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I am currently In 8th grade I do go to the highschool for a few of my classes though.. I Swim as in a compete. Run Cross Country and participate in Track long distance and hurdles sometimes long and high jump also. I like to help people with their problems. I have had many problems in my life some are still occuring but are starting to heal I know I am young but I have had a lot happen to me and now I don't want anyone doing the same thing as I have done. I have just moved to a new town so I can pursue My swimming sport because I am heading towards a full scholorship (hopefully) to coledge. I also Hope that all advice I give will help you.
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I know that if you crack your fingers a lot, that you're bound to get Arthritis, but I also hear cracking you back is good. I tend to crack my neck a lot, will that somehow cause Arthritis?
I have had a similar problem with cracking my neck but my neck used to crack 24/7 even when I just moved my head to the side it would crack several times. You should probably go to a chyropracter and ask for a neck exam. I was a very healthy person but my health was being decreased because I ended up having one of the worse cases of forward head posture my chyrocracter has ever seen and ever since I went to the chyropracter my neck has started not to crack when I just move it and barely cracks at all now. THen on recent x-rays my neck moved back from all of the strength it had gained and it was now in a much better position for nerves to travel through my body for a better overall function throughout the body.
im 14 almost 15 a male and im not really sure on how to loose weight. i can't see my doctor because it would have to be the nutritionist and id have to wait till december or january and thats too long. i dont know what to eat because alot of healthy foods don't have much protein so somtimes i have to eat not excatly heathy foods which to me theres no point cuz i'd just gain the weight from the protien foods. and i dont know what excerises help and what would be good for a teenager. what should i do? what foods would be good and what exercises would be good?
14/m Swimming is probably the easiest way to lose weight I personally eat like crap I eat all sorts of sugars carbs fats etc and I swim and I am very skinny. Swimming also benefits you because It works every muscle in your body unlike other forms of excersise like jogging (better then running) it really only works ur legs and your forearm. I hope I helped.
today in P.E we had orienteering (sp?) i had to go through a woodland area, and the boy that i used to fancy, jake, was in there aswell, anyway jake had his leg stuck in some stinging nettles and i had my foot stuck in a bush and he pulled his leg out, even tho he knew it would hurt, just to come and help me and after when we had to get back up, he had helped me get up, coz my legs were really hurting and then after that we had lunch and he never really "noticed" me before but when he walked passed me he smiled nd sed "u alright", and then after lunch we had D.T and hes in my class nd he helped me alot and was making me laugh nd that, which he never used to joke about with me before bczo im not exactly his 'best mate'. so i just wanna know does he like me or not.
also, whenever i saw him he would normally just push past me but hes been like really kind.
thanks xxxxxx
If you have been talking to him more and he is flirting* with you it is possible. Based on what you wrote though I believe that he might have just changed his personality to be more polite, generous and a man. I don't want you to be mad but thats what I believe is happening.
On this game toontown i play, the game takes up the whole screen, like theres no minimize, mazimize, or exit box. How can I make it so toontown has the taskbar and those 3 boxes on it when i play?
If you mean like minimized you could press the windowns key if you are on a windows computer you could press ctrl + alt + delete and it should minimize it or press ctrl+ F4 that might close your game though..
how do i get to know a guy i like better? basicly how can i get him interested in hanging out with me and stuff. we dont talk much but we flirt sometimes. ive liked him for 2.5 years, and we dont go to the same school, we do a sport together. any advice would be appreciated.
Well if you do a sport together you could probably for example I swim. I would go into the persons lane I like swim and say something about the sport and start a conversation trying to move it towards a more personal level or do this over a period of time to get to know the person a little bit more then get more personal or just ask questions that you are interested in and hopefully he will answer back.
everytime i masturbate [which isn't often], I feel so much shame.
I'm 14 and I just feel like masturbation is wrong - yet I can't help it when I have hormones. What should I do? Should I keep masturbating and keep it a secret from my mom, or just stop because I feel ashamed?
Masturbation in no way is wrong or shameful. I think that you should probably keep masturbating and if you don't want your mom to know that your desition to make whether you want her to know or not but even if she did know she wouldn't bother you about it or anything. You are exploring your body.
i herd somewhere that if a guy does you from the back you cant get pregnet.is that true? and if it is does that meen your still a virgin. alot of people on adviceators say having sex is inserting the penis into the vagina so is it not considered sex if he inserts it in the back? thanx to all that answer!
No it is impossible for you to get pregnant from it being inserted there. No it does not qualify for breaking virginity although so people may argue... I hope I helped.
ok 14/f i have a class with this really cute guy that i dont know and he doesnt talk much so how should i start a convo with him without seeming to weird
Well I'm a 13 year old guy. You should first just say hey to him a few times when you see him then just go up to him casually and ask him a few questions about himself. He shouldn't get disgusted or weirded out by you. If he doesn't have many friends and that is why he doesn't talk much maybe you could act friendly towards him and he will want to talk more to you. I hope I helped.
