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im fifteen. im not gonna say my name because it doesnt matter & my friends would feel weird asking me for advice lol. im a girl so i know the answers to girls problems lol and i can help with practically any question you might ask. if you dont like my advice then just dont ask me for it or dont listen to what i tell you, everyone's entitled to their own opinion.
i am hoping to be a psychologist some day but im not sure if that dream will come true because im only a sophmore in high school so i still have a long way to go before i choose a career.
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My boyfreind has had sex with 30 other girls and he prbably has alot of STDS and he cheats on everyone.its just in his nature. He cheated on my friend he cheated on all his other grilfriends. He tried to finger my friend when they were going out and my frined dint want him to and he wouldn't stop trying to do it. He's a man hore. He's only 16 too and he already had sex with 30 girls. And to top it all off, hes arrested right now I forgot what he did. I think hes too much truble for me because I'm not a good girl but I'm not that bad. hes already wanted sex with me the first day we were going out. I think i should dump him. Hes a bad kid and he will only cause more trouble to me. What do yuo think?
i completely agree with you when you said you think you should dump him. Chances are that he IS using you because if he wasnt then he wouldnt have tried anything with you on your first day of going out.. my advice is dump him before he pressures you to do something you dont want to do and before you even have a chance of getting an STD from him (you were right when you said he probably has a lot of them)
Sorry, this may be a bit long...
I have a non-severe (or I don't think it's severe) case of social anxiety. I'm 13/f and I've always been very shy...I'm not the people type and I don't really like talking and dealing with people too much. I don't like going places by myself and I don't like picking up the phone OR drawing attention to myself. Usually I have some one go with me all the time to places and talk to people for me, and everyone is starting to get annoyed with the fact that I always need them for simple things. My mom recently got me a book about it and I don't like it AT ALL because I don't understand it...so now she wants me to go to a counselor!!!! I DON'T want to go to any shrink whatsoever because I don't think that will help...I've been to a councelor before about something else and I HATED IT because I hate being talked to in that "shrink" way. I'm refusing to go but she says I have to if I want to "overcome this problem I have". I think my problem is I just don't want to embarrass myself in front of other people and I don't like being by myself because I'm terrified of being kidnapped or something like that. Just now my mom tried to talk to me about (I don't like talking about things with her because she's like a counselor and it really annoys me) it but I refused to talk and now I'm really upset because she's mad at me. Should I really go to a counselor? Maybe I should get another book? I want to avoid the counselor at all costs...maybe I should just have an open talk about it with my mom and tell her those real reasons why i'm so anti-social? HELP!
I understand why you wouldn't want to see a counselor, especially because you dont like talking to people about stuff like this. So I personally think that you should tell your mom exactly what you wrote here, she would understand your situation better. Counselors wouldnt be the best idea for you because you dont like talking to people much so I think you should avoid going to one unless you feel comfortable.
what are some symptoms of depression?
I would say if you ever consider suicide or physically hurting yourself then those are serious signs of depression. There are also small signs such as always feeling upset or angry all the time.
My friend Tracee has had a couple boys this past year. I have not really, but I am not jealous. I don't try to get guys to like me because I haven't really found anyone I really like this past year. Thing is, I've heard that she's been saying stuff behind my back about it. That supposedly like no boys like me and I have no "expierence" and I don't know guys at al she supposedly said to my one friend. Like, if I don't care about it, why does she? Should I say something or let it go?
Be careful about it because you don't seem to know for sure that she said anything. Just approach her and casually ask her about it. Or just bring up the subject and be like "hopefully the boys will be better next year" or something so she doesnt think you have no experience.
Whats some good hairstyles to wear to weddings? Thanks soo much
here's a few websites :)
i hope you find something you like!
- http://www.weddinghair.com/
- http://hairstyles.free-beauty-tips.com/wedding_hairstyles.html
and this is a really cool site where you can see what hairstyle would look best on you..
http://www.hairfinder.com/virtualweddinghairstyles.htm
i don't really think this is in the right category, sorry, but...
there use to be this fish game that i use to play all the time. you had to like feed the fish and they would multiply and you could buy stuff with your money and stuff from pearls that things made. i think it started out with like 2 fish. these fish were in a little tank. does anyone know the site for this game? THANKS.
