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I've been having this horrible pain, about 5 inches to the right of my belly button. It'll come for about 30 seconds, then go away. But it`ll hurt so bad it forces me to sit down.
(its not period cramps, it hurts much worse, and its totally different, plus I had mine last week)
And now, I feel faint, really hott, and super dizzy. When I was at the movies I was nauses (sp?)
What could be wrong? Please help, I feel horrible! (link)
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well one thing i know is that it isn't your appendix, its a little lower and appendisites takes place in 24 hours. i think that if it keeps hurting you should tell your parents and go see a doctor to make sure it isn't anything serious.
hope i was helpful:)
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ok well a couple of days ago i put on perfectly clean underwear and at the end of the day it looked like i had gotten my period. i havent gotten my period yet so i thought i was starting to get it. so the next day i didnt think i got it, so i put new perfectly clean underwear and it did the same thing. like it had little redish brownish stains on it. so then the next day i still didnt put a pad on and i put perfectly clean underwear and nothing showed up on it or whatever. is this normal? like it was for 2 days that i got those little stains on my underwear now it stopped. is this a sign that im getting my period soon? does it usually do this?
thanks im advance.
p.s.-sorry it was so long (link)
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a week before by little sister started her first period she did the same and it is normal, its just a little different with everyone.
hope i was helpful:)
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Well, I broke up with my boyfriend of a year and 2 months last night around 11:50. I dont even know what I was thinking! I was confused and I kept thinking about what would happen if he broke up with me. then I guess I started conviceing myself that he WAS cheating on me and I broke up with him. He didnt seem too upset. After I got off the phone with him I balled my head off for hours. I even started gasping for air and then started choking. I dont know what that was all about but thats how much I was crying. anyways then I talked to my friend Zach till i dont know what time but we talked for at least 3 hours. He cheered me up some but I still cant help but think about him. I love him more than life itself! I miss him so much and I dont think he misses me. I want to call him and say sorry and everything but Im afraid he wont care! I miss him so much you have no idea! Please help! should I call him?!?!? Should I just move on??! please Ill rate 5's i swear! (link)
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i know why you can't help but to feel bad and can't stop thinking about him because you dated for a long time, in my opinion i think it would be better and easier for you to just move on. if he didn't seem too upset it was probaly because he already saw it coming, but thats just my pointview. if you think you should call him and say your sorry then go ahead.
i hope i was helpful:)
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Okay here's the deal i wanna lose weight but i dont know how. i'm pretty big, i'm chunky but not fat. NO... i wanna lose weight and look thin. how can i do this? how can i accomplish my goal?
Please help me!!!! (link)
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first you want to start eating healthy, meaning no snacks, no junk food, no sweets. next you want to stick to the basic food which is breakfast, lunch and dinner. if you don't eat breakfast start, because breakfast is a big thing when losing weight. a bowl of cereal is fine. next try to get up early and stretch and walk or jog around your block for at least an hour(don't walk alone, try to get a friend to walk with you in the morning.) then start doing some exercises like pilates, this works for me. you can find pilates videos at a Hollywood video store. if you do this everyday, trust me you'll be able to lose weight and inches.
I hope i was helpful!
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he tells me that he does not want to treat me like that meaning talk to me in a ruid way but he says that everytime he thinks about that he just end up talking to me like that I told him that everytime he remember that he should just talk to me and tell me that he can forget about that but not talk to me like that becuase he's making it seem like it was all my falt I tap kissed with my ex. He also told me that it will take him along time to be the same guy he use to be. do you thing he still loves me and want to fix our relationship or he just wants to stay thinking about what happens between my ex and me (link)
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if he reallys loves you and wants to fix the relationship he should be able to foget about it in less than a couple of weeks, but if he just keeps saying things to you then it's all up to you if you want to leave him. i can't really tell you what to do, but i can tell you that it wasn't your fault that you tapped kissed you ex because everyone makes mistakes, whether theer big or small or their forgiven or not.
I hope that i was helpful!
PS: like i said, he's not the only guy in the world, don't forget that.
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My mom made me a doctors appotment in August with a regualar pediatricion. (i'm 13)
I'm gonna get a physical or a check-up, I can't remember which one. Thing is, I havn't been to the doctor since I was 7 or 8. So, of course, I've gotten my period since then.
Will my doctor want to take a look "down there"?
(Sorry my spellings kinda messed up, I'm in a hurry) (link)
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it depends if he thinks its neccessary, just make sure that your mom is present at the time.
I hope i was helpful!
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hi im 15 years old and i've been with m boyfriend for 6 month.
I made a mistake I tap kiss with my ex so I decided to tell my boyfriend he forgive me but hes been talking to me in a ruid way that really makes me feel bad and cry. im so depressed. When i ask him why hes treating me like this he said is because he can stop thinking of what I did with my ex he says he treats me like that because of what hes always thinking.. What should I do should i just leave him since he wants to treat me in a ruid way.. can you please give me some advice on what I can do on my situation?
thank you (link)
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if really like this guy i think it would be better if you broke up with him, but not because he's being rude to you. but because you really care about him and if he always thinking about what you did then stop his pain and hurting by breaking up with him. also, another choice is to talk to him and tell him that you're really sorry for what you did and that if he doesn't want to trust you or forget what happend then tell him that you understand. don't forget that he isn't the only in this world.
I hope i was helpful!
