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now that i'm going into 9th grade (my last year of middle school), i have started getting depressed lately. i keep thinking about how i've never had a boyfriend, never been kissed, and i keep thinking that nobody likes me. what can i do to make myself feel better about myself. i'm 14/f if that helps any.
THANKS!!
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I`m 14 too and i know what you mean. 8th grades a bitch even the guys!! they`re very judge mentle and it annoys the shit out of me! Depression is not fun and just don`t do anything crazy (kill yourself, cutting, drug, etc.) don`t go that far! anyways its all in your mind. relax look in the mirror and say that your beautiful because if you feel good about yourself everyone can see it. try and talk to someone. i`m all up for ears.
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just because you haven't had a boyfriend or never been kissed, it doesn't mean that noone likes you. maybe the boys are just shy or something. if you're looking for a boyfriend, make the first move. go up & start talking to the boys & show some interest. but it's okay, you're only 14 & your perfect man will come when the time is rite. you don't need a boy to make you feel better about yourself. get involved with other activities & focus your attention on something else. good luck :]
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honestly, i was JUST like you at that exact age. I know exactly how you feel. I later did get a boyfriend, and that made me realize how worth it, it was to wait. It truly makes your first like a thousand times better. Not only that, but you have to understand dating is a LOT more complicated than you would think. Try to involve yourself with your friends, and some school activities, and whatever kinda stuff u like. who knows, u could meet that special guy anywhere. let them come to you!
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Dont feel depressed. Your first kiss and everything should be sooo special. I'm 18, and I have never kissed a guy. But i'm not mad, sad, or in anyway depressed about it. Just have fun while you can. Spend time with your friends. Try and build your future. And when you get kissed you wont even realize it's comming. It will be like magic.
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So?Im 15 and a half female going to 10TH grade never had any of that either and im not depressed.Im actually glad because i wont have anything to worry me or any guy on my mind 24/7 and all ill have to think about is building my future and getting a good education at school.If i had a guy on MY mind,i would probably fail everything!Im sure Gods saving you a GREAT guy,mabey youll just meet him later on.Dont rush it.
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Well, honey, don't worry. You're only 14. You have those four (drama filled) years of high school to get kissed and get a boyfriend =D
Don't rush into a relationship, you don't want your frist boyfriend to be some total stranger that you don't even like or know very well. Or to get kissed by some total weirdo..
Just wait and be patient. Just because you haven't had a bf or your first kiss, that doesn't say that no one likes you. Boys are nothing to get "depressed" over so chill =)
Just know this:
Most guys hate it when girls wear too tight jeans or their hips showing or the boobs about to fall out of their shirt..and they hate it when the girl get overly hyper, jumps up and down, squeals, claps, etc.
Be yourself, don't be shy, make a lot of guy friends =D
Well, I do cuz well, they're much cooler and easier to hang out with than girls for me but w.e. I'm too much of a tomboy =X
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