I babysit a one year old and he wont stop crying! The only time he is happy is when I am holding him but after a while I can't because my arms are way too tierd. Any suggestions?
Well if the only time he doesn't cry is while you are holding him maybe you could sit him on your lap and maybe use one arm to support him and rest one then switch arms you support him with and he will most likely stop crying. Hope I helped.
ok so i originally only had an ipod mini
then my brother got his own ipod nano and we plugged it into my computer
somehow i managed to get all the song/playlist that were on my ipod onto his
but now if i want to update only his ipod [like add a song]
it also adds it to mine
same goes if i delete a song
im pretty sure i have itunes 4
is there anyway to stop this from happening?
You can do one of two things if you want this to stop happening. One you could go to Itunes not even use the Library except to store your songs and make a playlist for all of your own songs and go on your iPod or computer and play them from there or you could download iTunes again on a different user and transfer the songs from either a cd or by saving them and transfering to the newly downloaded iTunes that is the only two ways I believe to solve this problem.
Why are guys so embarassed to admit their virgins in like, highschool?
I am a guy. Guys don't like to admit they have never had sex. Most guys will lie about having sex with people saying they have and what not. They think that there friends will give them problems not physical but mentally. Guys love to brag if they had sex with a very hot girl and don't want to admit that they havn't.
Hey on my phone i can click on aim, but then i can't get to even signing on but i did not download it or anything it was just there.... i want to use it, do you have to oay to activate it or something? if so how much is it
thx
It really depends on the service you have for how much it costs for example on my cingular lg 1400 cellphone aim started as an option and was already downloaded and ready for use. On others you must activate it. Aim on cell phones usually costs about 10 cents and Im I am not sure if it costs money for both the sender and you or just you. If you do choose to activate your cellphone's AIM service I would try to put as much words and get it all out in one Im to conserve money.
but..i don't know. sometimes i enjoy it & other times i'm not so sure. my parents will be disappointed if i don't pursue varsity swimming at my school. but, idk if i want to. i enjoy it sometimes, but ither times i hate it. it's so boring & kinda hard. idk how to explain it. i just don't enjoy it too much. :(
please help asap!!!
I swim too I know how boring it can be personally I like I'm not going to lie. Swimming is a very very difficult sport because it uses every single muscle in your body I understand where that is coming from. If you do not want to pursue going to varsity swimming maybe you could just talk to your parents and see what they say about the whole varsity swimming thing. Ask them if they will be mad if you quit or just simply talk to them about it and see what they have to say if you do that or need any more help ask me a question or u could im me at shad0winthedark7 on aim
p.s. I am a guy..
Okay...so when i was like...eight, my parents split up. and when around when i was 11(or twelve???) my mother met this guy on the internet(his name is nick). and she met with him after a while. and he said he was divorced. and then he lost his job (he lived in the appartment where he worked). and so without any questions about if i minded or anything...he moved in with us. and i hated it. everything was cramped and messy and nothing in our house matched. and i completly hated it. and then my sister (she was 17 then?) moved oout because she couldnt stand him and she dropped out of high school and went to live 60 miles away...so....none of my friends would come over when he was there...and all of my relatives hated him and really wouldnt talk to us..and my mom lost a lot of her friends and life was hell and my mom didnt see it. so then she found out that he was still married, and he was cheating on her with about 50 women. so she kicked him out and got a temporary restraining order and all kinds of stuf..and she was going to group meetings about women staying away from crazy men. and she was going really well...but then she started going out with him without me knowing. and now shes seeing him all the time. and i know hes cheating on her. and i really dont mind her going out with him just as long as she dosent bring him in to MY house while im there. (im 14 now) and the other day i was sitting at home all peaceful and she tells me that he was coming over. so i called my dad and told him to pick me up early so that i wouldnt have to spend too much time with nick there. and then he showed up and i had to talk to him. and my mom wants to move away to live closer to him (hes getting a job really far away which will give him plenty of time to cheat on her) and i would only get to see my dad everyother weekend (i see him about every other day...) and i dont know what to do! im thinking about moving in with my dad. but i dont know! HELP.
Well I can tell you do like seeing your dad because you said you will only see him everyother weekend so Living with your dad is a good choice I mean if you are comfortable living with him then Personally I think that would be fine. If that does not work out then I would sit down and talk with your mom about him. Yes it is possible to be punished or something but most mothers like it when you tell them your problems. If she still ends up moving and the guy comes to your new house just try to avoid him as much as possible. I am letting you know this right now I am a guy so this website is more used to girls but I like to help people with all of their problems. If you need any more help you could im me on aim at shad0winthedark7 if you need it. Hope I helped you.