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STALKER!!!!!


Question Posted Monday August 7 2006, 6:15 pm

OMG!! OMG!!! I am SSSSSOOOOOOO scared! I go to a very nice private school in the mountains with fountains, a good principal, etc. Well, whenever I walk alone to a class to another building, I always see this man with a beard and old clothes staring right at me about 8 feet away. I sware... it's just me and him!!!! This started around April last year and I started school last week and he's still there (doing the same thing)!!!!!!!!! He can't work there, right? Because he doesn't do anything and he's too ratty looking to work at this school!! HELP ME!!! WHAT SOULD I DO!1????

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RockStoleMySoul answered Monday August 7 2006, 10:16 pm:
Okay hon this is what you need to do. Don't just keep letting it bother you. If you've been seeing him for a while and it's still freaking you out then you need to do something about it. You need to go up to a staff member, no matter how stupid you think you're being, and tell them that the man is making you uncomfortable and ask why he is there and if he is a staff member. If he's a staff, I'm sure they'll just tell you that it is alright and not to worry. If he's not, this might make them aware that someone is there who is not supposed to be there. You need to make them aware of him. Dont' just sit there and wait for something bad to happen.

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myusername1 answered Monday August 7 2006, 9:10 pm:
i would totally be freaked too ! stay calm next time you walk that way, try to walk next to someone and def. tell an adult or someone who works at the school because some random weirdo should not be standing on school property always bring like a cell phone with you in case of emergency hope i helped much luck <3

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uisforukelele answered Monday August 7 2006, 9:04 pm:
tell your school officials, parents, any responsible adults. try to take a different route to that class. always stay with friends. if you have a cell phone, keep it with you (even if it's against school rules). get pepper spray to keep in your backpack. if he keeps doing this, call the police. if you see him, go the other way IMMEDIATELY. you don't know how messed up this guy could be, and it's better if you stay away from him. if he ever approaches you, SCREAM and RUN. but definitely make sure that you stay with a big group. my old middle school was creepy like that, and my mom told me to keep my phone in my backpack. she didn't allow me to walk outside by myself (to get to different classes, you had to walk outside which SUCKED). it's better to be safe than sorry. the best thing you can do right now is notify your teachers, principal, parents, police, friends, anybody about this weirdo. believe me, they'll take care of it. i actually had something like this happen when i was in australia with a group traveling from the united states and the adults in the group made sure that everything was taken care of. good luck with this, and stay safe.

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triciaXterror answered Monday August 7 2006, 8:34 pm:
1. Try your best to take a different route to that class.

2. Stay atleast 15 feet away from him at all times. He could be mental, and you never know what he could do.

3. Make sure you have a phone with you.

4. Tell your princapal or teacher about this ASAP so they can take percautions to keep you safe.

GOOD LUCK!!
triciaXterror

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iheartyoussx3 answered Monday August 7 2006, 8:25 pm:
hey, report it to a trusted adult and principal. he probably doesnt mean any harm but just report it to be on the safe side.

-caitt&hearts;

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kckstartmyheart answered Monday August 7 2006, 8:23 pm:
deffinatley tell your princable or a teacher of yours. also when you have to go that way you could go with some friends. do not talk to him and try to ignore him. also talk to some teachers or your princable (as i said before) but ask if he does work there. make sure you tell him/her exactley what is happening and where. i hope i helped! and good luck!
kckstartmyheart

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kristen22 answered Monday August 7 2006, 8:15 pm:
Go to the principal/guidance counselor or teacher asap. Chances are he could be a homeless person or some old perv who has tooken a interest in you. You need to tell the right ppl asap just to be on the safe side. Also, carry around a keychain with pepper spray on it. I think every girl should have one.

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Mackenzie answered Monday August 7 2006, 8:01 pm:
There is nothing we can do for you here. You need to go to the school office and report this to somebody who can offer you some useful assistance. Until that point in time, avoid him at all costs, and do not speak with him.

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