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I'm messed up.
okay well me and this guy had a "thing" for like two months and we both really liked eachother.
he is a huge jock and all the girls want him.
we went on a "date" on a friday and that night he texted me and said he had a really great time and he wanted to hang out saturday.
sunday he stopped by my house and ended up meeting my parents.
at school monday he was all saying hi and everything then that night he didnt text me and he usually ALWAAYS does.
then tuesday i hear that he thinks i'm to "shy" so i text him saying you think i'm too shy thats why you randomly stop talking to me? and then he says "not that your shy its just that we have two different personalities and that on our date it seemed like you (me) didnt want to be there.." and remember friday night he said he had a lot of fun on our date.
then wednesday i hear from people that he kissed another girl when he drove her home monday after school. (later i found out that she kissed him while he was driving "and he couldnt do anything about it")
now he and that girl are going out.. shes a freshmen and we are both sophomores. she is really short and he has to like go on his knees to kiss him. and he used to always tell everyone i was the most beautiful girl he has ever seen.
he ignores me now, and doesnt even talk to me.
i texted him one day asking why and he said that he thought it would be awkward and i would be mad and i said i really wasnt and i just want to be friends.
For one day he said hi to me in the hallway but now he STILL ignores me and doesnt even aknowledge i'm a living person.
and for some reason i still like him... its been 3 months since that happened.
why do i still like him? it kills me.
i'm a sophomore (16)/girl
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I'll keep this short and to the point.
Why do you still like him? You can't just drop your feelings at the push of a button. They have to gradually fade out, even if that person has hurt you in some way.
With a bit of time, you'll see him for what he really is. A fool. Who definitely isn't worth your time.
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Let him go he's nothing but a little immature boy. If he can't tell you to your face that he just wants to be friends thats childish. As a friend...I would question him I mean he couldn't tell you the truth one time what makes you think hew won't do it again. You want a friend you can talk to and what he has proven is he is NOT. Its hard to really know if you can trust him either.
Good Luck!
Bess
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sweetie i'm sorry to have to be brutally honest, but this guy is a dousche. You may have had strong feelings for him and it may have seemed like he liked you too, but this guy is jerking your chain. You're too good for that, and you are better off without his drama in your life. If he ignores you after you've been trying to talk to him or even say hi and make that effort to be cordial, he obviously isn't worth it.
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