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I use Windows Live Messenger, but for the last 10 or so hours I have not been able to sign on. I have been getting error message 81000314 and it says I should wait 5 minutes and try to sign on again. I have tried this for hours and hours but have not had success. I was able to sign onto my friend's account, but not mine. And my friend to sign onto mine from his computer but got the same error.
How can I fix it?
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I would email your messenger provider!
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Some background info:
Over the summer I had met this guy an AMAZING guy at that. He was handsome, smart, genuine, and sweet. He was everything I had wanted in a guy.
We were "seeing" each other for about a month and a half, he'd take me out to the movies and go out to dinner and whatnot. Then out of the blue he asks me to stop talking to him. I was shattered -- I hadn't thought I did anything wrong! I replayed our last date over and over and over again and I couldn't put my finger on something I said, did, or implied to make him not want to speak to me again.
He responded to me about 5 hours later saying "I'm not about to get involved. I have to deal with my own shit and I've got too much to handel right now".
The only times I had ever talked about being in a relationship with him was when he'd say how he's lonely, how his ex was ungreatful for things he did for her, etc. Always when HE would bring it up.
He ended things in late August, and since then I have met someone else and I am now in a relationship. I've done all that I can to keep my mind off of this other guy... And I've been lying to myself in saying that I don't have feelings for him anymore... Truth is I'm in love with him. It has been a month and not a day goes by where he hasn't been on my mind at least once.
To make matters worse for me, today I texted him apologizing for "forcing" a relationship on him and that my actions were not intended to seem that way. I said I missed his friendship... He taught me so much about myself and about life in general and I cherished every moment I spent with him... When he texted me back he said he didn't know who I was. I asked if he was *Cristian and he said yes... And yet he doesn't remember me.
I feel like my heart has been broken for the second time by him... I just don't know what to do. I've been TRYING so hard to forget him but I just can't do it. I don't know what to do. Please help.
By the way: I'm 17/f and he is 20/m. (link)
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I must say this is a tough question to answer. I am thinking that maybe he has some issues going on in his life that maybe he needs to be alone for a bit. The fact that he said he doesn't know who you are probably means that he knows who you are, but is too afraid of getting in trouble, (because of the age difference)! So he is probably trying to avoid a situation. Or I could be completely wrong about this!
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How do I get over being as self concious as I am? It's like I refuse to sign up for all the homecoming events or dance at the pep rallies. I'm really not a shy person, just a little unsure of myself. I constantly tell myself to stop caring, but at times I feel like I look majorly stupid. I usually could act like I'm fearless, but I'm tired of acting. I really want to be secure with all of my actions!! Is there any piece of advice that I could replay in my head that would make me stop with the concern? (link)
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I understand how you feel. You may not know it, but many people out there in the world feel as you do. The thing that works for me is that I wont let people know that I am self concious. They way to do that is all in the way you present yourself. Body language is a huge thing. When people are self concious they tend to fold there arms and stand with locked knees. This tells other people that you are feeling self concious and you dont want to be bothered. You dont have to look at people in the eyes. That can throw you off even more. Insted, look at there forhead. This makes them think that you are looking at their eyes, but your not. Your actaully looking at their forhead. Also, when you walk. Keep your head up and walk with your chest first, ( Like a cheerleader)! This makes you look completely confident. And If you make others think that your confident then you will feel confident in yourself. Also, if you get nurvous tense and release. Tense your muscles and realse, making you feel more relaxed. Football coaches have their football players do this so they can feel more relaxed during the game. I hope that this works for you. It workes for me!
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ok im 15 years old and i am having signs of being pregnant and me and mi bf never use condoms i know that doesnt help well like i've been getting lightheaded alot, tired quickly, breasts are tender, ankels are swolen, stomach hurts if u push on it, hungry... and like mi bf always pulls out and everything and ic ant tell by mi periods because its hereditary for me because wen mi mom and g-ma was pregnant they still had there periods and i know its rare but its hereditary for me too so i cant tell by that please help me! (link)
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I would go see a DR.
