some friends have used it and they say its amazing. there is also a good acne medicine that your doctor can prescribe to you, but it shouldnt be that bad yet.
hope that helps :)
i just got Fancy by Jessica Simpson.
i think it smells amazing.
do you think if i put a bunch on and go talk to my crush tomorrow he'll notice me in a good way?
I heard that smells trigger something....like if someone smells something good they'll be attracted to it or feel good or whatever.
anything will be appreciated! :D
its true that guys are attracted to sweet smells, but it cant physically make him like you.
guys hormones are naturally turned on mainly by vanilla, and sometimes lavender.
you cant lather on fancy perfumes like the jessica simpson one because youll smell like an old grandma. although it smells amazing, too much could basically choke the guy, and it will turn him off, itll make it look like youre trying too hard.
put a little of the jessica perfume on your wrists and neck, because when you walk by him he'll definately smell you. if you do date him, put just a little bit behind each ear and itll make him go wild, guys definately love that, especially when he hugs you.
if a male smells vanilla, they cant help but get happier, unless they absolutely hate vanilla for some reason.
also, if youre trying to get this guy, try talking to him on his right side, the right side of the brain controls happiness, and for some reason if you talk or even whisper in his right ear, it will automatically make him happy. and if youre walking with him, brush your hand against his, and make it look like its normal and just happened by accident, physical contact stimulates a certain hormone that makes people feel at ease. (the hands and the fingertips are some of the most sensitive parts of a guys body)
also, guys like get triggered by the taste of cinnamon, so if he likes it offer him some gum or mints in that flavor.
hope that helps you snag your man ;)
i am a female and i'm 16 yrs old
ok, so this has been happening for about i don't know may be a year or so, maybe longer and i htought it would go away but it hasn't. My problem is when i go to the bathroom, i pee and i make sure i wipe myself completly and then i get up and walk around and stuff and it feels like i am like leaking. so when i go back in the bathroom, my underwear is wet i guess you could say and it has a werid smell to it. i can smeel it when i pull my pants down. its just weird because i feel like i'm all wet down there and i don't know waht is going on. its just all wet and it leaks out of me. it happens all day long constantly so there really isn't a time when it doesn't do this, probally when i'm on my period but idk, i can't really tell. THis has been happening ot me for a while now and i just wnat ot know what the problem is or whats going on. so please help, thanks
it is completely normal, it happens to most girls. it's just discharge, it feels like you arent done peeing, or that when you have to pee some is leaking out, but its not pee at all.
its just your uterus cleaning out the vaginal area, the discharge is mainly skin cells, bacteria, and other secretions from the cervix. it may be a little bit white and sticky, and thats completely normal. if youre worried about it that much, you could try wearing a liner because it also contains the smell if there is one.
this discharge is just keeping your vaginal area clean, on the inside. it prevents bacteria from causing any problems.
if yours gets really bad, or you just dont want it, people have tried cleaning out the area with a douche, because just washing it with soap wont clean out the inside.
just remember, its completely normal and theres nothing to worry about, every girl has the same thoughts as you and thinks it only happens to them.
birth control also helps get rid of discharge and change how much comes out, and it also regulates your periods and makes them shorter and lighter.
i would talk to your mom/dad about it, because im sure your mom knows what the best solution is, im sure she went through the same thing!
hope that helps you out :)
Hi I was wondering if any of you knew any good romance movies? Some of my favorites are Crazy/Beautiful and the Holiday.If you know of any like that please let me know? Thank you!
i'm kinda obsessed with movies :)
p.s i love you, a lot like love, the illusionist, catch and release, moulin rouge, atonement, must love dogs, the other bolyn girl, and thats just a few of my favorites :) enjoy!