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I Hate My Moms Boyfriend
Okay...so when i was like...eight, my parents split up. and when around when i was 11(or twelve???) my mother met this guy on the internet(his name is nick). and she met with him after a while. and he said he was divorced. and then he lost his job (he lived in the appartment where he worked). and so without any questions about if i minded or anything...he moved in with us. and i hated it. everything was cramped and messy and nothing in our house matched. and i completly hated it. and then my sister (she was 17 then?) moved oout because she couldnt stand him and she dropped out of high school and went to live 60 miles away...so....none of my friends would come over when he was there...and all of my relatives hated him and really wouldnt talk to us..and my mom lost a lot of her friends and life was hell and my mom didnt see it. so then she found out that he was still married, and he was cheating on her with about 50 women. so she kicked him out and got a temporary restraining order and all kinds of stuf..and she was going to group meetings about women staying away from crazy men. and she was going really well...but then she started going out with him without me knowing. and now shes seeing him all the time. and i know hes cheating on her. and i really dont mind her going out with him just as long as she dosent bring him in to MY house while im there. (im 14 now) and the other day i was sitting at home all peaceful and she tells me that he was coming over. so i called my dad and told him to pick me up early so that i wouldnt have to spend too much time with nick there. and then he showed up and i had to talk to him. and my mom wants to move away to live closer to him (hes getting a job really far away which will give him plenty of time to cheat on her) and i would only get to see my dad everyother weekend (i see him about every other day...) and i dont know what to do! im thinking about moving in with my dad. but i dont know! HELP.
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i think you should tell her how you fell about her boyfriend. its not fair she did not ask you how you feel about him. if your mom dosent understand and you absolutly dont like him ask to move in with your dad. you should also put your self in your moms shoes. try to see whats best for you and your mom. and try to see if you can prove his guilt that might solve your probemsand kikk him out.
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Well I can tell you do like seeing your dad because you said you will only see him everyother weekend so Living with your dad is a good choice I mean if you are comfortable living with him then Personally I think that would be fine. If that does not work out then I would sit down and talk with your mom about him. Yes it is possible to be punished or something but most mothers like it when you tell them your problems. If she still ends up moving and the guy comes to your new house just try to avoid him as much as possible. I am letting you know this right now I am a guy so this website is more used to girls but I like to help people with all of their problems. If you need any more help you could im me on aim at shad0winthedark7 if you need it. Hope I helped you.
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