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Summer Romance
Some background info:
Over the summer I had met this guy an AMAZING guy at that. He was handsome, smart, genuine, and sweet. He was everything I had wanted in a guy.
We were "seeing" each other for about a month and a half, he'd take me out to the movies and go out to dinner and whatnot. Then out of the blue he asks me to stop talking to him. I was shattered -- I hadn't thought I did anything wrong! I replayed our last date over and over and over again and I couldn't put my finger on something I said, did, or implied to make him not want to speak to me again.
He responded to me about 5 hours later saying "I'm not about to get involved. I have to deal with my own shit and I've got too much to handel right now".
The only times I had ever talked about being in a relationship with him was when he'd say how he's lonely, how his ex was ungreatful for things he did for her, etc. Always when HE would bring it up.
He ended things in late August, and since then I have met someone else and I am now in a relationship. I've done all that I can to keep my mind off of this other guy... And I've been lying to myself in saying that I don't have feelings for him anymore... Truth is I'm in love with him. It has been a month and not a day goes by where he hasn't been on my mind at least once.
To make matters worse for me, today I texted him apologizing for "forcing" a relationship on him and that my actions were not intended to seem that way. I said I missed his friendship... He taught me so much about myself and about life in general and I cherished every moment I spent with him... When he texted me back he said he didn't know who I was. I asked if he was *Cristian and he said yes... And yet he doesn't remember me.
I feel like my heart has been broken for the second time by him... I just don't know what to do. I've been TRYING so hard to forget him but I just can't do it. I don't know what to do. Please help.
By the way: I'm 17/f and he is 20/m.
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I must say this is a tough question to answer. I am thinking that maybe he has some issues going on in his life that maybe he needs to be alone for a bit. The fact that he said he doesn't know who you are probably means that he knows who you are, but is too afraid of getting in trouble, (because of the age difference)! So he is probably trying to avoid a situation. Or I could be completely wrong about this!
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