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child abuse i don't know
All day my sister has been stratching me pinching me hitting me and kicking me. Everytime we have the littlest arguement which is litally every 2 seconds, she has to hurt me in some way. She even bites me! I have marks all over my skin from everytime shes ever hurt me. My arms and legs are covered in stratches blood marks and brusies from her. I know all sisters fight with eachother but sometimes I feel like it gets outta hand. Today, she got mad at me and stratched me and she wouldn't stop I kept yelling get away from me and stuff and she wouldn't stop so I pinched her so she would get the fuck away from me. One little pinch sends her into tears and she runs to my mom and of course no matter how much my sister hurts me, if my sister is in one little pain of discomfort and blames it on me my mom will always take my sisters side. I showed my mom all of the marks, and she goes good I'm glad she does that to you, if you got hit by a bus right in front of me it would be hard for me to PRETEND like I actually care. I never care what people say to me but when it's my actual mom I break down crying because I hate knowing people don't care about me. My sister pinned me down on the floor and handcuffed my hands with my dads old handcuffs (he used to be a police 20 years ago) and she started kicking me so hard and pinching me I couldn't move I felt like I was going to burst and just die. My mom was 2 feet away watching all of this happen and kept saying hit her harder, hit her harder. My mom doesn't care what happens to me. So I was still pinned down in hand cuffs so I tried to kick her with my leg to get her away from me but I was closing my eyes and by mistake I LIGHTLY kicked her "bad arm" to make her stop torturing me and she starts balling her eyes out. Of course my mom yells on the top of her lungs "GODS GOING TO GET YOU DONT YOU DARE TOUCH MY BABY YOU USELESS PEICE OF SHIT GO SLIT YOUR WRISTS." I said "mom did you see what she was doing to me she had me pinned down in hand cuffs what did you expect me to do just sit there." And she goes "I don't care what she does to you I hope you die." and she walked away. I ran up to my room crying. And then about 20 minutes ago my sister got mad because we were playing a ps2 game and she lost so she pulled my long hair so hard a huge chunk of it came out and I didn't cry but I tried to hit her but she ran away so fast so I popped her balloon that she got 3 days ago from a restaurant. My sister told my mom (but of course left out the part about her pulling me hair) and my mom started yelling at me and threw me on couch and just started beating me she hit my head so hard about 9 times it still hurts and she tried to choke me with the balloon and tried to stuff it down my throat. I managed to get away and I ran up to my room. I'm 13 and my sister is 10 so of course she never gets in trouble. My sister gets so much clothes and toys and cds and anything she wants she automatically gets no matter how stupid it is. My parents don't buy me any clothes I have to wear the same clothes from 2 years ago that don't even fit me any more. They don't buy me any nice things and when we go out to eat they don't even let me buy a drink and make me order off the kids menu when I'm 13 and I'm skinny but I eat A LOT and I finish the kids meal in 5 minutes and I'm starving while my sister 3 years YOUNGER then me is munching on a huge steak with 3 sides. I hate it!!!! My sister never gets hit and I always do. My mom throws me against walls and she even does it infront of my friends!!!! I can't stand this my sister always hurts me and I always get in trouble. I tried the police, but my mom lies so much so of course they believe my mom. My friends help me out so much and make me feel so much better but if they arn't at my house they can't see whats happening to me and its up to me not to get myself killed because no one else cares.
What do I do? I'm sick of living like this. My mom and dad won't even let me have a talk to them about it.
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aw im sorry.
If you want you can message me at xxpatsgirl199xx@netscape.net or IM me at hopesx0fade . if you IM me which would be better because im normally on my cell and not on the comp a lot to check my email i can help you find a local place near you where you can get help.
other than tht i cnt tell you to run away because tht is never an option. do not cut as stated your mom told you to slit your wrists.
I hope you find something, but if you IM me, i will look for places for you.
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First of all you are not alone, no one deserves this and you need to get out. You need to go to your nearest social service agency and report it. They will remove you from the home and make sure you are safe.
This is not ok and I highly suggest that you get help now before something worse happens. There are safe places out there for you, if there is ever a question of anyone believing you instead of trying to run or staying at home start writing out as many details as you can remember when and where your mom and sister hit you, more so your mom and what your mom says to you. Also make sure you tell them about your lack of adequete food, clothing and other stuff you are not getting that you should be.
