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i dated my friend shane
ok well i found out that my best friend shane really liked me and he liked me like the whole year and i thought that was pretty kool and i kinda liked him to so i asked him out well then he was like wayy over obsessive and all and i didnt no wat to do so i dumped him 3 days later and now he seems really mad at me and its been like 2 weeks i wanna be his friend again so badly but he just doesnt wanna talk to me right now.. What should i do???
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awhh babe, i know how that is. wait it out a little, then talk to him. just tell him that you still want to be friends with him. right now, he's just upset you two broke up. hope i helpedd. good luckk. ♥
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Ok boys are really immature either when you break up with them they act like you ment/mean nothing to them or they hold a grudge the eaisyest thing to do would Just apoliageize and say how it was bbetter off just being friends and how you like him as a friend and dont want this to come in the way of it..
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___Briana___
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i would wait hun let him cool down and then tell him you realy want 2 b his friend and that you are sorry that it ended like that but it had to.
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i know what your talking about this guy asked me out and i said yea b/c i sorta liked him but then he told everyone and made this HUGE deal so i freaked and broke it off. he was mad at first but were friends now. you need to find a way to explain to him that you really like being his friend and being his girlfriend just didnt feel comfortable. try to tell him in person or write him a note. tell him your really sorry for hurting him and that you want to be his friend. he may still be mad but these things take time. good luck!
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give it time!!!
maybe his feelings did change and maybe he doesnt see you as a friend any more but i thinkthe best way to show someone that you care about them i slet them know. if he is ever online or something tell him that you cared and still do care about himeven though he may not. and say youll always be there for him if he ever needs anything at all.
but dont keep bugging him about it because that will push him away even more.
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As the situation is with ANY relationship, no matter how you saw it, or how you thought he saw it, feelings wee involved. Im guessing that the relationship wasnt quite a life or death thing to you, but for him, for a guy to like one person, and one person alone for an entire year, he really liked you, and this most likely meant a lot to him. and to be let down in three days...thats gonna hurt, bad. its gonna take him some time to get over this. not only were you someone he really liked, but you were his friend, and the feelings of rejection (however unintentional) will take some time to get over...so my advice, after all my meaningless blabbing, is to give him some time to get over this. keep talking to him, no matter what, if you want him as a friend, make it clear (in actions, saying it straight to him can wait till later) that you still like him as a friend, but the boyfriend girlfriend thing just isnt working out. so basically, give him time, keep talking to him, and make it clear that you still want to be friends, and in time, everything should be fine...hope i helped
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well tell him that your sorry that the relationship didn't work but it was moving too fast for you.. you would rather take it slow
as for the 'he's upset with you' thing.. he's probably just feels bad that you dont want to be with him but he'll get over it sooner or later.. just keep trying to talk to him and he'll forgive youu <3
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