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Going all the way
Okay. I a 17 year old girl and I have a boyfriend also 17 that I've been dating a couple of months now and we've touched the subject of sex lightly only because he knows im a virgin! He's not however! I feel im ready but since im a virgin and he's not I don't want to disappoint him with my lack of knowledge. I know to use a condom and every thing, I just don't feel I'll live up to it! I want him to be surprised, I don't know what to do!
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Well, the only thing you can do is try to make it unique, add things that would make it special for both of you, it may not be absolutely fantastic but it's your first time, he's not expecting above and beyond just yet, just try to wow him in your own comfortable style, I'm sure he'll love it.
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Wait until your married. Then you know that they love you for sure. If you sleep with someone and then you break up...it hurts. If someone will wait for you then it's true love.
Your virginity is something very special. You want to make sure that you give it to the right person.
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Well, i wouldnt try to empress him! I tried doing that by reading up on stuff and everything. But, when the time actually came i forgot it all anyways! Since he is more experienced then he will most likely answer youre questions and guide you through everything.
If it hurts dont hesitate to tell him to stop. Dont think in youre head "oh, if i tell him it doesnt hurt he'll think im cool" Thats def. a no no. hah [which you prob used common sense for that] But, make sure you are relaxed! If you dont make sure you are relaxed it will hurt. I made that mistake. it wasnt that pretty. And for my experience the 4th time was the time that started to feel good for me.
REMEMBER TO RELAX.
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Good luck
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