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Hi! My name is Lauren. I am 13 years young and I love to dance!! When i grow up I want to be a dancer.I have the bestest friends ever and I love them! My best friend is ask_kendall! My boyfriend is Travis! S2 I love him to death!=] I know a lot about fashion, guys, friends, sports...just about anything. So ask me any questions and I will help you out! Love Lauren/Kckstartmyheart

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i was on youtube and i found this on the top videos: http://youtube.com/watch?v=gSmYVlofcZE does that really happen when you get your period? lol probably not but im still wondering ... thx

i must say ewwww! that is really dicusting and periods are no where NEAR that gross. dont worry your peiriod is not that bad and you have nothing to worry about. i hope i helped!
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Can an exes really be friends after a break-up that neither one knows why it ended? I need straight to the point answers

yes you can. one of my ex's of three months and i are really good friends. and my other ex(we went out twice;(for about a week[hes a playa]) we are like be eff eff!!! like seriously were so tight now! even better then we were before. but just give the situation time but dont avoid him and soon you guys could be friends again. i hope i helped you out!
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Okay so i like this guy, not the best-looking, but hes so nice and cute. And he doessnt knnow i like him, only my bff knows. how do i tell him??
typical teen problem i know.
-jan

hmm well.
what i would do is something kinda like this. and this is what i would actually say.
can i tell you something?(he will then say yes)
well i have really liked you for some time. i think your very very very nice and super cutee! and im not sure if you like me or anything but i just really need to tell you this because i really need to get it out of me.
i think that might work. then his reaction depends. you could do this on the phone in person or online. i wish you the very best of luck with this!
kckstartmyheart

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15/M Do girls like guys that wear cologne? Would they like a 15 year old with cologne? I've heard that girls don't like it because cologne reminds them of their dad or grandpa. I was just wondering.

some colognes will remind girls of there dad or grandapa but if you wear like ones made for younger guys there greatt! i love it when my boyfriend wheres tag especailly. then i just want to hug him and not let go! i say go for it. go to the store and find some cologne such as tag bodyspray or ace. i hope i helped!
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Am I the only one alive who thinks it's terrible that kids (13-16) are having sex? I'm only 18, but when I was 13, I was riding my bike and doing karate, not giving blowjobs on the school bus. But thats the norm now, and if you haven't had sex by the time you're 17, you must be ugly or way religeous. What on earth!? Am I the only one disgusted by this trend?

im totally with you! im 13 years old and im almost 14 and i think this is very discusting. i dont think anybody below the age of 17 or so should be doing anything more then kissing maybe making out but not anything further then that. i have friends that are 12 and making out and feeling each other up! 12! i dont think it's really a trend just people think everyone is doing it so they dont want to be left out. there are an ocassional couple who really love each other and thats why they kiss or something but the rest is just to be like everyone else. i myself have never had my first kiss and i may not for another year and im fine with that. i think that if we see this from now on we should try and stop it or maybe talk to someone. schools/busses should inforce such rules and so forth. i hope this helps you out!
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Hi. Whats a website thats like MySpace?

I've tryed friendster, myyearbook, livejournal, and xanga.

Please Help!!

try imbee.com or tripod.com
hope i helped!
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This is for girls. I want an honest answer; is penis size an important factor in relationships and does it matter?

well it shouldnt at all but some girls are shallow(no offense) and they do care. but you shouldnt care about the size and i dont think t will have any effect on a relationship! i hope i helped!
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Hey guys!
So this year I get to learn a langauge && I picked French. does anybody know any tips? or know any awesome sites that can help me?

Merci.

well i have taken french for four years and i even lived nex to france(belguim) and i have learned that websites arent always the best. wat is good is like books especially english-french dictionary. they work great!! the languge isnt too hard as i have learned and you should be fine. just pay attition in class and take notes and study them!! but in case you are ever confussed with the languge then try this one site that i LOVE!
http://babelfish.altavista.com/

its good for if you ever need a translation or something!!
j'espère que j'ai dépanné vous et la bonne chance en français ! ! (**translation** i hope i helped you out and good luck in french!!)
kckstartmyheart
ahhhhahaha im am sorry i fixed the link. sorry about the mix up! lol

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14/f. i'm going into 9th grade, which at my school is still in middle school. now i have two questions:

1)is it easier to buy 1 large 3" binder for all five of my academic classes, or two colored 1.5" binders (one for my three morning classes and one for my two afternoon classes). i just need a first hand experience here. will two binders get too confusing?

2) i want to decorate the front of my binder(s). i'm going to get the type of binders that have that clear pocket on the front of the binder that you can slide a piece of paper into. i want to cut out things from magazines but i don't know what to cut out things that i won't like half way through the year. i thought of cutting out store names and things but i need more!

any input will help me A LOT!

cut out anything you like as a hobby. like if you like ballet do that or soccer or basketball or art! doesnt matter. also you can cut out letters to make words like your name(never out of style lol) or find pictures of you and your friends to put in your binder. i hope i helped you out!!
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Okay, I have a VERY important violin audition and I've been practicing my butt off all summer. I practiced for 2 hours yesterday and now my hand is cramping up (My right hand...which I need for bowing)

Any ideas on how to relieve the cramp...fast? I have the audition in 3hours! And no, I can't reschedule and this is very very important! Any suggestion will be a thanks =D and a 5 =]

well try massaging your hand with warm water and lotion. relax it till the adution and you should hopefully be fine. you could also try icing it or using ben gay, hot and cold or anything like that. i hope i helped you out and good luck!!!!
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ive been like really sad today and i dont know why. i just feel like crying and theres no reason for it at all, nothing has happened to make me upset. so why am i feeling this way?
thanks to anyone who tries to answer this.

your a teenager and you have hormones that make you act and feel different. even my teacher says that we cry for no reasons we have random feelings and someimes even outbursts. there is nothing to worry about and its compleate normall. hope i helped!
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ok well my name is lauren to and i love to dance to (creepy hey)anywase i used to have this problem at dance were i used to cut my self and all my friends at dance would see it and some of them would slap me and stuff and ya and they think my music is weird (but i don't care about that cuz my music is weird) and they are all preps and stuff and im not that much into preps so what do u think i should do next time if it happens?

