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best friend/cousin
Okay, my best friend was dating my cousin for awhile, but then they broke up, Two weeks ago, they got back togeather, and my cousin came up for a visit. They hung out and everything was okay. Now my best friend (which by the way, there both 13), just broke up with him, cause she's saying "she didn't know how wild he was" because she just found out that he made out with his old girlfriend on her bed! But he wasn't even dating my friend at the time, so it's no big deal. So now she's being all gay, and i dont understand how to deal with this situation. Should i be mad at her, for hurting my cousin, or should i just let it slide? I love my cousin alot, he's like one of my best friends, but she's one of my best friends too! HELP
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let it slide, it sounds to me like your friend is over reacting to a silly situation and you cant change her mind. she may just be hurt that he would do that and then date her, like she thinks he'll cheat on her or something. i would just stand back and let them work it out on there own. i hope everything works out for the best!
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I think you should leave the two to work it out on their own. if u get involved it can get complicated. So if your friend tries to drag you into it, just ask her to not involve you because you love them both and dont want to see one of them get hurt.
best wishes!
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IF I WAS YOU I WOULDNT GET TO INTO IT IF THEY TRY TO SAY STUFF ABOUT THE OTHER PERSON TO YOU BEHIND YOUR BACK JUST CHANGE THE SUBJECT AND REMENBER NO MADDER WHAT YOU DO TO YOUR CUZZ HE'LL ALWAYS FORGIVE YOU A FRIEND WONT ALWAYS --alley
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I would let it slide and let them work it out for themselves
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Try to understand that when a relationship ends, someone usually gets hurt. I know you love your cousin and your friend and want to see them happy, but if she doesn't want to be with him, you can't be mad at her for that. Maybe she's intimidated by his "experience". Maybe she thinks that he'll expect things she's not willing to give. No matter what, though, support BOTH of them, because right now they BOTH need you.
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well i think you should talk to your friend and tell her that they werent even together at that time so its not that bad. if she doesnt understand wait for her to cool off or ask your cousin to explain the situation to her since it happened to him. if she still doesnt understand just let it slide. theres not mush u can do since its your opinion thats shes overeacting and such.
hope i helped somehow.
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this is my personal opinion, number one your bestfriend has no reason to be angry with him. if he made out with his ex and wasn't dating your friend she has nothing to worry about. number two don't be mad at your friend either. i think that you should tell her that she doesn't have to get mad at him and shouldn't have broken up with him (in a calm and soft tone) because of that. also, don't let it slide, because again she shouldn't have been mad for something small like that.
hope i was helpful!
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