YESSS! i used to love that game
its called insaniquarium.. and if you want to play it the site is below :)!
http://www.freshpulp.com/fishtank/fishtank.html
any tips an larger lips?
well here's a site with a ton of different answers for your question..
http://www.faqfarm.com/Q/How_can_you_make_your_lips_look_bigger
hope it helps you!
ok well i found out that my best friend shane really liked me and he liked me like the whole year and i thought that was pretty kool and i kinda liked him to so i asked him out well then he was like wayy over obsessive and all and i didnt no wat to do so i dumped him 3 days later and now he seems really mad at me and its been like 2 weeks i wanna be his friend again so badly but he just doesnt wanna talk to me right now.. What should i do???
well tell him that your sorry that the relationship didn't work but it was moving too fast for you.. you would rather take it slow
as for the 'he's upset with you' thing.. he's probably just feels bad that you dont want to be with him but he'll get over it sooner or later.. just keep trying to talk to him and he'll forgive youu
16.Male Hey I'm not sure if it's becase of finals lately, but even before last week, I've found that I wake up and get a headache...really bad ones. When I go to sleep I usually don't have one, actually havn't at all. So why is this?
I have two pillows, a soft feather one that kinda sinks, and then one of those foam ones with the bend in them. I switch on and off, sometimes use both with a different one on top, but either way as soon as I wake up a headache hits me. Why is this? I can't take medicine on an empty stomach right away, so what should I do? Thanks.
well i would wait until summer and like.. if a week after summer starts your still getting headaches than you can do one of these things..
- either go to a doctor
- take medicine for it at night so you wont have to take it on an empty stomache and you wont have to wake up with one in the morning..
good luck on your finals if your still taking them lol :)
what are some other great pop punk bands? i like the academy is, matchbook romance, cute is what we aim for, taking back sunday, something corporate, motion city soundtrack, hellogoodbye and all that stuff. if you give me at least 5 good bands then ill rate!
i like the same kinds of bands as you and some of my favorites are:
- acceptance
- the fray
- hawthorne heights
- the starting line
- the postal service
My mother and me never had a 'great' relationship...she never was around when I was growing up, etc. Anyway so my grandma got sick and we're building a relationship.
I never do that good at school but this term I really want to. I have 5 days until test and to tell you the truth I haven't opened a book! I have about 3 weeks of exams and I really want to do and make my mum and myself proud.
See my mum is really pissed at me because I don't study and I'm online as soon as I arrive home. I know this is bad and I want to change...but the more I want to change the more I can't. So I was wondering the best way to concentrate on books and not the computer. Please DON'T give me a site because it really doesn't work. Jus tell me something that works for you...
well what works for me, to make studying easier and more fun, i make games with the chapters. like for instance, i usually get really bored with studying and thats why i like to go on the computer right away. if you make the studying fun then you'll want to keep playing. if your studying for a language test then write out cards in spanish and tape them to different objects in the house nd then translate them to see if you got them right. Play games like that. It's even better to study with friends for me because you can create games together.. :)
thats what makes studying fun!
So it's not so much a pickle of what to do, moreso this character needs a last name that isn't ordinary but not unheard of and unpronouncible.
Kathryn Jade
But I have the imagination for plot, not namesake.
hmm here's some ideas
- anderson (its kinda used a lot but not really)
- burton
- johnson (also kindaused a lot)
- o'donnel
- livingston
- patterson
idk.. some of those are used a lot but not around where i live.. good luck finding a name and writing the book
okay i was on this website and this guy got my aim s/n from it and we started talking. he kept askin me so many questions like what do you look like? how old you are? where i go to school at? and if i have a b/f. so i answered everything not honestly cuz i dont no if he is a stalker.lol. then he finally asked if we could meet sometime. my question is should i continue to talk to him because it seems like he wants a relationship which would mean we have to meet. and i do not want to meet with him in real life cause of all those sick people out there. so should i continue to talk to him or what do i do? will rate high. thanks!
dont meet up with him. just dont. veryy bad idea.. stick to boys closer to your age because if this guy is like a stalker or something, he could hurt you or rape you or something so just play it safe and stop talking to him..