Thanx

hey lauren!!
well since only the people at dance saw your cuts(im asumming) im guessing it was because of the leaotards. not sure if im right but just a guess. lol well i strongly suggest that you do NOT cut yourself. not only are the people treating you bad because of it but mainly and most inportantly because it is bad for you. here is some information on cutting that i found on the web.
What Can Happen to People Who Cut?
Although cutting may provide some temporary relief from a terrible feeling, even people who cut agree that cutting isn't a good way to get that relief. For one thing, the relief doesn't last - the troubles that triggered the cutting remain, they're just masked over.


NOW i dont know why you cut or if this is really your problem but i want to help you with this. here is a website on cutting and getting help and things to relive yourself so you wont cut.

http://www.kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind/problems/resisting_cutting.html

now i understand about you cutting. i really and truley do because i use to always want to cut myself and sometimes i got so frustrated or mad that i would. i totally reget that so that is why i really think you shouldnt and because its bad. now it get rid of the scares you could try palmers cocobutter scare serum. it will help fade them out. or at dance if you are allowed you could wear a dance cover up or a leotard with long sleves. but if they continue to hit you and treat you badley then tell a dance teacher or instructer of yours. if you are really unhappy with this then you could look of another dance studio to transfer to. but when and if they hit you tell them very firmley not to and to stop. or try to stay near a teacher so they cant. i really hope i helped you out and please tell me if you need any more help from me! and i wish you the best of luckk!!
love kckstartmyheart **aka** Lauren
ps you can also IM me or email me if you would like to talk...itsxlalalalauren or itsxlalalalauren@aim.com

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Does anyone know the name of that old show, i think it was on abc family or something..
it had these 2 friends, that were girls and one of them was blonde named grace i think and the other was a brunette and had very curly hair...
its driving me crazy, i cant figure it out. thanks.

ohh! i absoultley LOVED that show!!!! it was called state of grace and it got cancelled after a year or two. :[ but it was on abc family AND fox familey(it was moved.) i hope i helped out!!
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Hey- I really love my girlfriend and she loves me too and we haven't seen each other lately- but that's not the problem- I want to kiss her (just a kiss on the lips) but I'm not sure how to come across it... Is there something I can say to hint that I want to kiss her? please help

P.S. we are meeting tomorrow! I need advice soon!

aww! thats really sweet. well when your not talking and theres a pause in the conversation just stare into her eyes, hold her hand, and then lean forward and kiss her! or you could run your hand through her hair. i hope i helped you out!!!
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My parents think every plan for a cellphone is expensive! That's why i'm wondering if that kidconnect plan from t-mobile for 19.99 a month is actually good? I don't care that it has only 50 minutes. Is this plan good for a 13 year old girl?

umm that one may work out for you but 50 minutes isnt a lot unless you dont talk on it very much. another plan that you and your parents could look at is disney mobile. it puts you parents in charged and they can decide accounts and allowences and all. i hope i helped you!
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I have this problem.See, whenever I meet a cute guy, I obsess about him (that leads me to thinking that I like him-without even knowing that much about him).This is cuasing me alot of problems, and i would really appriciate it if you could help me figure this out.
~13 and confused.

well i am sorta the same. i get crushes on cute guys that i dont even know. mabye if you focus on other things or pick up a hobby then you wont have time to obbsess over him. or at least not as much. and if you really think you like him(or just think he is cute) then get to know him a bit. then once your friends(or at least know him) you may not like him or at least not obsess over him. or make a pro and con list then you may relise hes not that great. im not sure if this helps and if it doesnt then i am very sorry but i wish you the best of luck! let me know if you need any more help!!
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i'm a junior in high school. i really wanna be fluent in french, so im going to go to france for a year. should i do this right out of high school or should i do it right out of college?

i would do this right out of high school. i have actually lived next to france (belguim) for 3 years and the enviermont does help you learn but i would take some classes otherwise it will be a bit harder. so my advice is to take some classes and try to learn some of the langue(if you dont already) and once out of high school go to france!! make sure you bring a french english dictonary for the times when you are confused! trust me it comes in handy! haha
étudier heureux et moi espèrent que je heled vous dehors ! ! translate=happy studing and i hope i helped you out!
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does anyone know how many times a week you should use a face masque. because i just bought this Mint Julep Masque and i don't want to overdry my skin or anything. so how many times a week is it safe to use a face masque?

i have that stuff and i bealive that you use it once a week. two at the most. i hope i helped!
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What are some good ab workouts that will help me see results fast???

toneteen.com go there and click on fittness then stomach. it will give you great workouts. such as crunches side crunches reveres crunches and bicycle crunch. i hope i helped!
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So I went to the beach about two weeks ago and got a lot of sun. I'm just now starting to peel on my chest. What is the best thing to do to make it go away?

well you cant really stop it you kinda have to let it peel but to make it better put aloe vera gel on it. or vasaline but aloe vera works better i bealive. also dont pick it cause then you could end up trying the new skin. i hope i helped!
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