If you ever need help from the standpoint of a child and youth counsellor please email me even if its to help you deal with some of the social service people. sassysara_1975@hotmail.com
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omg that story made me cry! what i would do is join some after school activities like drama club or sports... if you are close enough to walk home then that is good but if you aren't there should be provided transportation like late buses that way your parents dont have to come get you i also suggest going to a school counciler tell them everything you told us.... next time you get beat take pics of the injuries and go to a police station to show them the effects... also if i were you i would cry in front of them to let them know you are really serious about that.
if you want to talk to me IM me my screen name is
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The fact that your mother has caused you physical harm and is allowing your sibling to cause you physical harm without any intervention is in itself child abuse. Please tell someone you know immediately. A teacher, a friend or friend's parent, a relative...anyone who will listen and not take your parents' side on the matter. If you are too freaked out about telling someone you know, call 1-800-422-4453 which is the national child abuse hotline. I'll be praying for you, I've had foster siblings and my mother that have been through the same thing and I know it's absolutely terrible. Even verbal abuse causes you a lot of hurt and pain in this case. If there's anything else I can do for you at all, feel free to IM me (my AOL Instant Messenger screen name is kkkermiiit) or send me another question on this website.
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you need to tell someone before it gets anyworse... since you tried the police.. try social services ask a social worker to come to your house for a day or two... set up a video camera or if you don't have a video camera take pictures of your bruises... or... you could ask one of your friends mom or dad to come over for a day to see what happens... then you could go to the police with there confession.. and if you have bruises,scars, or anything of the sort go straight to the police and so them proof... then your mother won't be able to lie... and when she hits you run straight out the door... go to a friends house...! and TELL SOMEONE
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omg :(That's deffinetly child abuse you havee to do somethign about it you can't let it go on. Tell the police. If your mom lies about it, somehow get evidence, bring your friends with you or show your bruises or something, whatever you can. There are numbers you can call, I've seen them in magazines, I just don't know any off the top of my head. Check magazines like Seventeen and cosmogirl and stuff and call. I'll tell you if i see any.
Good luck :/ <3 briana
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I can't believe that your family would do this to you. You NEED to tell someone about it. Maybe a teacher at school or a guidence counselor. If that doesn't work, call child protective services. By law they have to investigate every child abuse allegation. Show them the bruises. If there is any way you can, set up a tape recorder or a video recorder and try to get it on tape. This will help you when you show them to the police or child services. Take pictures of the bruises and get your friends to write statements saying what they saw. Make sure you keep telling people. If they don't believe you, then go to someone else. What state do you live in? I'll help you contact someone who can help you and put you somewhere you can't be hurt. Please keep your head up and know that this is WRONG and it's not your fault. No one deserves to be treated like this. Your mom should NEVER lay a hand on you in anger. That is child abuse. If you contact me via e-mail (XBrooklynHeights@aol.com) or instant message (s/n XBrooklynHeights) I will try to help you any way I can. Is there any way you can talk to one of your friend's parents for support or stay with them for a while until you can get the help you need? I think it would be a very good idea to get an adult whom you trust on your side. Try to stay around your friends as much as you can and remember that people do love you and they do care about you. You're just in a really bad position right now. I hope to hear from you. <3 Dana
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aw, honey, that's the saddest thing I've ever heard:(
you don't deserve that, at all.
the only thing I can tell you to do is call a child abuse hotline or something.
no offense, but your mom is out of control and a bit crazy. she can't treat you like that.
you're not worthless, and she treats you like you are.
tell anyone you can about this. you shouldn't live with people like that. you deserve so much more.
I really hope you get some help.
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That is horrible,
not only is that called
child abuse, but your mom is verbally abusing you as well.
Get help soon.
No one should deal with this,
call the police, tell someone,
tell a counsular, dont stop trying ot get help, keep trying until someone comes.
And justice is done.
I realize she is your mother
but NO ONE tells their child to die, and starves them, or physically abuses them, thats wrong.
Call 1-800-4-A-Child
Get help soon.
You'll be in my prayers.
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WOOOW!!!this is the CRAZIEST CASE ive seen on advicenators!!I would never say this to anyone but FORGET ABOUT YOUR FAMILY WOMAN!!!You need to get the hell away from that house before you get killed one day!!!!You know its actually GOOD that you have marks on your skin of your sister hitting you because that will be PROOF when you go to the police that your family hits you.Go to a teacher and tell her EVERYTHING and show her your marks on your skin and most importantly CRY.CRY LIKE YOU NEVER DID BEFORE WOMAN.Tell your teachers how you can no longer live with your family and that all your mom ever does is deny it.Tell the police too,TELL EVERYONE.And if that doesnt work,RUN AWAY!!!To a really close freinds house,get a job(at 13 you can find a job)And the most important thing imma tell you now is,BE THE BEST AT SCHOOL AND DONT LET YOUR EDUCATIION SLIP AWAY FROM YOU.Its the most important thing for you now.Itll help you have a future and get a real job later on.I wish you the veeerrrrrrry best of luck.If you neeed more help give me your yahoo or msn.
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