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"i love you"
for people who've been in past relationships or are in relationships:
how long did it take for the guy to say "Ilove you"? and what things did he do right before?i've been dating this guy for almost 4 months and he told me in the beginning that he doesnt say unless he really means it and i agreed with him but now im really feeling it and i know he really likes me but i dont want to be the first to say it. i know all relationships are different but i just want an idea how other relationships went.
16/f thanks.
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i am/was the guy and it does kinda take a while. i mean my gf said she loved me after like 4 months but i wasnt ready and didnt want to say it until i meant it. i ended up saying it around the 6-7 month period, but even then i still was a little hesitant. from a guy's point of view, it is really hard to open yourself like that. i think that you should say wat you feel and if that includes telling him you love him then do it, but also you might want to give subtle warning and watever you do, do NOT make him feel like he has to say it back right then unless he wants to.
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For my boyfriend it only took a month...but we were friends for 5 months before we started dating. I was his first kiss and girlfriend but dating my best friend is wicked awesome! If you feel something go with the feeling don't be scared just say it! If he feels the same he'll probably say it too...but if you need to get it off your chest then go ahead and say it girl!
Good luck
-Bess
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honestly you should just let it be. Don't rush into saying something so meaningful like that, and if he doesn't say it, it doesn't mean he doesn't adore and care about you, it just means he's not comfortable saying it yet. This is not a bad thing, just take it as it comes, and trust me, don't force those words, they're very special.
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