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He just stopped...
I've been texting, talking, hanging out with this guy we'll call him Luke... We talked every night no matter what.. on the phone or texting and he was always the one making the effort.. it turned into serious flirting and i started to fall for him and i thought he was falling for me too by all the hints he was dropping.. well all the sudden he stopped and he's been super short with me or just never responds.. so i stopped making an effort n now he just doesnt even text me anymore and i have no idea what happened.. idk what to do if i should say something or just get over it and i have no idea why this would have happened.. any idea?
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HOLY CRAP!!! i hate to attack other people, but the first two posters probably have no clue wat they are talking about. i am a guy and i have done this exact thing. now why did i do it? well, it kinda simple time and hurt feelings. guys are very....fickle. we want things to be easy and we want them usually pretty quickly. the reason why i did this in my case was because i got tired of feeling like i was always the one initiating the conversations. i felt like she didnt like me the way i liked her and so i shelled and avoided her. i was hurt and i wanted to hurt her back for making me feel like crap. yeah i was kinda wrong to do it since i found out she did like me, but the fact was that i needed time away from her to forget the hurt and bad that i had felt. after, i liked her again, but she didnt know that i would come back, she didnt wait and so the chance passed. so...my advice to you is to keep occasional contact for a little while and then try to initiate the attraction again. i warn you though, it might take a while, but he should come back
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i think you should get over it. there are other guys you can end up liking. i think you did the right thing by not making an effort. if you wouldve showed him signs after he stopped texting you then he wouldve thought you were desperate. all this probably happened because he wasnt feeling it anymore, he just wasnt into it. you should move on to bigger and better things.
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He's either taking a breather or has lost interest and is trying to give you a hint. Either way... Don't call him, don't text him, don't leave a comment on his Myspace page. Let him have his space. If he's just being antisocial, he'll eventually come back around. If not, his loss. Don't wait around, give some other lucky guy the opportunity to pay attention to you :)
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this happened to me too, dont worry about it. instead of constantly texting him, just text him once in a while. if he doesnt respond dont text him for a while. he will eventually text you again. hes either going through stress or something else is happening in his life, and the last thing he wants to do is be in a bad mood when hes trying to flirt with a girl he likes. he'll eventually start texting or calling or something, if he doesnt then hes a scum bag. i went through the same thing, it only took him about a week or two to start texting again. im sure itll be fine, just dont stress about it like i did because youll feel like an idiot afterwards :)
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