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when wearing a long sleeved shirt, how many of you do the very top button up when you're wearing a tie? (link)
Most people tend to not button the top button, unless wearing a tie. It looks very formal, and looks better in most cases when you don't.


my bf and i are goin to this thing where everyone dresses up so we decided to be rockstars and he wants me to help him w/ his hair & make up haha [were goin all out on this] soo i was wonderin how do guys like benji madden and gerard way etc wear eyeliner? top and bottom and then they jus smudge it or what? cuz im goin for that look. and also to spike his hair [its kinda short] do i jus use gel and like run my fingers through it to make it stand up in diff. directions? thanks in advance (link)
Uh well put it all around the eye and sumdge it above the eyelid and under the bottome lid. but if it doesnt look good take it off...and yea just make his hair stand up in different directions...


my pregnant sister is trying to find a unique [maybe exotic] MIDDLE name for her baby girl, so far its between Cache[accent over the e] and chenelle....

the babys name will be Alexis [middle name] Smigelski

does anyone have any suggestions for a middle name?? and please dont say anything like nicole or ashley, NO common stuff

haha sry if im sounding mean but i just would like any suggestions that sound good, you can see our taste in names [chenelle, cache] if that helps so ya thanks, ill rate anyone who at least trys lol

~ xsharpiexlovex (link)
Petra
Alexis
Ali


i would like to know what guys look 4 in a girl.be truthfull!!!
thanxxx (link)
Well some guys just like hott people some guys like sincere ppl who are thereselves.The best advice for you is not to change yourself and if they dont like it to bad for them


F/UK
I've seen a lot of questions about emo's on this site, but what exactly is this? I don't think it's an expression we use in the UK. Thanks. (link)
EMO MEANS EMOTIONAL
It isnt a fashion statment
It doesnt mean you have to cut your wrists
And dye your hair.
Like Punk its a way of non conformity, but unlike punks you have to be depresse dot be ligitamatly emo, unlike punk were anyone can be punk and you dont know whos a poser or whos a punk


im getting kind of bored of listening to the same songs on my computer, so i need to find new music. i listen to basically everything except country [i just dont prefer it] i like listening to hellogoodbye, evanescence, the academy is, the postal service, basically rock is what i like the most. could anyone recommend some bands or songs i should download?
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AFI
Taking Back Sunday
Angels and Airwaves
Lacuna Coil
Nightwish
Panic! At The Disco
Fallout Boy


I want to make a website but I do't know how to. Someone please help me. Thank you in advance to those of you who answer. (link)
www.piczo.com
Its a really good site it has peopel with site taht can help you and will give you html codes to use on your site if you dont know how to use them and its free


Alright, the reason why i think im depressed is because im sad and crying for no apparent reason, im extremely sensitive to what people say to me that are insults (even if its a joke), i do have some happy moments and days. The crying has last for almost a month, much longer than it was before, so im thinkin i need to see a doctor, but im not sure. Can you guys/girls help me out and tell me if im depressed or not? (link)
Its hard to say really. There are a lot of disorders and an online test only gives you an idea you need to see a doctor or pshyciatrist.


My 11 year old brother confided in me that he likes to look at naked men. ohhh boy--that is just something that I'd rather not know! but he feels comfortable talking to me about it (i don't though..lol) he will not tell my parents. he is DEEPLY religious. and he knows the catholics frown upon gays. but yeah, he tells me that he likes flipping through magazines and ENJOYS looking at naked men...this creeps me out a little. he was freaking out last night asking me what i thought--and i told him that he's not gay (idk if he is though..but i just said that to make him feel better or else he would have a SPAZ if i told him i thought he was. like i said, he is DEEPLY religious.) --and i also told him that maybe he was just curious..idkkk he doesn't know. but i feel VERY uncomfortable talking to him about thsi but there's no one else he can talk to. he asks me stuff about sex too and i don't know how to answer him. can anyone help me? thannnnnnks :) (link)
He probubly isn't gay.
Although he might be.
A lot of guys like looking at other guys because they are curious, sometimes guys like looking at gay porn and all that but they are straight. He should take time to figure out if hes gay or not.
Also catholicism dosn't frown upon gays, its gay sex and gay marriage they are against.


Okay, so i'm a 14/f. About 4 months ago, i was 125 pounds, and i was disgusted with my body. So i decided i was going to lose weight. Well i chose the wrong path to take. I basicly cut down on food. Well, now i am 115 pounds. And today i realized something was wrong.

I was starving, and my friend, my boyfriend and my mom went to the mall, we ate there and i had about 4 peices of orange chicken and like 3 pieces of broccoli, and a fork full of rice, and i was full and i thought i was going to throw up because i was so full.

And I'm not like that, usually, i can eat pretty well. Is there any eatting disorder that can relate to this, because i'm 99% sure i'm not Bulemic or Anorexic.

And please don't say "just eat more", it's harder than you think.

Help please? (link)
Well your eating a lot less, undereating possibly anorexia both are eating disorders, if you are just undereating start eating a bit more and a bit more each day to gradually eat more. If it deosnt work you should see a doctor. Or if your starving yourself a lot go and see a doctor.