better safe than sorry because he could be some 46 year old man =/
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hey, i tried a spray-on SUNLESS TANNER (neutrogena) and it was AWFUL! i had streaks all down my legs and it was so EMBARRASING!I mean, i prepared my skin and everything, but it still looked bad. do any of y'all know a good sunless or ANY fake tanner that can give me a natural look without screwing up, and if it DOES screw up, how can i get rid of it...fast? PLEASE tell me if you have any suggestions!
definitely try Jergen's Natural Glow. It's great and i know lots of people who use it & it works for them =)
I am not very good at putting makeup on. Also, i am almost all irish...so i dont tan very well so i'm kind of pale. What is a good way to (and a good kind) of makeup to use to make mayself look tanner AND OLDER i look kind of younger than i acutally am.
okay well i am just like you, i'm irish & pale too. the best way to make us look tanner would be to use tanning lotion, preferably Jergen's Natural Glow ( http://www.jergens.com/products/index.asp?action=viewProduct&id=15 ) because it really works. and for other makeup, just put a little eyeliner and some mascara on.. thats really all you'd need in my opinion
well, i was in my bf's room a few weeks ago and he left for a moment, and i found a piece of paper saying "her" with an email address. I got immediately suspicious and remembered the email.
Later I added the email using a fake account and it turned out to be his ex! I started talking to her out of curiosity and we became "friends" she soon started going on about her ex and I know it was my bf she was referring to. i know they had been together a very long time and i think he really liked her, but the rest of the details of the relationship he didn't tell me because he knew i would be jealous. we were only friends when he was dating her. now i'm finding out all sorts of things, and i've found out he's lied to me about a few things from his past. she's also made out that he still isn't over her but she is over him. he told me he was over her. i really didn't mean to find this stuff out. the more i find out, the more upset i get. besides, i keep comparing myself to her because she's older than me and has had so many bfs and experience, and my bf seemed to like her more than me!
what should i do? should i continue speaking to her, or tell my bf everything and confront him? i feel awful about it now.. i wish i had never added her because it was going behind his back. but i also feel i need to keep speaking to her to find out the truth. this is a hopeless situation - please help? thank you
well you cant take back what you did or forget what you found out. if your sure that he still likes his ex and there's a possibility they might get together again then i say you let him go. see what happens. if he lied to you then he's keeping things inside of himself which could be second thoughts about your relationship.
dont compare yourself to her becaue its not worth it. she isn't perfect and she probably made a lot of mistakes with everything too. so i dont think you should talk to her or your boyfriend about what went on because its just going to cause trouble.
Sometimes when im alone in my room i will talk to myself..like its hard to explain but i talk to myself out loud..except i answer myself too..its like i work myself thru my problems by talking to myself..does anyone else do this? or is there something wrong with me? i feel stupid for doing it and if anyone were to ever hear me i would die but is it okay to do this?
dont feel stupid for doing it.. i do it too sometimes lol, its not a bad thing. But if anyone caught me doing it then i'd be totally embarassed too =P but yeah its perfectly fine
ok so this doesn't go under that catagorie sex but if anybody has a review on the movie HOSTEL I would like to hear it. Please state if there is nudity, sexual content,etc... thanx
ok well i saw the first 5 minutes and HAD to turn it off but my brother watched the whole thing. its basically all just nudity and he said the end was gross so its just not a movie you should see.. =/
I was at my cousins house yesterday and she cussed me out and I was wondering what I should do about it becouse if I tell my mom she won't let me go to her house anymore and my cousin and I are like sisters so I don't want that to happen what should I do?
tell her you didnt like fighting with her like that and that you want to be friends still. dont tell your mom about it because, like you said, she'll probably not want you to be near her. just let time pass and work things out with her, it'll all turn out fine
ohkay, everyone is telling me that the world is going to end in 4 days (6-6-06) (the devil's number.) I AM REALLY SCARED OVER THIS. I CAN BARLEY SLEEP. im like pettrified. is what they're telling me true or is a myth? and do you believe it? and should i be scared?
thanks guys.
whoever told you the world is gonna end in 4 days was just trying to scare you. yeah it is the devils number but that doesnt mean anything at all. i honestly dont believe it at all so dont be scared, its nothing to worry about. it'll just be another normal day =)