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i think i shoudl dump him


Question Posted Saturday August 5 2006, 10:23 am

My boyfreind has had sex with 30 other girls and he prbably has alot of STDS and he cheats on everyone.its just in his nature. He cheated on my friend he cheated on all his other grilfriends. He tried to finger my friend when they were going out and my frined dint want him to and he wouldn't stop trying to do it. He's a man hore. He's only 16 too and he already had sex with 30 girls. And to top it all off, hes arrested right now I forgot what he did. I think hes too much truble for me because I'm not a good girl but I'm not that bad. hes already wanted sex with me the first day we were going out. I think i should dump him. Hes a bad kid and he will only cause more trouble to me. What do yuo think?

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Additional info, added Saturday August 5 2006, 10:24 am:
He told all his friends that hes using me for sex and i know they arn't lying because he does that with all of his girlfreinds..

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ilovejaredleeburns answered Monday August 7 2006, 11:58 am:
well... i would dump him! so if that's what you think is best then do it... because there's no reason in holding on to someone who is going to cause trouble and drama for you. it just makes no sense at all to do that... so if i were you i would just go ahead and do it, since you already want to anyway.
hope i helped! [[Good Luck]]
Destiny

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Lola answered Sunday August 6 2006, 2:22 am:
Hey,
This guy you are talking about is a total asshole and a hore as you said. So unless you want to be one, back off and leave this sex-obssessed guy. Why would you want to be with someone who has already fucked 30 girls? He doesn't love anyone of them and doesn't call anyone of them his girlfriend? And if you agree to be with him, then you will be one of these girls which he uses to have sex with, and fullfill his desires. you may not be a good girl, and maybe even a bad one compared to other girls, but you are most definitely not a hoar and not a prostetute to agreee to be with a guy like him.

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Hrcoole answered Saturday August 5 2006, 10:30 pm:
WHY ARE YOU EVEN ASKING THE QUESTION?! of course you should dump him, your friends are so right he is just using you for sex. i am very sure you have a good head on your shoulders in fact you asking the question tells me that. that's telling me that you know something is not right and you are just looking for more people to tell you that you are right. you are so much better than he is and he does not derserve your time or effort of any kind of relationship that he wants with you. if he is in jail and 16 and having sex with 30 girls it makes me wonder whatever happend to him in his childhood. do me and your friends- for those are the ones who are going to be really worried about you every minute and why would you want to put them through pain and missory watching you go with some guy that is not even worth a minute of your time. but most importantly yourself a favor and stay away from him as far as you can.

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caramella answered Saturday August 5 2006, 9:33 pm:
WOW!!um,why are you WITH this guy again??Being with him is going to lead you to the following
1)Bad reputation
2)STD's(DUH)
3)mabey even pregnant
4)being used
5)depression!
Dump him before its too late and before your completly in love with him.This guy doesnt love anyone and never did,hes too immature to feel love.How can you tolerate the fact that his freinds told you hes using you for sex and youre still with him??I woulda bitchslapped him and kicked him where it hurts,dumped him and ran off.muahah.Do the same.

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lmarielondon answered Saturday August 5 2006, 4:30 pm:
It sounds like he is not ready to be in a relationship, and that he needs to grow up abit more.You should dump him right away, especially if he's pressuring you to do sex.Being with him will only bring you more problems. Good Luck!

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xOViLLYxO answered Saturday August 5 2006, 2:53 pm:
DUMP HIS ASS. Doinf 30 girls , cheating on you , getting in all this trouble. Yeah you don't need him let him go.Get rid of him asap he's such a fag to you. ♥

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daddysgurl37 answered Saturday August 5 2006, 2:41 pm:
ok..are you ok?If he was doing that kind stuff you should of dumped him ALONG TIME AGO!!!!Amber:)

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RockStoleMySoul answered Saturday August 5 2006, 2:37 pm:
Sweetie I can't believe you're even asking this. He is an asshole. He really needs to go. He is one of those guys who just wants to fuck you. and if you let him get what he wants...he's still going to leave you...because he's a fucker. So you seriously need to end it with him and date a guy who appreciates you for more than your body.

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sunnyville answered Saturday August 5 2006, 2:07 pm:
You really should dump him he's no good,he's not worth it at all,he's definitely a player,and doesn't seem to have feelings to cheat on 30 girls,deserves no forgiveness for al his wrong doings,and when he grows into a very old person,he'll regret it but it'll be too late.

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loveydovey28 answered Saturday August 5 2006, 1:46 pm:
Honey, you need to let him go!!
30 girls at 16 years old? That's ridiculous. I understand everyone makes mistakes, people get caught up in trouble (arrested) but at 16 years old hes ruining his life. I hope all works out well with you and you make a good decision but personally, i think your best bet is to just let him go.

Tamera

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lilteacup answered Saturday August 5 2006, 12:54 pm:
Yes, dump him! Seems like all he's after is sex, what kind of relationship is that? Plus, there's all these other issues, stds, cheating, so before you get too attached break it off so he doesn't wind up hurting you.

Ok.and by the looks of the additional info, all I have to ask you is...why would you want to date a guy who is just using you for sex, don't you want a guy who will make you feel beautiful and appreciate you?

I rate him a pig!

-Teacup

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summerGIRL_xo answered Saturday August 5 2006, 12:28 pm:
Dump him right away. He told his friends he's using you for sex? What are you waiting for? DUMP HIM

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kristen22 answered Saturday August 5 2006, 12:25 pm:
Yea girl... He sound's like a bad seed - not to be mean. Him having sex with all those ppl and he's only 16! I'm 24 and I can count mine on my hands. It seems to me after reading what you wrote that he's just out to get some from you. You don't want that. Wether it's your first time or not, I know you do-every girl does (Excludin' the ho's) want's there first time to be with someone they truly love, care for and respect and for the guy to love care and respect them back. It makes everything that much better. Leave him alone and you go find someone that DESERVES you.

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UHOHxOMFG answered Saturday August 5 2006, 12:00 pm:
yesyesyes!

you dont need that trouble in your life.

you can do wayyyy betterrr.

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smartgirl321 answered Saturday August 5 2006, 12:00 pm:
dump him!! that guy seems like a big problem and something you dont want to be dealing with. he sounds like he could really mess up your life if you stay with him. you should dump him as soon as possible.

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missblonde answered Saturday August 5 2006, 11:58 am:
!!get rid of him girl!! hes only trouble and you dont need that he'll just bring you down to his level!! and you dont want to be forced into anything! and your right you dont no what deseases hes got!! you dont need him finish him asap before he tries to use you again!!

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SUPERGiRLxx answered Saturday August 5 2006, 11:48 am:
i completely agree with you when you said you think you should dump him. Chances are that he IS using you because if he wasnt then he wouldnt have tried anything with you on your first day of going out.. my advice is dump him before he pressures you to do something you dont want to do and before you even have a chance of getting an STD from him (you were right when you said he probably has a lot of them)

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