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Okay, my best friend was dating my cousin for awhile, but then they broke up, Two weeks ago, they got back togeather, and my cousin came up for a visit. They hung out and everything was okay. Now my best friend (which by the way, there both 13), just broke up with him, cause she's saying "she didn't know how wild he was" because she just found out that he made out with his old girlfriend on her bed! But he wasn't even dating my friend at the time, so it's no big deal. So now she's being all gay, and i dont understand how to deal with this situation. Should i be mad at her, for hurting my cousin, or should i just let it slide? I love my cousin alot, he's like one of my best friends, but she's one of my best friends too! HELP (link)
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this is my personal opinion, number one your bestfriend has no reason to be angry with him. if he made out with his ex and wasn't dating your friend she has nothing to worry about. number two don't be mad at your friend either. i think that you should tell her that she doesn't have to get mad at him and shouldn't have broken up with him (in a calm and soft tone) because of that. also, don't let it slide, because again she shouldn't have been mad for something small like that.
hope i was helpful!
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what are things you can do for a one year anniversay? (guy who is planning for a girl)
i need to know for my friend so please help asap (link)
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it depends if he's on a budget then get her something small, but still nice. if he's got the money then, take her out to eat or buy her a promise ring or necklace girls love that. nothing else that i can say, because again, it depends if the guy is cheap.
hope i was helpful!
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this boy i've been kind of flirting with for most of the school year. and he's been definitly flirting back! and on the last day of school our friends made this poser saying "go out already" and got the ENTIRE class to sign it! including the teacher. everyone thinks we're meant to be. and then today he i/med me saying that he has this g/f who i dont like, and like bragging. I couldn't believe it. and then he told me that he was gonna ask me out but then it didnt work our. and when i asked how it didnt work out he said he truly didnt know. im jealous and sad. he said it might work out later, and i said that idk because i dont want to be the second choice
and idk what to do.
thanks ♥
*jackie* (link)
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if hes got a gf and he brags about it, then tells you that he was going to ask you out but it didn't 'work out', he probaly still likes you but wants to make you jealous before he does ask you. if you don't want to be the second choice and don't really like him tell him. and then if you do like him, and still don't want to be second choice... its really up to you. i don't know what else to tell you because i'm not going to tell you to say yes or no, because it's not my choice or right to say that. just do what you think you want.
i hope that i was helpful!
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So, a couple times a day, maybe like 5 or 6, I get this thing where it feels like to get a good breath I have to breath really deeply in and out for like 5-10 minutes. It also always feel slike my airway is a little constricted but more so during these "breathing episodes". I went to the doctor yesterday but he said everything was fine but yesterday I didn't have to breath deeply for 5-10 minutes to get a good breath, it was just to feeling of constant constriction. Anyways, the doctor sent me to radiology of the hospital to get x-rays which turned out fine. It's especially hard to sleep at night as well. During these "breathing episodes" I also get really light headed and dizzy. Does anybody have any ideas of what i might have or how to help it or what to do next? Btw, Im 14/f. (link)
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my mom's a nurse and to me it sounds like you might have a heart condition where you need to breathe deeply just to get a small amount of oxygen. my advice is that a doctor isn't a good choice for this, all he's going to say is that everything is fine or it's not anything to worry about. if your really concerned, i think you should see a specialist or a cardiologist, just to get their opinion or help.
i hope i was helpful!
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well i got this girl who did tell me anything and would let me help her out with her problems but now she is alway trying not tell anyone and it really bugs me cause she alway down and depressed and i want to help so bad how do i get her to talk to me and relex and be happy... i think she's mad cause she thinks her b/f is cheating on her help please (link)
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if she's always down or depressed and doesn't want to talk about her problems, just tell her "Hey, i'm not going to bug you, but if you want to talk to someone i'm all open ears." and if she still doesn't want to say anything, then just try to encourage her or help bring her self-esteen up.
i hope i was helpful!
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Hey... ok, this question is crazy so don't say I didn't warn you.
I think I'm looking for opinions more than advice... and I want to hear what you all think!!
Ok, I am a 20 year old female and I am about to start my third year of college. I have a boyfriend that I have been with for about 3 years. We actually went out for 2 years, then broke up for 8 months because I didn't want a relationship, and have now been back together for a few months. He is deffinitely the love of my life, and we intend on getting married in the future.
Why in the future and not now? Well, he recently joined the army and will be in it for the next 4 years. He is now stationed across the country and is going to Iraq for a year soon. He visits as much as he can, and we have no problems making the relationship work. We always talk about getting married in 4 years, because that is when he will get out of the army and I will be finishing up college.
So what is my question about? Well, we got to talking the other day, and the idea of us getting married NOW came up. The reason this even came up is because if we do it now, he will get payed twice as much for being married and in the military. Not only that, but I will also be able to get on his health insurance plan provided by the army. And lastly, the army would pay for my last four years of college... and because I am not eligible for financial aid, that would save us about 150,000 dollars in loans (after interest) once I am graduated.
If we get married now, there would be no ceremony since it's too last minute... he leaves for Iraq in 2 months. We would just sign the papers and be legally married. In your opinion, is this a mistake? Is it selfish or in bad taste? We both intend on getting married to each other, and we both love one another and have faith in the relationship. If we get married now, we intend on having a big ceremony in a year or two. What do you think? I mean if we are getting married anyway and love each other, shouldn't we just do it now and make our lives in the future easier?
All opinions are welcomed and appreciated! Thanks! :) (link)
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personally i think, that if you think that you're really going to want a short wedding, just sign the papers and get it over with. But, if you think that you can wait and want a big wedding and party with all of your friends and family go for it.
I hope that i was helpful!
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