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now that i'm going into 9th grade (my last year of middle school), i have started getting depressed lately. i keep thinking about how i've never had a boyfriend, never been kissed, and i keep thinking that nobody likes me. what can i do to make myself feel better about myself. i'm 14/f if that helps any.
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Dont feel depressed. Your first kiss and everything should be sooo special. I'm 18, and I have never kissed a guy. But i'm not mad, sad, or in anyway depressed about it. Just have fun while you can. Spend time with your friends. Try and build your future. And when you get kissed you wont even realize it's comming. It will be like magic.
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Okay. I a 17 year old girl and I have a boyfriend also 17 that I've been dating a couple of months now and we've touched the subject of sex lightly only because he knows im a virgin! He's not however! I feel im ready but since im a virgin and he's not I don't want to disappoint him with my lack of knowledge. I know to use a condom and every thing, I just don't feel I'll live up to it! I want him to be surprised, I don't know what to do! (link)
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Wait until your married. Then you know that they love you for sure. If you sleep with someone and then you break up...it hurts. If someone will wait for you then it's true love.
Your virginity is something very special. You want to make sure that you give it to the right person.
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Ok well, here is the deal... I started talking to this girl online, we talked every day, and night, we eventually became liking eachother, so after a few weeks of joking around, I decided to ask if it could be 'for real' as a relationship, She is 14, and I am 24. I know it's a bit of a age different, and no, I am not a pedophile, I never usually like people younger than me, just it's.. She acts more mature and it's really easy to talk to her, and listen to her. We have really great conversations, but we never met, but then one day, we decided to meet, and she brought a few friends with her... the whole time she avoided me, yeah I was shy also, but I would've talked to her if she wasn't avoiding me, cause I could tell she didn't want to be there with me, I mean, she did, but she didn't... and I know she's had past relationship problems, but I guess, maybe I was just another problem in a relationship, and I really fell in love with her, before we even met and she means the world to me, I just don't know what to think, she only lets me talk to her, if I ask her on this, but she speaks as if she don't know me, and I don't know what to think, any advice? P.S. She talks to me still, but don't tell me her true feelings, and acts like nothing happened, but she don't talk as much or act the same. (link)
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Oh my freaken gosh! What the heck is wrong with you? This girl is 14 years old. You have had a lifetime of expearience compared to her. She just bearly steped into becomming a women. She has a whole lifetime a head of her, and she needs be able to go through life normally.
What your looking for is probably completely different than what she is looking for. Relationships when your young are completely different than when your older. At the age of 24 your looking for someone you can fall inlove with and get married to. At the age of 14 you just want to be able to brag to your friends that you have a boyfriend. You may not be touching her, but you are molesting her mind. Let her grow up normally and leave her alone. Find someone your own age.
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I'm kind of stuck. I've been out of a very long relationship with this guy. I miss him a lot. Thing is, I broke up with him because he liked some other chick. It still bothers me that he likes her and yet "likes me" too. He's the only person that really talks to me. So we're really close. He was like a best friend for me but a little more, you know? But now it's just awkward because we sometimes act like a couple..
I keep hurting myself because I find myself.. wanting to be with him again. I doubt it will happen. A part of me doesn't want to try again either. Is there any way to forget him?
I keep talking to him like.. every night. It's just an old habit. I'm thinking of completely.. letting him go. Forget him. Out of my life thing.
But then I'll have no one to talk to because my friends.. aren't that close to me. [I've tried to be close, believe me.. they push me away.]
So going out with friends isn't going to work. Plans don't get that far with them.
I just need something to keep me busy. I don't know. A new hobby? Or.. something. I really need some help. (link)
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I realize that you like this boy a lot, but you also have to understand that he is your best friend, and making more out of it than friendship could hurt your friendship really bad. You have to think. Would you rather have him as your best friend? Or not have him at all? If it were me I wouldn't want to mess up my friendship.
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