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So I've been dating this amazing guy for about five weeks. We click better than I have with any other guy. We have such an amazing relationship and no we haven't said the "love" thing because it's stupid and too early. But there's a dilema...

He got grounded for getting caught throwing a party with his brother at his father's house when they were gone....now he's grounded for three months and we haven't seen each other for three weeks now. We were supposed to yesterday but then things fell apart and he doesn't blame me at all and he tells me how much he misses me but I do think that this not seeing each other will affect the relationship...
DO you think so?

I don't know we text and talk on the phone all the time but is that enough?

Help...advice on what to do. (link)
i know how you feel. my boyfriend & i are in a long distance relationship & i haven't seen him for about 3 weeks. for us, talking on the phone as much as we can really helps. we have alota trust in our relationship so it works. it's only 3 months & if yall like each other enuff, you shuld be able to get thru it. since yall haven't seen each other in a while, it will make the next time you spend together more special. it's tuff but where there's a will, there's a way. meaning that if you really want something, you'll find a way to make it happen. good luck :]


mmk so my bestfriend since 6th grade and i started going out in 9th. we had this whole crazy connection, i cant be without you kind of relationship.(this was in 9th grade) well he wasnt actually allowed to date soo i only saw him at school and i think schools really important and when we started going out my grades dropped super low. because school was all "boyfriend time". and so i freaked out and pushed him away. and now its 10th grade and he hasnt really talked to me since. and i still love him. he doesnt really know what happened.. how do i get him back or to atleast get him to talk to me..he means the world to me.. (link)
i suggest talking to him about it. from what it seems, you two were really close & then you pushed him away so he was probably confused about what was going on. he mite have thought you didn't like him or didn't want to be around him. just explain what had happened & let him know how you feel about him. good luck :]


now that i'm going into 9th grade (my last year of middle school), i have started getting depressed lately. i keep thinking about how i've never had a boyfriend, never been kissed, and i keep thinking that nobody likes me. what can i do to make myself feel better about myself. i'm 14/f if that helps any.

THANKS!! (link)
just because you haven't had a boyfriend or never been kissed, it doesn't mean that noone likes you. maybe the boys are just shy or something. if you're looking for a boyfriend, make the first move. go up & start talking to the boys & show some interest. but it's okay, you're only 14 & your perfect man will come when the time is rite. you don't need a boy to make you feel better about yourself. get involved with other activities & focus your attention on something else. good luck :]


There is this dance and I am going to go with this guy, the dance is in 2 days, and I said yes to him yesterday, today he gave me a hug, do you think he thinks we are going out?? Also, he is a wigger and that is not my type, and he is on my nerves...WHAT TO DO!!?!?!?! (link)
well you culd just talk to him about the dance & slip it into the conversation. i suggest just asking him "we're just going as friends, rite?" or something like that. i had this problem too & we just talked about it & figured things out. just be nice about it & good luck :]


ok so i used to work for my neighbor, for about a year when this summer i was sooo busy with my friends i just stopped coming to help her and she did pay me good money, very good and i just did things in her garden and just stuff like that, but now that school is closer and im in need of extra cash i was considering to go back to her but i dont know if its too late after i stopped coming about early july and if i did call her what would i say??? thank you

also she old and her and her husband cant really do anything so they really needed me and i just left! i have been feeling bad about this for a while now and just lats night i had a dream about it that she took me back, weird huh? lol (link)
well since she is elderly, she culd always use your help. just give her a call & say you're sorry that you were busy before & culdn't help but you wuld like to come back & work for her again. i'm sure she'll appreciate it & take you back :]


Where can I get rubber flip flops that are cheap but really cute! (link)
i wuld definetely suggest old navy. you can get just about any color you want for $5.


Ok, so I'm going out with this guy, and he's basically totally, completely in love with me. He continually tells me the sweetest things and how much he loves me. I used to like it, and him, but somehow, it seems like that has faded away. I'm pretty sure I want to break up with him, but still a little confused. What if i break up with him, and I end up changing my mind and wanting him back? And if i do break up with him, how do i go about that? Especially when hes just like soo sweet. Cause he has no clue I feel this way, like none. It's so sad :/ I honestly don't know what to do. HELP! (link)
i know exactly how you feel. the last guy i started getting involved with did that too. it was cute @ first, but like you said, it kinda faded. i wuld suggest talking with him about how you feel so he's not completely left in the dark about this situation. just don't be mean about anything you say. if you're not completely sure you want to break up with him, i wuld suggest you wait it out a little bit until you're 100% sure what you want to do just incase your feelings change. well i hope everything works out :]




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