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we were bestfriends ..
mmk so my bestfriend since 6th grade and i started going out in 9th. we had this whole crazy connection, i cant be without you kind of relationship.(this was in 9th grade) well he wasnt actually allowed to date soo i only saw him at school and i think schools really important and when we started going out my grades dropped super low. because school was all "boyfriend time". and so i freaked out and pushed him away. and now its 10th grade and he hasnt really talked to me since. and i still love him. he doesnt really know what happened.. how do i get him back or to atleast get him to talk to me..he means the world to me..
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i suggest talking to him about it. from what it seems, you two were really close & then you pushed him away so he was probably confused about what was going on. he mite have thought you didn't like him or didn't want to be around him. just explain what had happened & let him know how you feel about him. good luck :]
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well there are other things you could do besides concentrate on you boyfrined only at school...like you could go places with a bunch of friends so the parents are ok with it. or go to his house and watch a movie and eat popcorn or something so his parents feel more in controll/comfortable. tell him why you broke up with him and that you still love him, and if he seems interested bring up some of those ideas^. hope i helped!!
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Yeah, I've been there. This acutally happend to me last year. Really the best thing to do is to just tell him what was going on and how you feel. And if he can't understand that then hes probably not a very good friend.
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I know what you mean. This has happened to a couple of my friends. I think that even though he may now talk to you. He still cares beacause if it was a "i cant be without you relationship it wouldnt just go away". I think that if maybe just wrote him a note and slipped it in his locker or Instant messaged him or called him up and told him what had happened i think if he is your bestfriend and a true friend he will understand.
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you should go tell him why you broke up w/ him and tell him how you feel. if he feels the same way you could try it again but just try to keep your grades up
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Before you approach him make sure you will have the time to prioritize school and have a boyfriend that will understand that. If all you want is to explain yourself, I would not say too much. We all freak out from time to time, and you don't want to get all emotional and freak him out. Guys are more forgiving then girls are in general. They really are simple creatures of few words. He will appreciate a, "Gosh, it is really good to see you, again. I was really overwhelmed trying to balance my social life and school life last year, but now I think I can handle both. See ya around (Big Gorgeous Smile)." You are home free!
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you really have to approach him about this. explain the whole situation. if he cares about you, he'll listen. he was probably just surprised that you pushed him away & he didn't know the reason. tell him you have to talk to him & its very important. he should at least give you 5 minutes of his time. that way, you can explain the entire situation. he should understand, because school is really important. if he means a lot to you, you should explain absolutely everything. that way you can guys can work things out & start by being friends again.
-hope that helped!♥
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