This is NOT a joke. I seriously think my house is haunted. Tonight I saw something (a black figure out of the corner of my eye) walk past my room. The reason why I dont think it was "just my eyes playing a trick on me" is because I felt a prescence, like there was someone there. When I looked down the hall, there was no one there. I asked my Dad who was watching TV in another room if it was him and he said, "No." And my Mom was sleeping in her room and no one else was home. Please help! This has happened 3 or 4 times and I cant sleep at night! What should I do?? Has this happened to anyone else? How did you feel less scared? :( (link)
Okay the actual image could have been your eyes playing tricks on you. You never know. I thappens to me when I'm on the computer and I think I see somthign behiond me but nothing is there. But you said you felt a presence which I have felt many times. Dont try to contact it, unless you know someone very expirenced with a Ouija board and knows a lot about Wicca(preferbly if they are Wicca or once were). And if it isnt hurting you don't be scared. It's probubly a spirt stuck in your house, an angel or spirt there to protect you that you can't see, or if someone in you family has recently passed away it could be them atching over you(this one happened to me)


i took a ept pregnancy test and it came out positve could the test be wrong (link)
It can be but norammly they arent..
And dont listen to waht the last person to anser said.
Your should take one when you get you period, unless you have first response pregnancy test were you can take it up to four days before your peroid.


next month im turning 16 and i want to have a really sweet party. I live on a lake and i have a big back yard, i just dont want it to be a lot of people just standing around not having any fun...soo what are some good ideas to make sure that people are having fun? (link)
Do a beach themed party like thing set up a place for food and stuff, people can swim, have D.j maybe a bonfire and it would be awsome...


what are some good pop rock/punk songs??? like the type of music that aly & aj and the veronicas sing. thnks =] (link)
Taking back sunday
The all American Rejects
My chemical romance
All of the songs these bands have out are awsome


ok last night i woke up at about 3:30 because i heard a creaky noise and i flung up and went OMGSH!! i went to say you scared me to who i thought was my moms girlfriend and my dog but the person just turned around and looked at me like i was insane i stared at them as the faded into my door without opening it am i insane.. do i have some special power? this happened when i was like three.. i was in the bathroom potty training [ bear with me here ] && the door was open and all of the sudden a clown came out of the wall [ im not afraid of them ] and i screamed he looked at me and walked out the door and my uncle came running and looked at him or so i thought.. but i dont think he saw him .. whats wrong with me? am i just seeing this stuff and its not there do i have some power i dont know about im only 13 so it could get stronger (link)
YOu saw a ghost.
I have neevr but I ahve felt them and heard them I've heard crahes and saw thign that werent there never happened.
Don't ask it to write soemthign like on person said. sometimes they can be dangerous and if you invite them to do things like that they may stay there with you.
You shoudl tell someone.
Maybe use a Ouija board if you know someone who is expirenced but I highly advise against that.


Ok, this question is preferably for guys.

You and your girlfriend are playing a sport (how about soccer) and she's pretty good at it. Do you like a girl who gives it her all and plays like she's one of the boys--even if she beats you? Like if you don't know how good she is until you're playing with her, would you want her to hold back just a little so you both will have more fun and it would be more.. flirty, I guess? Because wouldn't you feel stupid if she was more manly at a sport than you are? And if she played as best as she could and beat you, wouldn't the relationship be more competitive then romantic?

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Depends if its like a game and all with a bunch of people no neither shoudl hold back but if you are just kicking around the ball she shouldn't be like making sure shes winning, she should just have fun, even if it means having to hold back a bit.


Ok so im trying to work things out with my bf. we have been together almost 2 years and i am now pregnant even though i was told i couldnt have kids. We have set a date for marriage but there is a problem. He will not save any money and we are stuck renting a basement apartment at a friends house and im not bringing a baby into a basement. So, i suggested that we move down south with family where we could afford the cost of living. He refuses because all of his friends are here. So since he doesnt want to come with me, should i just leave him and go by myself??? I have no family or friends here and both of our families are down south. I think he is being selfish to want me and our baby to stay in a basement just because of his friends. (link)
ok me dear he is being very rude if he loves you and wants the baby to grow up in an environment were it wont be in hospital hooked up to respirators ebcause it devolpped asthma from the mildeau he should move down south. There is no way you are being is elfish and you should move down there with or without him. You are endangering yourslef and the baby by living in that kind of place and he isnt doing much good for himself either. He is being very selfish. If he loves you when he sees your serious that you'll move he'll pack up and go with you.


Hey everyone..I was just wondering if anyone knows of some good songs to practice the various model walks to...I already have the following:

1. Beyonce- Crazy In Love
2. Kelly Osborne- One Word
3. Beyonce- Deja Vu
4. Kool And The Gang- Jungle Boogie
5. TaTu- All The Things She Said
6. TaTu- Not Gonna Get Us

As some of you may know.."Techno" songs are probably the best to practice to. But I cannot think of any more. So if yall know of any songs with a good steady *not too fast* beat please let me know! Thank You!!!! (link)
Most TaTu songsare good, steady beat and not to fast.


i need some music recommendations
i like just about everything, if it is good, which i guess it must be if you are recommending it

also cna you include the genre please/

thanx (link)
Taking back Sunday-Rock/punk
T.a.T.u-Pop
Pink-Pop
The spill Canvas-Punk(black dresses and self conclusion)
The Subways-Not sure of the genre....soft rock maybe
Reliant K-Christian
Nightwish-Opera Metal
Him-Punk/rock
Billy Talent-Punk
Jack off Jill-gothic


Hey! I'm not shure if this goes in this category but - does anyone know how to get good karma?

Thank yoU! (link)
What goes around comes around. If you do something like cheat on someone you are sending bad energies out into the universe and the equivalent of these energies will come back to haunt you. so if you want better Karma do more nice things for people pe polite not rude etc...opposed to being rude and mean.


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